Do you know that needy behavior is a huge turn off? Do you know most needy people keep getting rejected simply because they don't know they are needy? So what constitutes needy behavior and what can one do about it? Find out here!
1. Have a fear of being alone.
2. Need others to ... Views: 132
Are you one of those individuals who craves to have friends around you all or most of the time? If so have you ever wondered what motivates your craving? Have you ever wondered how discriminating you are when it comes to the types of people you choose to invite into your life and into your ... Views: 141
Have you ever felt so unhappy in a relationship but could not muster up the courage to discuss your feelings with your partner? So instead, in order to rectify things, although you may not have felt this was what you were actually doing at the time, you chose to use self sabotage as a way ... Views: 99
Do you know that negative thoughts can be permanently, rapidly and effortlessly deleted from the conscious mind? Do you know that means they must first be deleted at their source?
Do you know that source resides in the subconscious mind? Do you know few know how to access that source and ... Views: 77
There is something that just about everyone wants, and that is to feel good. It plays a big part in what someone does and doesn’t do. This can relate to one feeling emotionally centred and at ease internally and/or through having a heightened sense of wellbeing because of what is taking place ... Views: 136
At the end of your life, I want you to be able to look back and marvel at the way you handled your anxiety disorder. I don't want you to look back and think 'what if'? This path you are heading down may be unfamiliar and uncomfortable, but it is the path that you must take. Take it now, take ... Views: 101
What a crazy year for me, I started The Anxious Athlete with the hopes of helping people through their anxiety which is now looking like an epidemic of some sorts. I still remember the day I walked out of my home after spending 31 days locked up due to my Agoraphobia, that was some day... I ... Views: 89
When my friend was diagnosed with cancer and was facing radiation and chemotherapy, I wondered what I could I do when I lived 2,000 miles away. I couldn’t do any of the usual things to help. Normally, I might offer to drive her to chemotherapy and radiation sessions, take care of her kids, or ... Views: 242
I don’t want or need to change my behavior. This is probably the most common reason for not changing how anger is expressed. No change is likely until the abuser ‘puts down the binoculars and picks up a mirror.’ Often shame is at the core of men and women who are ... Views: 180
Anger Management skills can be helpful for people ranging from the mildly miffed to the violently vengeful. You do not need to be in a physically violent relationship to benefit from understanding and learning about communicating angry and hurt feelings constructively. Secondly, if you are ... Views: 130
Anger Management skills can be helpful for people ranging from the mildly miffed to the violently vengeful. You do not need to be in a physically violent relationship to benefit from understanding and learning about communicating anger and hurt feelings constructively. Secondly, if you are ... Views: 137
The Dream Domain: Where Inner Wisdom Knows No Boundaries.
Don’t be fooled into thinking that your dream world is ‘Only just a Dream’. In fact, it’s the time and space where your Inner Wisdom comes alive! It’s the perfect opportunity where we all get the chance to explore latent feelings, ... Views: 107
The past is far from the ideal place to set up residence, but I've been living in it for quite a while now. The past is a familiar neighborhood, and I am afraid it might be hard to leave, but leave it I must if I want to start actually living before an alarming death rattle comes up through my ... Views: 198
Do you procrastinate, avoid new challenges, make excuses, stay in your comfort zone at the expense of your happiness, live a constricted and unfulfilled life, pass up on promising opportunities, and sabotage your chances of improving your life and so on? Do you know that you likely harbor a deep ... Views: 119
Most of us carry within us negative or bad memories of events we've experienced in our lives. How many of us actually stop and consider the effects these memories have on our lives? Probably not many. If I said to you that they are the most significant issue that affects our happiness, level of ... Views: 97
Do you know that many overweight women subconsciously employ fat as a way of making themselves unattractive? Do you know this is supposed to fend off men who are perceived as a threat to their physical and emotional safety and security? Do you know this pattern stems from early childhood abuse ... Views: 98
Do you know that a large number of individuals repeatedly find themselves feeling depressed during the holiday season and yet are confused about why this is? Do you know the main reason many fall into a depressed state is because this time of year forces them to stop and reflect on how they are ... Views: 108
Sobriety is an interesting thing, especially as most people initially attempt to find recovery at a 12-step meeting. The focus of this article is to discuss a different way of staying sober that is outside the confines of AA or NA, or a traditional approach to recovery.
I used alcohol and ... Views: 220
Stress kills. Maybe not directly but it is definitely one of the leading causes of ailments and diseases worldwide. There are many stress induced ailments that have great potentials of leading to early morbidity or, at the very least, make peoples live full of physical difficulties such as high ... Views: 105
Do you know that negative thoughts are like an internal "mental storm" that often never ends leaving one feeling hopeless, despairing and like giving up? Do you know it is possible to create perpetual sunshine of optimism, hope and enthusiasm for life even in the midst of the worst mental ... Views: 115
“Purebred” schizoids shrug off their disorder: they simply don’t like being around people and they resent the pathologizing of their lifestyle “choice” to remain aloof and alone. They consider the diagnosis of Schizoid Personality Disorder to be spurious, a mere reflection of current social ... Views: 206
Feelings of Rejection are one of the most pervasive dark forces that destroy relationships. Where do they come from and what can one do about them?
Feelings of Rejection are likely at play whenever one is unable to fully trust others to like, love, appreciate and or accept them. This creates ... Views: 165
Have you recently been rejected or abandoned by an ex? Perhaps it isn't so recent but you are still suffering from the wounds of rejection and hurt from a failed relationship. Perhaps it all seems to amount to an indelible scar on your heart that will negatively affect your future happiness. ... Views: 147
The heartbreak of a breakup can leave painful scars on the Heart that often must be defended at all costs. Unfortunately this undermines one's courage to open themselves up again to a new potential lover in the same unbridled and authentic way. Sadly this leads to inauthentic or falsely ... Views: 140
Do you know that the fear of being alone is responsible for deep feelings of neediness and emptiness that many individuals live with daily? Do you know that this fear undermines one's self confidence, self worth, self esteem, the freedom to make freewill choices, opens one up to manipulation, ... Views: 138
Do you know that negative thinking is automatically driven by subconscious programs that you have no control over? Do you know those programs are founded on a platform of early negative memories that play themselves out on the screen of your mind regularly? Do you know most people believe that ... Views: 118
Do you know most people believe that they have free will and are fully in control of the choices they make? Do you know this is absolutely false? Do you know that most of ones "choices" are directed by subconsciously stored programming that invisibly limits the natural expansiveness of your ... Views: 125
Is old emotional baggage still playing a major role in your life? Is it sabotaging your relationships, career, health, financial success, self confidence, self esteem, self worth, and passion for life? Is it making you feel like your life is out of your control and careening into the rocks? Do ... Views: 76
Do you know that self respect is impossible if you are needy? Do you know that neediness is the main reason for low self esteem, low self confidence, for feelings of inadequacy and that it makes you extremely unattractive and rejection prone?
Do you know that your neediness will undermine ... Views: 134
First of all lets understand what is positive thinking. Positive thinking only means approaching life with a positive outlook. That being said it does not mean you have to ignore potentially harmful situation that can impact your life adversely. The individuals with positive thinking do not ... Views: 188
If you feel "needy" or have ever been told that you are then this article is for you.
Being needy is a curse that many individuals suffer needlessly with. Suffering comes in many forms i.e. feeling ostracized leading to isolation, feelings of low self esteem, low self worth, feeling ... Views: 127
Shyness is an epidemic that has severely limited the potential of many good and honest human beings.
Is it necessary to endure this fate if you are one of those individuals? No longer! Here I explain the roots of shyness and its inevitable solution.
Shyness: the fear of approaching and ... Views: 118
Do you know that there are 7 simple and irreversible steps to achieving a positive mindset that no one can take away from you? Do you know that these steps are based on a powerful new coaching modality that was developed a decade ago by a psychiatrist who gave up his entire practice after ... Views: 115
Do you know that automatic negative thoughts are not only beyond your control they also don't actually originate from you? Do you know they are generated by a subconsciously stored program that has its foundation in the cumulative negative memories from your Life History?
Do you know these ... Views: 115
Do you know the first fear that erupts when one learns about the possibility of erasing their negative memories is of losing their sense of identity?
Do you know there is a new coaching process that shows that when negative memories are erased one wakes up to the realization that a) those ... Views: 89
Deep dreamless sleep can result from a mind that is quiet during the day. It cannot come through controlling the mind but only through self-awareness in which one functions as an affectionate bystander to oneself.
Nocturnal dreaming is a natural process that we all go through. ... Views: 138
It is rather simple to mistakenly take an anxiety attack for a real heart attack. In fact, most casual observers would not even know the difference between the two if they see it happening right before their eyes. The clear signs of an anxiety attack reflect the commonly known signs of a heart ... Views: 99
Do you know that co-dependent behaviors derive from deep feelings of neediness and that many "relationships" rest on this shaky and untenable foundation, perhaps even yours? Do you know that neediness is about trying to get the need for love, validation, acceptance, attention, understanding, a ... Views: 161
Do you know that failed relationships are invariably the result of old emotional baggage stored in the subconscious mind and associated with negative beliefs/feelings such as: the fear of commitment, fear of intimacy, low self worth, low self confidence, I'm unlovable, I'm inadequate, I'm needy, ... Views: 137
Do you know that attempts to fulfill one's co-dependency needs are at the heart of the problem of low self esteem? Does that surprise you? Do you for instance believe that having your need to be loved, accepted, wanted, understood, appreciated, validated, taken care of, etc. makes you feel ... Views: 176
Do you know that low self esteem has a simple and accessible mathematical/scientific explanation? Do you know that understanding it is also the key to abolishing low self esteem forever? So what is that math/science about, you ask?
To explain this I employ the metaphor of the typical home ... Views: 159
Do you know that procrastination is driven by early negative memories stored subconsciously that generate and sustain a fear of failure, fear of rejection, feelings of unworthiness and inadequacy, low self confidence, a fear of success and much more? Do you know procrastination is something that ... Views: 159
Do you know that self sabotage is a key sign of low self esteem, low self worth, and low self confidence? Do you know self sabotage results from stored negative memories of abuse, neglect, rejection, humiliation, abandonment etc. that live inside you and that subconsciously have you convinced ... Views: 125
Do you know that self sabotaging habits are driven by subconsciously stored programs that you have little conscious awareness of? Do you know your inability to recognize their presence is the single most important factor causing your mind and life to be hijacked when you least expect it? Do you ... Views: 123
Do you know that worry is one of the most toxic self destructive habits in our species' emotional repertoire? Do you know it is responsible for stress, tiredness, burnout, anxiety, depression, helplessness, low self confidence, feelings of inadequacy, feelings of vulnerability, low self worth ... Views: 142
Technology has progressed leaps and bounds since the turn of the century, and with these fantastic advancements comes a new issue: tech anxiety. This is a newly developing strain of anxiety that can be traced back to high levels of technology usage, especially regarding virtual communication. ... Views: 82
Painkiller addiction affects three-fourths of the population of the U.S. and one in ten high school students, according to statistics published by Drug Free World. It is also reported that recreational use of prescription painkillers is up twelve percent from last year and among the reason for ... Views: 107
You love your smartphone – right?
How many good things has it done for you today? From connecting with friends to getting restaurant reviews, our phones are invaluable.
However, there’s also a downside to our phones. As we focus on our phone, we often neglect dealing with things in the ... Views: 168
Do you know that most therapists believe that it is bad to erase negative memories from the subconscious mind? Do you know this essentially allows them to sustain their practices while you continue to remain limited by a notorious form of subconscious programming that literally shuts your life ... Views: 110
Do you know that many individuals feel captive to personalities that severely restrict and constrict the full creative expression of their authentic selves? Do you know this is responsible for a great deal of the suffering seen on this planet? Do you know it is possible to begin to free one's ... Views: 90