When you use smart decisions and self-awareness to shape your life, it will reflect your deepest aspirations and your fondest dreams.
1. Make your life your own. Decide to re-decide. Re-examine your goals and dreams. Don't just assume that what you wanted yesterday is ... Views: 21
I met a guy a year ago. We dated weekly for 2 months. Our dates were fun and passionate.
Then after that he started asking me out on dates every couple weeks or so for the next 4 months. The dates were still very passionate and so much fun.
One day he started to invite me ... Views: 146
Did you know that romance and passion are actually energy?
Romance and passion are a balance of masculine and feminine energy. And it doesn’t matter if you are married, single and want to be married or in a committed relationship…no matter what body you are in, male or female…when ... Views: 112
It seems to me that marriages aren’t working out so good. More than 50% of marriages end in divorce. The divorce rate for second marriages is even higher. This breaks my heart!
And what about the couples who decide to stay married…I wonder just how many of them are really happy ... Views: 100
The season of renewal is finally here and with it comes an invitation to awaken to life. Note the blue skies, the sun shining, birds chirping, flowers blooming. What an enchanting time to be alive. The possibilities are countless.
As we are coming out of hibernation, it is time to look around ... Views: 231
Fellas, here are a few facts about women that you might want to know when it comes to keeping your wife in love with you.
Women are usually the ones who say they are not happy in their marriage.
Women often say they are bored in their marriage.
Women initiate ⅔ of the divorces or ... Views: 127
I often find that couples hold a fairy tale expectation of happily ever after, for which I chide them. I dismiss this notion not because it seems unrealistic, but because couples go about creating their fairy tale all wrong. For you see, “happy endings” are possible… This is called unconditional ... Views: 216
There is a reason you picked your partner, and there is a reason why you have friction in your relationship. The areas that are still unresolved are due to the inability to overcome the potentially meaningful challenges. If you are willing to take full responsibility for your life and make a ... Views: 172
After the infatuation and dating stage, fun and romance doesn’t just happen in relationships. Great committed relationships don’t just happen. We have to put in conscious effort to create the relationship we want. Here are some tips for creating and enhancing your intimacy, romance, passion and ... Views: 213
I haven’t met a woman yet who didn’t want her husband to adore her.
I include myself! Most of us want our husbands to be our provider and protector, to be sweet and tender to us and to treat us as though we are irresistible…that out of all the women in the world, we are ... Views: 181
One characteristic satisfied and successful couples have in common is that they are part of each other’s lives. Duh-ah! I’m sure this does not come as a surprise. The trick though is how the partners are part of each other’s lives.
Partners have difficulties negotiating what this means to ... Views: 182
Can Food Really Enhance Your Sex Life?
“The link between food and sex drive isn’t just wishful thinking” says Cynthia Sass, RD, author of S.A.S.S Yourself Slim. “Studies show that certain foods or nutrients do play a role in boosting libido and supporting a healthy sex life.”
This is a ... Views: 234
One would think that connecting with our partner is an easy feat. After all they are the one person we are supposed to be the most intimate with. This is most often not the case and we are actually not that intimate. I find that couples have a very difficult time connecting, feeling connected ... Views: 251
When you look in the mirror, do you see reflected back the image you keep of yourself in your head? So often I feel that somehow time has raced ahead and left the “me” with whom I seem to personally identify, locked securely in image, thought and feeling, frozen in my mind. I look at my ... Views: 192
Do you want your husband to be more romantic? What if you had a secret weapon to get his attention? What if you had 3 secret weapons?
Opposites attract…especially when it comes to romance and passion!
Your husband’s masculine and your feminine energy complement each ... Views: 175
Do you ever wonder what it would be like to be the married couple in the restaurant that is so into each other that you cannot take your eyes off them?
Passionate married couples have this something that almost holds you in a trance. The way they look and speak and touch each other ... Views: 284
There is no doubt about it. Part of that which makes a voice sexy is tone – the expression of a sensual mood or attitude. However, a lot more goes into a hot voice than your expression. If your voice is high-pitched, whiny, nasal, or shrill voice, for example, it doesn’t matter how great ... Views: 300
How many times have you heard or read that good communication with your mate is an utmost priority? Blah, blah, blah...
Communication is a good skill to learn. Yes. It's not a feeling though. A feeling, a good one anyway, is something that you want more and more of and can ... Views: 283
Your wife comes home upset and angry because she was fifteen minutes late for work again and her boss chewed her out.
A. " Well, honey, if you didn't change clothes five times every morning before you left the house you wouldn't be late."
B. ... Views: 266
A happy marriage can begin with a list of date night ideas that you turn into a series of romantic dates with your mate. That's right, you can rekindle the romance in your marriage with a regularly scheduled date night with your spouse.
Couples who nurture their relationships through ... Views: 335
A need and desire that most of us women have is to feel safe and protected from the world and all of its sharp bumps and edges.
If you, the husband, can make us feel safe, if you can "cover us" and protect us, we will find you irresistible and will stay in love with ... Views: 399
Dear Dr. Romance:
A lot has happened in recent weeks that has wreaked havoc on my life.
A friend of twenty years, Told me he did not consider me a real friend, although I've been spending many hours helping him with gaming for years.
My sweetie pet hamster died. It was his time, ... Views: 508
Married sex can the best sex of your life because you are making love to your soul mate and not just any person. Let's face it, sex is very important in any marital relationship. As newlyweds, we may crave sex because of the physical pleasure that it brings us, but as you progress through the ... Views: 207
With just a simple phrase, you can either build someone up, or you can tear them down. And what other people say toyouhas the same effect. While words are only one of the many ways we communicate with each other, they are the most common and the most effective. But what most people often forget ... Views: 113
Do you know the one big thing you may do to kill passion and romance with your man?
When you criticize your man, he feels like he is inadequate and doesn't measure up to your expectations. When he feels inadequate, he feels like a failure. And a man ... Views: 343
Remember how sexy and exciting your relationship was when you first got together with your husband?
You couldn't keep your hands off of each other. The lovemaking was passionate and often. You craved each other and couldn't wait to be together!
Marriage often takes a ... Views: 288
We know that women are different from men. We heard that he is from Mars and we are from Venus and we communicate in ways that sometimes make it hard for us to hear each other. For women, one of the ways to turn on our romantic and passionate feelings with our man happens when we feel ... Views: 281
We did not set out to give marriage advice to any couples, but we had heard just about every imaginable reason why men and women were giving up on their marriages and it was breaking our hearts.
You see, my husband, Dale, and I nearly gave up on our marriage 20 years ago when things got a ... Views: 159
Welcome to the beginning of your day….
Recently I have been entertained by watching people. I so enjoy watching the expression on others faces when something awesome, exciting, fun and even surprising happens to them.
The latest is a video with a little girl who threw away her Daddy’s ... Views: 307
This topic evokes such a powerful energy within my Being.
It's the essence of an energy I know my Soul has come here, once again, to attempt to attain.
I accept that I have not attained it yet, and that it takes countless lifetimes of earth experience for the Soul to evolve.
It sure ... Views: 277
After seven decades of living, it’s apparent to me that there are lots of myths floating around about aging. Indeed, aging is an inescapable body thing, but it need not affect your passion for life. When you bring alertness to your day, with the intent of savoring your experiences like a child, ... Views: 576
If you knew how much time you have left to live, would you choose to live your life differently?
I started to think about this question when my son came home one day and told me about his friend’s mom who just passed away at 48 years old. She suffered a brain tumor that was discovered just a ... Views: 223
Family Photography: A Source To Create Everlasting Memories
Family photography is the source of family photographs, which is one of the most important stuffs you can have in your home. While your life alters around you, it's so nice to have a long-lasting reminder of your family at a specific ... Views: 295
Have you ever tried to attract more passion or romance in your life but it seems to elude you? Many people mistakenly believe that relationships are the only way to experience romance in their lives. The truth is that creating romance and passion starts with changing your thoughts and your ... Views: 281
I was having morning tea with friends and family on the weekend, and it was such a delight to catch up and be reminded of the love we share. As we sipped coffee in the sunshine at Nobby’s Beach
Sinking into the compassion of extending love while basking in the warmth of communion, the depth of ... Views: 388
I received the following in an email:
“There once was a little boy who had a bad temper. His father gave him a bag of nails and told him that every time he lost his temper, he must hammer a nail into the back of the fence. The first day the boy had driven 37 nails into ... Views: 371
Dearest Darling Friends,
Millions of trees in the world are accidentally planted by squirrels who bury nuts & then forget where they hid them…From the squirrels I learn, ‘Do Good & Forget’. This will produce results and make this world a better place.
“Fallen flowers can’t climb back”. If ... Views: 387
Get the keys that help millions unlock the door to an exciting, passionate life and also transcend typical baggage of divorce in Part 1 highlights of my radio conversation for A Lasting Love with Janet Bray Attwood.
Janet is the NY Times Bestselling Co-Author of The Passion Test - Discovering ... Views: 264
You might have heard the following from your friend: “Have I known it ahead of time, I wouldn’t even begun going out with him” .
The question is: was it possible for her to know it ahead of time?
And the answer is: it depends. It depends on signs and hints she might have noticed. On her ... Views: 396
Over the years, the people I have worked with have used various words to describe the end result of their compulsive sexual behaviors: words like shame, anger, depression, anxiety, disappointment, self-hatred, hopelessness and helplessness, usually describe their subjective experience after the ... Views: 535
Just several days ago, I celebrated the 29th anniversary of what once was called, The Royans School for the Musical Performing Arts.
In 1987, the school changed its name and profile and became the world renowned, The Royans Professional Vocal School, specializing in singing, speech and voice ... Views: 431
I believe passionately that we are all born with our own natural gifts and talents, and that these gifts and talents not only shape who we are, but help us create a much happier human experience. The lens in which we see the world is viewed differently when we follow our bliss. When our heart is ... Views: 498
Getting someone to marry you doesn’t require a huge amount of effort, but it doesn’t require some thought. All you do to get someone to want to marry you is to meet their needs. But what needs are those? Read on to learn more about his needs, what need wants from you, and how to fulfill them ... Views: 483
In response to my last post I received many email replies.To those who took the time to write to me, thanks for your interest. Most of the replies were to thank me for the advice, for being brutally honest. However there was one email in particular from a woman which caught my attention.
It ... Views: 483
Stress kills a great sexual experience, on so many different levels, including, and maybe most importantly, in the mind. Brainwave entrainment is a clinically proven neurological tool that uses sound to coax dominant brainwaves into a specific frequency, that is conducive to remove stress, which ... Views: 553
What’s wrong with New Year’s resolutions? Is it because the word “resolution” has become associated with superficial, lofty goals that fade almost as quickly as our hangover from the New Year’s Eve celebration? Or could it be that there is simply no time between Thanksgiving and New Year’s to do ... Views: 519
We could talk passion all day, it is a catch word, and there have been thousands of articles written about it; but it still seems to be something covered in mystery.
A life of passion is a life of Achievement.
Passion is something that most people seem to only get in spurts. They have a ... Views: 563
Dear Dr. Romance:
My girlfriend does not like phone sex. When ever I bring up the topic, she is always mad at me. I don't know; maybe it's the way her ex treated her. Please help.
You can't have phone sex with your girl if she doesn't like it, and you can't force her to ... Views: 865
Love may be a truly fickle emotion, and it may seem to flame out just as quickly and as easily as it was originally ignited, but this does not mean that you cannot win love back after a bad break up. When outside factors like money and work get in the way, stress can be created in a ... Views: 760
If everybody already knew how to make a relationship work we would all still be with the first man or woman we fell in love with, but that is not the case. It takes some people years of anguish and heartache to learn how to make a relationship work. Even then your relationship is unlikely to ... Views: 563