Well, valentine’s is just around the corner. It is that part of the year in which everyone in this universe is dancing to the tunes of togetherness. Only love is one such feeling that heals everything. During valentine’s; new relationships are made, anguishes leave some relationships, casual ... Views: 124
Anger hurts. It’s a reaction to not getting what we want or need. Anger escalates to rage when we feel assaulted or threatened. It could be physical, emotional, or abstract, such as an attack on our reputation. When we react disproportionately to our present circumstance, it’s because we’re ... Views: 233
You think: "Photo Shoot, whoopee!” Or do you just think: "Photo-shoot ... meh". What your response may be: Let's look at the photo shoot in perspective. It is by no means the most important part of the day! It is not even the most important part of the wedding photography! A picture of your ... Views: 115
While one could be in a fulfilling relationship with someone, there is also the chance that this is not the case. This could come down to the fact that they don’t want to be in one, and this might be a sign that they have just broken up with someone.
If this is the case, they might want to ... Views: 239
My pussy speaks to me. It has a voice. At times in my life this voice has been almost inaudible while at other times it has been loud and robust. Years ago I worked very hard to silence this part of me that was connected on a soul level. The connection felt too much, too intense, and too open. ... Views: 314
I have spent the last two weeks in a pile of books. I have read books on sex, on Tantra, on advanced energy techniques, on the human body, on spirit, etc. Honestly, my brain feels like it’s going to explode!
The thing that struck me as I read all of these different books is that everything ... Views: 134
When I get asked what I do for a living and say that I am a Tantric Practitioner/Sex Coach, I typically get one of two reactions: 1) A look of complete horror as if I’ve just killed a small child, or 2) A look of curiosity, and the person will begin asking me questions in a very hushed voice. ... Views: 216
I receive the text message long before we are even supposed to meet… he is excited to see me and thinking about the upcoming meeting. I’m getting turned on mentally in that moment, and slowly, anticipation starts to build. By the time I arrive at our meeting place I have passed arousal and made ... Views: 276
We learn early on that that sex can lead to unwanted pregnancies and STD/STIs. Schools do a wonderful job at scaring us from having sex when we’re younger by showing us images of genitals infected with diseases, the negative effects of an unwanted pregnancy, and the staggering statistics about ... Views: 222
There is nothing like the feeling of having my lover deep inside my throat. Though, I have found to my surprise that many women despise orally pleasuring their man. Often women see this act as a major turn off or a chore, and engage in it only as a sense of obligation when they want their own ... Views: 268
My cheeks are flushed, my body is radiating heat, and little moans escape my lips. His breath is heavy on my neck as we dive deeper and deeper into a state of passion. The little moans escaping my lips tell him that I am enjoying his touch and he sporadically shares little insights of enjoyment… ... Views: 200
It’s late in the evening, and I’m walking with two of my lovers as the light, balmy breeze blows my hair. I look up and feel deeply connected to the moon and breathe it into my being. As we walk, I give one of my lovers a gentle hug, and then I lean sweetly into the other with an affectionate ... Views: 191
When one meets someone they like, they might not look into what their past relationships were like. In this case, the only thing they could be concerned about is what the other person is like around them.
Point of Focus
This could also be a time when one will spend a lot of time thinking ... Views: 200
Scenario 1: We have just come out from an extraordinary concert that has my heart dancing from the beautiful music. As we walk down the sidewalk, he grasps my shoulders and pushes me to the right, and I get jokingly scolded as he explains that he needs to be between me and traffic. In this ... Views: 269
Hi Selfgrowth Friends,
Since I have been receiving a high volume of readers who are interested in more information on Narcissistic Abuse Recovery and Surviving Relationships with Narcissists, I have created a brief Youtube Video.
I have spent many hours reviewing experts on Narcissism and ... Views: 347
“I thought I was happily married, until she told me she was leaving.” To where? I asked thinking that she was going for shopping at Nakumatti, where she usually goes every Saturday afternoon. I was wrong.
This time she was going for good.
“I am tired of this marriage,” she shouted ... Views: 113
A must read story on friendship
During WW2 the Red Cross set up a program for people to send letters to soldiers in Europe so they would never be lonely and always get mail from someone. During the course of this program a soldier received a letter from a woman he didn't know and had never ... Views: 178
If one was to go out for a meal with a friend, it is likely to show that they both have the need to do so. This will not only allow them to fulfil their need to eat something, it will also allow them to fulfil a number of other needs.
Therefore, although they are both ... Views: 149
A touching story about a family-Must Read!
After 21 years of marriage, my wife wanted me to take another woman out to dinner and a movie. She said, “I love you, but I know this other woman loves you and would love to spend some time with you.”
The other woman that my wife wanted me to ... Views: 153
Having found myself single or away from my sweetheart plenty of Valentine’s days gone by, I’ve tried a few things over the years to keep from being among the jaded every time I see a balloon or rose that doesn’t have my name on it (we’ve all been there!). If you’re looking for an alternative to ... Views: 203
As a psychotherapist, I often meet individuals, couples and families who at first describe the relationships that matter the most in their lives as ‘very close’, ‘tight’, and supportive. But later, after understanding the issues that brought them to my office, I view them more as insular systems ... Views: 250
Even though one can have the need to experience intimacy, it doesn’t mean that they will be able to fulfil this need. As a result of this, this area of their life is not going to be the same as it will be for others.
This is not to say that they will be the only ones on the ... Views: 222
Ashwagandha (Withania Somnifera), also known as Indian Ginseng or Winter Cherry is well renowned for promoting sexual prowess along with vigor and vitality for men and women alike.
How Does Ashwagandha Work For Women?
In particular for women, Ashwagandha root works nicely to ensure that ... Views: 235
Ginseng (Codonopsis Pilosula) is one of the most popular herbal remedies at all places in the world, and has host of benefits on users' general health and well being. The world has stood by the magic of this Korean herb, and it has been used across centuries with notable healing ... Views: 193
Safed Musli (White Muslee or Junglee Muslee) is an herbal aphrodisiac which has gained popularity over the centuries. People stand by the power of the tremendous herb for inducing vigor and vitality in one's everyday life, while allowing one to get over fatigue and discomfort. Alternately, Safed ... Views: 162
We love enjoying sweets and ice creams sprinkled with saffron at wedding ceremonies and special occasions, but did you know that saffron is an herb which can have phenomenal effects on our health and well being!
A very interesting fact about saffron (Kashmira, Kumkuma) is that around 150,000 ... Views: 172
Salam Panja (Dactylorhiza Hatagirea) is an herbal extract which withholds within itself the secrets of youthfulness, vigor and vitality. These are basically roots of an herb called tuberous, also known hatajari or Marsh Orchid.
Tuberous roots have historically been used for headaches, cough, ... Views: 189
Shilajit (Silajatu or Asphaltum) is also known as mineral pitch, and is an Ayurvedic herb which stands true to the reputation of being an aphrodisiac with transformational effects on users' health, well being and everyday life as well. Premature ejaculation is an issue which can entirely take ... Views: 175
A really good wedding can be something that lives forever in the memory of everyone who attends it. Although for the couple getting married it is a beginning, it is also the culmination of an often long and arduous process. It is not for no reason that there is a lot of money in the occupation ... Views: 122
Rakhi, also called “rakhsha bandhan”, and is one of the most revered occasion in India. It is also called bond of protection.
It is during this event that a sister ties the “thread of love” to her brother, symbolizing life long protection “raksha” and fostering of relationship “bandhan”, ... Views: 96
Traditional expression of emotions?
Indian weddings just like other weddings too, can have plenty of emotions involved. But when creating e-invites or paper invites alike, simple emotionless guidelines for the wedding is always the best way to go. With e-invites, you have got to judge the ... Views: 110
The news is filled with stories about athletes and other sportsmen ‘juicing’, using steroids regularly to enhance their performance. Everyone from professional Olympic gymnasts, cyclists, baseball players to even swimmers have been held accountable – and in some cases have admitted to- the use ... Views: 129
The build up to ‘The Big Day’ is generally dominated by the female of the species and her chosen band of merry women – bridesmaids, mother, mother-in-law to be, sisters, aunts – basically any woman with a relationship or blood connection to the bride.
Don’t be fooled. Weddings, their ... Views: 213
Well gentlemen, this subject may be lumped into the ‘too tough to answer basket’ along with –
‘How to jump out of a plane at 20,000 feet without a parachute and survive’
‘How to get a politician to give you a straight answer’
Nevertheless, let’s take up the challenge - How do you ... Views: 233
It's a tough place to be. When love and a deep connection are not shared, the feelings of emptiness, anger and frustration take over and your ability to function in other roles suffer.
⦁ Why did she fall out of love?
⦁ Who changed? You or her?
⦁ Was there a specific event that brought ... Views: 232
By Margaret Paul, PhD
February 07, 2017
How often are you stressed and frazzled in trying to meet others' expectations? You can learn to love yourself instead!
I was staying at a friend's house on one of my teaching trips. I walked into the kitchen early one morning to find my friend ... Views: 106
What plans do you have for your family?
Whether married or not, the following insights are essential.
“I knew I was happily married, until she told me that she was leaving.” I said to where? She replied, “I cannot continue like this. I gave you all the prime years of my life, only for ... Views: 97
You are getting old. You should get married AND old in India does not mean 35, you can be as old as umm.. 22?
2.You are going to be ugly, Go Marry!
According to Indian parents logic their child will get bald, fat or ugly with time, and if they are ugly they won’t get any groom/bride ... Views: 137
Welcome to Creating Harmony’s Harmonising Times. Our intention is to provide our readers, friends and connections with an overview of what is emerging in our much larger, ever evolving community as in the new beginnings of 2017 we bring balance between the Divine Feminine and Masculine.
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Feeling Lonely? 4 Steps to Leave Loneliness For Good
Today I felt compelled to pour my heart out to you and talk about a subject that I care so deeply about and that’s loneliness. You don’t need to be single to be lonely. In fact, there are literally thousands of husbands and wives who feel ... Views: 208
When it comes to dating, the world is radically different to how it used to be in the past. Now, one can still meet people in the real world, and there are a number of ways that this can take place.
If one was to go shopping or if they had to do something whilst they were ... Views: 183
1. Begin your search early
If you ever are in attendance at a wedding where you just love the bride’s makeup, do make it a point to ask for her makeup artist’s details. Even a contact number will do. Even if your wedding is not on the cards in the near future, it is quite handy to have the ... Views: 119
Welcome to Creating Harmony’s note of indication. As we move from the last days of 2016 and into the first days of a new cycle, you may have already begun to allow your intuition to create a vision of what you desire for 2017? All established habits, behaviours, beliefs and relationships need to ... Views: 212
A comic style wedding invitation telling your guests about your wedding so creatively within its dialogues, credits, venue and dates
2. Pharmaceutical invite
You can make a replica of the first aid kit write out venue, date, credits in the form of bandages, ointments etc. it ... Views: 133
Most guys make big mistakes when it comes to dating. This is because they fail to understand it is not so many great ideas to implement during their first date. One of which is that it is not necessary for your first date to be expensive. As a matter of fact, your date will be absolutely ... Views: 197
Getting a girlfriend, to many guys can be a difficult endeavour. They have to join tons of online dating sites, use social media, join a cooking class in the hopes that they will find the perfect girlfriend. Yes, these are some of the things you can do to find yourself a girlfriend. Or you can ... Views: 214
It's a rainy day, the kids are restless, and you are looking for something fun to do as a family. Here are a few tips we have compiled to turn your rainy day into a fun day with the family:
1. Play Games Together
In the hectic pace of school, life, and work, it can be hard to find time to ... Views: 155
1. The statement back
No matter black is the one of the most common colour and also one of the favourite for everyone but deep black cuts are also very much in so you can carry a perfect backless outfit make it design standout and make a statement of your own.
2.Steal the deal with Pastel ... Views: 180
Recently, President Trump signed an executive order to ban travel from Sudan, Iran, Syria, Iraq, Somalia, Libya and Yemen to the USA. The executive order caused furor everywhere including the USA. The executive order already faced protests at airports worldwide.
The executive order defies ... Views: 158
Let’s face it, when you’re young wearing patches or glasses isn’t fun. They can limit you from playing certain sports and there is absolutely no way to hide them from other people seeing them since they are right there on your face. Because of this, some kids are self-conscious about wearing ... Views: 128