As the Radio Love Psychic on the nationally renowned KXRK Radio From Hell morning show, I use a few sneaky tricks to get the quick, accurate reads on the callers. The first is that there are some unchangeable, immutable Universal Laws regarding people’s connections with each other. The next is there are common energetic patterns that become easy to spot after thousands of psychic reading clients. As I work on my first published book, Meta-Relationships – The Simple Psychic Truths of Real People Connections, scheduled for Summer 2010, all these ideas are swirling in my mind and I feel like I have to blog about them now instead of waiting. Tonight I wanted to write about the most important thing to remember about having wonderful relationships.

Thing #1

If I had to pick one thing about relationships I wish everyone fully understood it would be this:

#1 Universal Law for Relationships:

All the Healthy, Joyful, Whole People Are All Running Around Dating, Mating and Relating with Each Other.

This idea is not only always true, but also easily proved from common observation of the world. Healthy, happy people do not relate well to those who are not. Happy people do not date depressed people (very long). Healthy people do not hang around with insecure people (very long). It is similar to the old adage, “Birds of a feather flock together.” Observation of this fact proves the assertion so you might find it interesting to see how often this idea holds true.

You might think of a person dating a very troubled person and say that is an exception to the Law! However, this can be an example of a caretaker/dependent type of relationship where someone is fixing the other. The usual pattern is that these do not turn out that great over the long run.

If You Tell Me You are Dating an Insecure, or Troubled, Person,

I know a lot about you already. If you indicate that you are not a completely Happy, Healthy person yet, I can stop there and don’t have to do a psychic read for you when it comes to predicting your relationship outcomes. It is impossible for you to have a Happy Healthy intimate relationship at this time. I will be accurate all of the time on this.

If you do know that you are not a perfectly healthy, whole person yet, there is no use in complaining or worrying or whining about your dating or mating life – you will not get a Whole, Joyful situation till you have done your part. We mystics are always saying goofy things like “Change yourself - Change your outcome!” And now you know why.

Your Job is to Get on the Healthy Joyful Whole Playground

“But Margaret Ruth!” People exclaim, “I have never met/dated/etc these Happy Whole people you keep yammering about.” Well – that is because all those folks are all hanging out on a different playground than yours. I call it the Healthy Joyful Whole playground.

This is one of the reasons why we mystics are always talking about YOU and where you are and what is going on with you. In the case of a person wanting an enriching, vital, evolving, healthy relationship, it is Law that the person must first be a whole, complete, enriched, healthy person. So, much of what you read in self growth and personal improvement genres focuses on ideas to get you on that Happy Healthy playground. It is there that you can run with the other joyful, whole playground mates.

See ya there!

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Author's Bio: 

Margaret Ruth is one of the most popular and well known metaphysical teachers and psychics in Utah and is proud to be the Friday morning guest of one of the country's best radio morning shows, airing on the highest rated Alternative Rock station in the country - one that has been written up in national publications such as Rolling Stone Magazine. She has also appeared on national radio stations and regional television segments such as Good Things Utah, ABC 4 News (ABC KTVX), Good Day Utah, (Fox KSTU), 2 News, 2 News This Morning (CBS KUTV).

Tapping into the burgeoning zeitgeist for the members of Generation Y and Millennial Generation of, Margaret Ruth represents the next generation of metaphysical authors by presenting the New Age for the next generation. She is the author of Margaret Ruth's Palmistry Workbook, Margaret Ruth's Tarot Class and the upcoming book Meta-Relationships: The Very Simple Psychic Truths of Real People Connections (Not Your Parents' Relationship Manual!) -written for Millennial and Gen Y generations. Articles about and by Margaret Ruth have been published in Huffington Post, Salt Lake Magazine, Catalyst Magazine, The Salt Lake Tribune, University of Utah Chronicle, and others. She teaches Tarot, Palmistry, Numerology, Reading People and Psychic Experiential for University of Utah AOCE division, in addition to being an adjunct instructor in Economics for the Economics Department at the University.

National, regional and local businesses, charities and organizations have contracted with Margaret Ruth: Borders Bookstore, University of Utah AOCE, University of Utah Health Affairs, YWCA, No More Homeless Pets, Salt Lake County Library Association, Nordstroms Department Store, Harley-Davidson of Salt Lake, The March of Dimes, Sundance Film Festival, Red Butte Garden, Utah Public Employees Association, Rowland Hall, Girl Scouts of Salt Lake City, Salt Lake Board of Realtors. National sponsors of the Margaret Ruth radio segment have in the past included Burger King and Einstein Brothers Bagels.

The bulk of Margaret Ruth's day is taken up by her job as an on-call-door-opener for the multitudes of animals at her home, about whom she talks incessantly. She welcomes private clients and writing assignments so she can have a break from this demanding task. Contact Margaret Ruth for information about benefiting from a personal session or taking rewarding classes taught at the University of Utah. Call 801-575-7103 or email Margaret at