LIFE BALANCE REVISITED
Hello again my friends.
In previous newsletters I have spoken of the need to balance one’s life and the obvious benefits of being able to access infinite intelligence to manifest one’s dreams. In my recent speaking engagements and media interviews I am continually asked to comment about the abundance of doom and gloom reporting by our news media and the subsequent negative daily conversation we must endure even with our closest friends and family. In the next two weeks I will be interviewed or speaking in NY, Ma, Ca, and Mn. EVERYONE wants me to comment on this same topic. We all seem to understand we are getting out of balance, but we do not know what to do about it. Want to ask me a specific question? www.askandyfeld.com
Let’s look at balance in two different ways. Firstly, as I have spoken about in recent months, determining if your life is in balance is a question only you can answer, not your family, spouse, friend, or parent. If it is about work, do you know some happy workaholics? Of course you do. Do you also know some very unhappy workaholics? The answer is probably yes again. My point is that only YOU can decide what balance is for YOU. WE ARE ALL DIFFERENT. Listen to yourself, your heart, your gut, and do what feels good to you. Learning to not care what others think of you is one of life’s greatest lessons. Follow your inner radar, page 35 of my book “Simple Happy, finally learning to listen to yourself.
There is, however, another type of balance which will bring you peace and greater access to that wonderful infinite intelligence. Do you know that we are all made up of both male and female energy? One of the best things you can do to increase your personal happiness and manifest your dreams is to work on balancing your male and female energies. If you are a male I would advise you to work on trusting you intuition, being more sensitive, being more open and humble. These are traits more associated with female energy. Would your group like to hear me speak more of this? www.simplehappy.net For females I would urge you to practice being more aggressive, bolder, more self assured, more talkative, etc.
Infinite intelligence is available to every one of us to answer all our questions and problems, but frankly we sometimes are not able to access it. Why? Because our male and female energies are not balanced and our thoughts, emotion, and words are in direct contradiction to what we want. As an example if you are looking for a new wonderful relationship partner and your emotions on the subject of relationships center on fear, anger and jealousy you are not in the position to receive the information you so desperately want.
Is it easy to perfectly balance all aspects of your life? Of course not, but do not despair, it just takes a little practice each day. Do you practice some of your favorite hobbies? Why not take some time daily to practice balancing your male and female energies and work on getting your thoughts, emotions, words, and actions lined up with what you really want in life. Would you like me to do a webinar or speech for your company or organization and explain how this all works and how we really are responsible for creating our personal life experience? Is it possible your business needs a quick “pick me up” andy@simplehappy.net or www.simplehappy.net
Believe me; I know that the personal, financial, and world news is almost all negative. Do you really believe that nothing wonderful, happy, and uplifting is taking place? There are tons of wonderful things going on in your neighborhood and the world everyday, but we have taught the media and our friends and family that it is not newsworthy. Changing your life begins with you and it is only your responsibility. Stop believing that you are a victim in any way, and begin learning how to finally create the life you so much desire.
If you like my message please pass it around to others. That is how we will get the steamroller started. Remember the old poster “Today is the first day of the rest of your life”. It’s true. You must start in the present. Have a great month.
With love and appreciation, Andy

August Newsletter
Thursday August 7th, 2008
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Author's Bio: 

ANDY FELD

andy@simplehappy.net
www.simplehappy.net
505 269 9909

Andy was born in northern New Jersey and moved to Denver, Colorado to attend Denver University where he obtained his BSBA degree in 1973.

He has had a successful business career as an entrepreneur in the fields of commercial real estate and mortgage banking.

Twenty years ago amidst a deteriorating marriage and a failing business Andy began the study of happiness and success. He shares his findings and conclusions in his new book “SIMPLE HAPPY, finally learning to listen to yourself”.

His unique approach shows that the search for happiness need not be a complex undertaking. Furthermore, his studies led him to the discovery of the link between happiness and achievement, which he shares in a fun simple manner with his readers and audience.