The following information will assist you in figuring out what you truly want and help you overcome self-doubt while working towards your goals. Here are the steps:

Say in a clear way what you want.
Visualize what you want.
Be open and ready for your vision to become reality.

Say in a Clear Way Want You Want

Figure out what you want in your life. It does not have to be specific. You can wish for the person who will be your soul mate, freedom from money problems, a healthy life, to be a published writer, or a home that is perfect for you. You may have more success if you incorporate helping others into your desires and goals.

Visualize and Accept What You Want

The best way is to download and install Subliminal Flash program. It will help you accept positive thoughts on subconscious level. Subliminal Flash includes hundreds of predefined affirmations, related to success, sexuality, money, health, etc. So after 3-4 days of using the program you will become a magnet for success.

Be specific about the details of your desired outcome. It is a good idea to say exactly what characteristics you want in a mate, for example, like funny, attractive, loves adventure, etc. If you can only think of your desired outcome in the negative as in what you do not want it to be like use the negatives to create a list of positive attributes. For example, if you know you do not want to have to drive into the city for a job you can say you want a job near your house. Make sure you have positive thoughts and positive details to focus on for your desired outcome and don't think negatively. Turn any negative thoughts into positive ones. Visualize what your life will be like with your desired outcome and imagine every little detail of how your life would be and how you would feel.

Be Open and Ready for Your Vision to Become a Reality

Don't let your self-doubt get the best of you and start you thinking negative thoughts and doubting your dreams. Try staying busy to keep the negative self-doubt out of your mind. You can go for a long walk, play tennis or play a computer game. Do something you love and you will find yourself staying positive and ignoring the negative. Don't listen to your negative voice.

One way to overcome self-doubt is by focusing on everything you have to be thankful for. You can find beauty in every day events and situations and even record them so you can look back at them later. Some people make a list of things they are thankful for every day in a journal. It is helpful to look back at this journal when you are feeling negative.

Be open to and take advantage of opportunities provided by the Universe. Deliberate attraction requires you to do more than say you want something and wait for it to show up at your door. The Universe will give you the opportunities you need and send people into your life who will help you on your journey to achieving your goals.

You need to follow the steps described above for this to work. Good luck and may you achieve all your goals.

Author's Bio: 

Vlad Stivenson, author of numerous articles about the law of attraction