Do you know exactly what you want in your love relationship?
Think of the kinds of things that you want in a partner. Have you noticed how you are starting to imagine a list? Now keep that list in your minds eye and ask yourself….
“Why aren’t they in my life yet?”
Are you one of those people who are walking around singing that negative old song……….
what's love got to do got to do with it
what's love but a second emotion
what's love got to do got to do with it
who needs a heart when a heart can be broken……(thanks Tina)
As you answer the question you find yourself having some negative thoughts about why a perfect partner is not in your life yet.
Imagine what it would be like if you were really, really clear.
If you able to look right in to a mirror and say “I am 100% certain that my perfect partner is on their way to me” then you can be certain they will be. If you were unable to do this you most likely aren’t clear on the inside of yourself of what you really do want.
So sit right down right now and ask yourself another question. “What does it mean that you haven’t got what you want yet?”
Are you ready for this?
Your answer to those questions will reveal your beliefs. For instance, if you say “I am to old to be in love”, then you have a belief that you are too old to attract a perfect partner.
Or if you say “I just haven’t figured out how to get what I want in the love department” then you are revealing a belief that says you have to know how to get what you want before you can have it.
Some women have the belief that they are not good enough to be loved. This is a limiting belief and not the truth.
Do you know what a limiting belief is? A belief is assuming something to be true, or to be a fact. A belief is not caused, it is created by choice.
Yes, you read that right. By choice!
For instance, a book would be a fact as it exists rather than just being a belief. But saying that the book is good for you would be a belief.
See the difference?
It is your perception of events that cause how you feel. Maybe going on a date hasn’t happened yet and you feel like it never will. When you change your beliefs about the date ever happening you can change your life today.
Because beliefs shape the way we feel and think it also effects how we act.
So what do you tell yourself when you look at your love relationships and see it isn’t where you want it to be?
I can hear you now:” How do I get out of this pattern and get the love and partner that I want?”
Everything is energy, whether we are people, or objects. So what we can do is alter our energy to help influence other energies.
Are you willing to release the fear of never meeting your perfect partner and feel the trust that it will happen?
Look into your life and see if what you’re complaining about is really relevant. Are you complaining about the lack of good partners out there? Or complaining that you can’t trust people out there? You can use all of your experiences as mirrors in your life.
Visualize it. How does it look?
Now that you know that you may have some limiting beliefs you can make a shift and let go. Some of you may not have a lot of work to do on your limiting beliefs and this will be quick and easy.
Now here comes the good part.
You have decided to trust, let go and let the Law of Attraction bring you your perfect partner.
Once you are very, very clear about what it is that you do want, you are sending out a different energy and you attract different results using the Law of Attraction intentionally.
Imagine what it would be life if you made these changes in your life?
Wouldn’t it be amazing to see the difference in your life? It really can be done. Now I would like to help you experience the same thing by using the Law of Attraction deliberately and intentionally.
Copyright © 2008 Beverly Boston. All Rights Reserved. Beverly Boston. If you like this article and want to learn more about how I help women ages 50-55 also known as “prime time” women who are struggling because they continually seem to be attracting the wrong kinds of relationships read on. Some women seem to attract negative people or maybe even situations again and again and they do don’t know why. But what I do is I really help women attract the ideal relationship, partner or opportunity. I help women attract ideal relationships, friends, opportunities plus much, much more. This is just really the beginning! For more information visit www.beverlyboston.wordpress.com or call 604-727-4363.
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