The odds are good that you have seen those people who seem to magically draw people to them. They always seem to have a date or someone who wants to date them. You're not alone. Many people feel like everyone else is more successful in love than they are. It has less to do with physical appearance, your bank account, and being outgoing than you would think. It's often more about using the positive energy in your life to fulfill every aspect of your life including the romantic element.

You are probably wondering what all of this energy talk is all about. You have heard of the ancient Chinese philosophy of Feng Shui. It revolves around the concept of creating a space, your home, that encourages the flow of positive chi. It affects every aspect of your life in a good way if done correctly. This isn't to say that every person with a successful love life uses Feng Shui, but it certainly won't hurt to encourage some good vibes to come your way in the love department. After all, we all want to become a magnet for love.

So how does one go about using Feng Shui to become a love magnet? The first step is pretty unexciting, but it does get better. You will need to focus on the bedroom since you are looking for romantic love. Cleaning the room from top to bottom is an essential step that can't be overlooked. Just because no one gets into your closet or looks under the bed doesn't mean you can ignore those areas. They are important too. Get rid of things you no longer use or need. They create a hindrance to the flow of good energy. While you are clearing things out that you don't need, this is also a good time to get rid of any reminders of old flames. You don’t want that past energy infecting any future or current relationship. If you don’t want to throw them out at least get them out of the bedroom. Make space for your new love interest in the closet, leaving some hangers empty and clear out a drawer of the dresser. This will encourage the arrival of someone new.

Now that all of the things left behind from your old love life is out of the room and you have a clean slate to start with, take a good hard look at your bed. With any kind of luck, your bed is no larger than a queen. A king sized bed is a hindrance to the natural intimacy that you are looking for. With the correct sized bed in place, you are well on your way to using Feng Shui to become a love magnet of huge proportions, or at least to the proportion that will find you a significant other. Consider the placement of the bed in the room as well. There should be room to walk on either side of it. If not, it isn't very welcoming to a new lover and the positive energy will be less efficient at moving about the space.

Still dealing with the bed, your choice of bedding is very important in regards to Feng Shui as well. Just like every book or article you have ever read about love and finding Mr. or Ms. Right says, your bedding should reflect your desire for intimacy and romance. Think about using satins, silks, or a high quality all cotton sheet set that invites touching and romance. Of equal importance, you should also look for a comforter that is soft and comfortable to lounge on. The color of your décor is vitally important as well. Without looking like a product of Hallmark, you can create a romantic look that still fits in with your personal style. If pink, white, and red aren't your idea of good decorating colors, try using them as accents or in different tones, like salmon or coral. Make your bedroom a haven even when it is just you in it. Use plenty of throw pillows on the bed to create the perfect place for relaxation. The rest, and the new partner, are sure to follow soon with all of the positive energy you have created.

Another thing to remember when you explore the new world of Feng Shui and becoming a love magnet is to pay attention to the photos you display in your bedroom. Keep pictures of the kids or other family members in another room. There isn't anything sexy about children's pictures or photos of dear old mom and dad. Place those in the living or family rooms. Instead display paintings and prints of happy couples or inviting scenery. It is important to always have artwork depicting two items.

Feng Shui can help you turn into a love magnet in no time. Before you know it, you'll be looking to this ancient practice to further enhance your new found relationship.

Author's Bio: 

Candace Czarny “Award Winning” Interior Designer, Subtle Energy Expert and author of the best selling “20 Minute Feng Shui” is launching her newest work “The Master’s Secret Key” at , a short work design to inspire the reader to self-empowerment.
She has been inspiring and educating people on line with her web site since 1994. Her site is constantly ranked in the top 10 of Google and Yahoo and she has developed a loyal following.
Her passion is “creating a paradigm evolution, where people believe that creating their environment is the key to creating the life they desire.”
Candace Czarny is the president of Wind & Water, Inc. She has more than 30 years’ experience in interior and “Green” design, facilities and project management and Feng Shui.
Candace has practiced interior design since 1973 and received her Degree in Interior Design from Virginia Polytechnic Institute and State University (VA Tech) in 1977. She is a NCIDQ Certified Interior Designer and a Professional Member of ASID. She is a Certified Facility Manager (CFM) and a LEED AP (Leadership in Energy and Environmental Design Accredited Professional). She is responsible for the Design of the First “Gold” LEED Certified building in the State of Arizona. She has also received the Design in Excellence Award from the Arizona chapter of ASID and the Best of the Best Award in Sedona.
In addition to her scholastic studies, Candace apprenticed with Feng Shui Master and Shaman Cuneo for 5 years. Her studies consisted of field work and daily training in the oral tradition. Her training comes from a global perspective of esoteric sciences and incorporates: Landform and Black Sect Feng Shui, Hawaiian Huna, European Geomancy, Native American and South American Energy Sciences. She teaches practical, accurate, in-depth energy principles with creative and modern applications. Her clients have testified of dramatic results using Candace’s advice from romance to business.