Many single women wonder how they can get a man. It is difficult sometimes to know if we are taking the right steps to get his attention.

If you want to get Mr. Right’s attention right away follow these tips:

STEP 1: Make a list of all the great qualities you want Mr. Right to have.

This is the most crucial of the 6 steps. If you don’t know what you want how will you ever get it? It is important to list things that you can’t compromise on as well as those things you would like to have but are not deal breakers.

STEP 2: Get out the house!

You have to get out of the house; chances are Mr. Right won’t come knocking on your door asking to take you out. You have already outlined your perfect sweetie, now it is time to think about what he is doing on the weekends. If your [ideal] guy likes sports, what sports does he like? Get out there and go to a game. You don’t have to go at it alone, take a friend if the thought of going alone scares you.

STEP 3: Enjoy yourself.

It is very unattractive to hold a pity party for yourself because you are single. By being down and depressed you are unconsciously giving off keep away signals. Mr. Right will be more likely to approach you when you are genuinely having a great time at whatever event you are attending.

STEP 4: Be confident.

Men love confident women but make sure you are not giving off too much confidence – this can actually be misinterpreted as being arrogant, which is very unattractive.

STEP 5: Keep a smile on your face.

If you want to understand what do men find attractive you must be willing to open up. If you see a man that you are attracted to don’t be afraid to flash a friendly smile. If he smiles back, you are making great strides towards step 6.

STEP 6: Start a conversation.

If you are at an arm’s length of Mr. Right, don’t be afraid to talk to him. This doesn’t need to be a full fledged conversation. A comment about the event you are participating in or watching can be enough to start a great talk about your interests. Continue to show him a friendly face!

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