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- ***HOW DO YOU KNOW IF AN ABUSIVE RELATIONSHIP CAN EVER CHANGE? - by Submitted on Oct 25, 2013 from Grace ChattingIn the thirty plus years that I have been involved in working with either victims or perpetrators of domestic abuse, and the professionals involved with them, one of the most difficult decisions for the parties involved and for the professionals working with them is “Can this relationship ever ...
Views: 2756 - ***PREPARING TO LEAVE AN ABUSIVE RELATIONSHIP - by Submitted on Oct 17, 2013 from Grace ChattingIf you have been in an abusive relationship that appears to be getting worse, then it is better to make a plan for how to get out safely while you can think straight. Research shows that one of the times that victims of domestic abuse are most at risk is when they are leaving or have just ...
Views: 2751 - ***The Dangers of Cyber-stalking - by Submitted on Apr 11, 2014 from Grace ChattingI am a great fan of technology and all the ways it enhances our lives and businesses, however it gives rise to a particularly 21st Century phenomenon, Cyber-stalking. Cyber-stalking is defined as non-consensual communication that causes fear and alarm, where some people use the internet as a ...
Views: 3876 - 002 My Separated Spouse Says He Can't And Won't Love Me Again: My Husband Doesn't Love Me Anymore What Do I Do - by Submitted on Jan 11, 2019 from Carmen Jimena002 My Separated Spouse Says He Can't And Won't Love Me Again: My Husband Doesn't Love Me Anymore What Do I Do It is a very frightening experience when you realize that your husband has fallen out of love in your marriage. You may despair as you assume that your situation has reached a point ...
Views: 254 - 10 Deadly Mistakes You Can’t Afford To Make If You Want To Get Your Ex Back - by Submitted on May 21, 2013 from Uadiale AmberBreakups are something that people go through all the time. It is something that can be painful and difficult to go through. This is why it is important to know how to deal with the problem as opposed to reacting to the breakup in a way that makes the process even harder to go through. However, ...
Views: 1344 - 12 ‘Don’ts’ for Fighting Fair - by Submitted on Aug 31, 2015 from nancy traversConflict is tough for most people. We don’t like it. It threatens us and makes us feel bad. Makes us feel defensive. But we can feel a whole lot better about fighting if we have rules to guide us. When the same rules apply to both you and your partner, you have something you both can depend ...
Views: 835 - 1947 Ex Boyfriend Has Met Someone - What Should I Do? - by Submitted on Oct 05, 2015 from Patrick UadialeFalling in love with someone can be the most incredible experience. It can also be the most devastating if the relationship ends. Most of us go through life only finding love once or twice, so when we have it we want to hold onto it. If you and your boyfriend broke up and you still feel a deep ...
Views: 544 - 2 Months After Breakup: It's Been Two Months After A Breakup, It Still Hurts - by Submitted on May 16, 2019 from Kayla Eden2 Months After Breakup: It's Been Two Months After A Breakup, It Still Hurts A lot of times we feel that to reverse a break up we need to go on this hounding trip and once we are done begging our ex will reconsider his decision. But that never works. So if you want to convince your ex to get ...
Views: 133 - 205 How To Stop Missing Your Ex - What To Do When You Start Missing Your Ex - by Submitted on Jul 27, 2016 from Patrick UadialeHow To Stop Missing Your Ex - What To Do When You Start Missing Your Ex There is no easy way on getting over a break up. It takes time and tons of effort to totally forget and accept everything that has happened. Regardless of your gender, it has never been easy to let go of someone you ...
Views: 1151 - 205 When To Give Up On An Ex - When To Stop Trying To Get An Ex Back - by Submitted on Nov 16, 2016 from Michael UadialeI suppose you might be wondering how long things can last without getting back together with your spouse, especially when you are hoping for reconciliation. There is no definite time frame when all hope of reconciling is cut-off, and I know this from personal experience. Some people can be apart ...
Views: 840 - 2387 Should I Tell My Ex I Miss Him - I Miss My Ex Boyfriend Should I Contact Him - by Submitted on Jun 29, 2016 from Michael Uadiale"I want my ex boyfriend to miss me." Have you said that recently? Do you wish for nothing more than a second chance with your ex? Sadly, many women feel exactly the same way you do. Going through a break up is hard enough. It's overwhelming when you are still in love with your boyfriend. It's ...
Views: 624 - 3 Man Approved Ways to Get Your Girl Back In Your Arms Fast - by Submitted on Oct 15, 2012 from Patrick UadialeYour girl vanished on you and now you're looking for ways to get your girl back that aren't going to have you living on a diet of tofu or carrying around her pup in purse, right? Believe it or not there are a few manly things you can do that will help improve the odds of you riding off into ...
Views: 821 - 3 Mind Blowing Ways to Get Your Man Back In Your Arms - by Submitted on Aug 07, 2011 from Larry GateTo get your man back, you must know exactly how to cope with him. I am going to share with you some mind blowing tips on ways to get your man back. Care more about your look When you want to get your ex back, you must focus on your look. The plan is to look yourself however a little ...
Views: 1641 - 3 Signs He's Still Interested in You - Get Your Ex Boyfriend Back In Your Arms! - by Submitted on May 11, 2011 from Charles UadialeIf even after the break up you feel that you still have strong feelings for your ex boyfriend there is nothing wrong in giving another opportunity. If you know that he is not one of those who are going to freely show his deepest emotions, there are some other ways to know the same. Here are ...
Views: 5664 - 3 Signs Your Ex Boyfriend Still Loves You and Want You Back Even After A Rough Breakup! - by Submitted on Nov 28, 2011 from Charles WealthHave you been looking for signs your ex boyfriend still loves you? It is very common to do this after a break up. You may be deliberating on attempting to win your ex boyfriend back. Before you do, try to find the following signs to be sure if there is hope to get back together with ...
Views: 11406 - 3 Subtle Signs Your Ex Boyfriend Still Loves You and Wants You Back - by Submitted on Mar 08, 2011 from Charles UadialeIf you’re searching for signs your ex boyfriend still loves you, you would not be on your own. a lot of women frequently ask themselves this similar question after a relationship has ended. If you had a sensibly excellent relationship that went disagreeable for some basis or another, there is a ...
Views: 3066 - 3 Ways To Get Your Ex Girlfriend Back - This Is Guaranteed to Work! - by Submitted on Nov 21, 2011 from Phillip TomAre you finding it difficult to reconcile with your ex girlfriend? Although the situation is easier said than done, the ways to get your girlfriend back are in point of fact very simple. Here are 3 different techniques to accomplish this, read them over and you are going to be able to come ...
Views: 3171 - 4 Common Pitfalls to Avoid When Dating Your Ex Boyfriend - by Submitted on Apr 11, 2013 from Uadiale AmberDating your ex boyfriend might be a great idea. Some relationships really are meant to be no matter how many obstacles you come across along the way. When you're making the decision about whether or not dating your ex boyfriend really is a good idea it's important to weigh all your options and ...
Views: 654 - 4 Common Pitfalls to Avoid When Dating Your Ex Boyfriend - by Submitted on May 22, 2013 from Uadiale AmberDating your ex boyfriend might be a great idea. Some relationships really are meant to be no matter how many obstacles you come across along the way. When you're making the decision about whether or not dating your ex boyfriend really is a good idea it's important to weigh all your options and ...
Views: 534 - 4 Reasons to Date Your Ex After a Breakup - by Submitted on Feb 22, 2013 from Charles ScholarThere are some occasions when it's the right move to date your ex after a breakup. But, how do you know when it's the right move to make? Obviously, this isn't the right choice for all relationships. Some are just not meant to be. That doesn't mean that yours, with a little work from both of ...
Views: 1344 - 4 Ways A Depressed Spouse Can Indirectly Harm Your Children: How Does Depression Affect Child Development - by Submitted on May 29, 2018 from John Braxton4 Ways A Depressed Spouse Can Indirectly Harm Your Children: How Does Depression Affect Child Development Depressed people might feel alone but they are most definitely not alone. The mood of a depressed spouse not only affects themselves but everyone around them; their friends, their ...
Views: 274 - 412 My Husband Says He Doesn't Love Me Like He Used To: Husband Told Me He Doesn't Feel The Way He Used To Feel - by Submitted on Jan 11, 2019 from Carmen JimenaMy Husband Says He Doesn't Love Me Like He Used To: Husband Told Me He Doesn't Feel The Way He Used To Feel May be you have been married for a few years, and you are beginning to notice an unsettling trend. Slowly but surely, your husband seems to be drifting away from you. He no longer seems ...
Views: 168 - 5 Cool Gadgets to Improve Home Safety - by Submitted on Apr 03, 2017 from Rachael MurpheyTechnology has influenced the way that products are made in the security industry. Now, you have smart devices that automatically turn on security lights, lock doors and more. Homeowners can monitor their homes from thousands of miles away. Know about 5 cool gadgets designed to enhance safety at ...
Views: 914 - 5 Tips to Consider When Buying a Home - by Submitted on Jul 27, 2018 from Tori UtleyAccording to Charles Simmons buying a home is an exciting experience, it is most likely a new phase in your life that will bring different experiences. Buying a home however is not a decision that should be made without the right information. You need to be sure that your home is the best and ...
Views: 169 - 5 Tips to Win Back Your Ex and Make Them Love You Again - by Submitted on Nov 11, 2011 from John VickiYou can't trick your ex into reconciling with you, you can't 'fake' the mindset you need to win back your ex and your intentions need to be genuine. To ensure you are headed in the right direction, this article gives a few tips you need. Tip 1: Getting back your ex doesn't come about by ...
Views: 630 - 5 Ways to Get Back With Ex Girlfriend and Make Her Love You Again - by Submitted on Nov 11, 2011 from John VickiToday, you are going to find out 5 ways to get back with ex girlfriend. Nevertheless, you have to understand that fixing up or repairing a broken relationship is easier said than done. It takes hard work at times... and if you are willing... then let's get to it! So here are the ways to get ...
Views: 878 - 5 Ways to Get My Ex Girlfriend Back - Stunting Trick to Win Her Back - by Submitted on Oct 14, 2012 from Patrick UadialeThere are many ways to "get my ex girlfriend back" for those who are looking. These five, when used together work better than most. 1) Fix the problem. Breakups rarely happen without a reason. Unfortunately, the reason stated for the breakup is rarely the true reason. This means that you're ...
Views: 1431 - 509 How To Reconnect With An Ex Lover - How To Reconnect With An Ex After No Contact - by Submitted on Jul 28, 2016 from Patrick UadialeReconnecting with an ex lover after a breakup can be extremely tough, especially if the breakup was your fault. Depending on how the relationship ended, the actions you take to get your ex lover back will greatly vary. The best way to approach your ex after the breakup, how to properly ...
Views: 2490 - 589 How To Get Your Ex Attention - How To Make Your Ex Beg For Your Attention - by Submitted on Jun 30, 2016 from Michael UadialeHow To Get Your Ex Attention? So you are sick and tired of your ex acting as if you don't exist. You know your ex sees you, but they don't seem to notice you enough to want you back. Crushed, you try harder and harder, only to find your ex still having no response. Let's stop this game right ...
Views: 1458 - 6 Months After Breakup Still Crying: It Has Been Six Months And I Still Cry About My Ex Who Dumped Me - by Submitted on May 16, 2019 from Kayla Eden6 Months After Breakup Still Crying: It Has Been Six Months And I Still Cry About My Ex Who Dumped Me If you're currently dealing with a breakup, chances are you're feeling a myriad of different emotions. From anger and depression to defeat, confusion and rejection - breaking up usually ...
Views: 164 - 6 Reasons Why Survivors of Child Sexual Abuse SPEAK - by Submitted on May 20, 2015 from Tonya GJ PrinceSpeaking about social change and social justice can have dangerous consequences. It can be dangerous if you speak out as someone who is or has been affected by the injustice. People laugh at you. They try to ignore you. They try to say that “something is wrong with you”. They try to say ...
Views: 603 - 6 Strong Signs You Have Narcissistic Abuse Syndrome - by Submitted on Jan 15, 2017 from Kim SaeedLike many people who’ve endured Narcissistic and emotional abuse, you probably didn’t realize what was happening to you until you reached a point of near insanity and began searching desperately for reasons why your fairytale romance took a grievous turn for the worse. Further, the person you ...
Views: 1823 - 6 Warning Signs of a Manipulative Relationship - by Submitted on Oct 01, 2012 from Zita FeketeAt my most recent check up, a pretty nurse prepared me for the visit. Her fine face was decorated by a dark circle encompassing her eye – almost surely caused by the viscous hand of her “loved one”. She was obviously deep in her ruins but was valiantly pretending everything’s all right. I was ...
Views: 2785 - 641 Will He Come Back If I Ignore Him? Win Back Your Ex With the No Contact Rule - by Submitted on Oct 05, 2015 from Patrick UadialeWill he come back if I ignore him? You've been wondering about this, haven't you? There's so much information about the no contact rule and how well it works when it comes to regaining a man's attention. You're skeptical though. You can't imagine cutting off all contact with a man you're so ...
Views: 7374 - 698 How To Get Him Back After An Argument - How To Get Your Boyfriend Back After A Fight - by Submitted on Jun 30, 2016 from Michael UadialeThe two of you have had a massive fight. You're worried because it's been several days since it happened and you have yet to hear from him. Being a woman in this position is never easy. You replay the conflict back over in your mind and you wish with everything that you could find a way to ...
Views: 3105 - 8 reasons why men are not eager to get married - by Submitted on May 07, 2012 from Raymond FohjemHave you ever wondered why some men are not eager to get married? Have you ever come across someone who has all what it takes, but not willing to settle down with a partner? Have you ever wondered why some men decide to be running after many girls at once? Whenever you come across someone ...
Views: 2629 - 980 How To Reconcile With An Ex Lover - How To Reconcile With Your Ex Boyfriend / Girlfriend - by Submitted on Jun 29, 2016 from Michael UadialeAre you interested in possibly getting back together with your ex after a recent break up? Can I ask you this tough question? How are you feeling after just recently breaking up with your ex? Getting back together or reconciling with an ex after a breakup is very possible if you're determined to ...
Views: 675 - A Complete Guide to Get Your Ex Boyfriend Back in One Month - by Submitted on Feb 11, 2011 from Charles UadialeWant to get your ex boyfriend back in one month? It's absolutely achievable! The issue is that a lot of women attempt to win their ex boyfriend back with the wrong approach! Before we present your strategy to get your ex boyfriend back in just one month, there are some things that must be ...
Views: 1471 - A Letter to Family and Friends of Abused Women - by Submitted on Sep 20, 2011 from Penelope Van BuskirkYou have watched and worried about your daughter or friend who married several years ago. She and her husband have attended family dinners and outings. As parents and friends, you have seen bruises on her; a black eye one time and a bruise on her cheek another. You have carefully approached her ...
Views: 2316 - A Look At Abuse - by Submitted on Feb 23, 2011 from Ainsworth ForgenieAbuse is the psychological, physical, sexual and spiritual violation of a spiritual being. All of creation is but an extension of the Divine Being who fills the expanse of the universe, the living entity that fills all things and is all things. All of creation comes from Source, is connected to ...
Views: 604 - A Plan to Get Your Boyfriend Back - How Ignoring Him Will Recapture His Attention Again - by Submitted on Apr 30, 2011 from Charles UadialeYou are probably searching for a plan to get your boyfriend back. Who could blame you? The only time you were happy was when you were with him. You miss your boyfriend so much and no other guy can be compared to him. To you moving on is impossible since you’re still so very much in love with ...
Views: 15733 - A Proven Method to Get Back Together With Your Ex Boyfriend - Advice For Women - by Submitted on Mar 01, 2011 from Charles UadialeYou would like a proven method to get back together with your ex boyfriend. For sure you do. You still love him and at the moment he's hardly speaking to you. Since the broke up it appears like there is a valley of quarrel dividing both of you. You’ve no suggestion on the way to conquer that as ...
Views: 550 - A Story of Forgiveness - by Submitted on Apr 09, 2011 from Jason FreedmanArticle By: Jason Freedman Po. Box 496 Salt Lake City, UT 84110 801-949-9651 JasonFreedmanjournalism@gmail.com The Tragedy to Triumph Story of Teal Scott It was a cold, gray March morning at Greenhouse Effect Coffee in south Salt Lake City. I had arrived early so as to set up ...
Views: 821 - A Surprising Reason for Conflict in Relationships - by Submitted on Dec 07, 2018 from Geoff LaughtonI bet you haven’t even thought about this reason for relationship conflict! I remember learning this theory 25 years ago, and it’s still not really “out there” in the mainstream. So many of us have stuff we haven’t worked through or resolved. As a result, we may feel let down and reactive ...
Views: 223 - Abuse Campaign of Pathological Narcissists - by Submitted on May 19, 2016 from Randi FinePathological Narcissistic Abuse Written by Randi G. Fine Excerpt from my upcoming book, Close Encounters of the Worst Kind: The Narcissistic Abuse Survivors Guide to Healing Pathological narcissistic abuse is far more damaging than any of us can possibly conceive. Have no doubt—it is both ...
Views: 704 - Abused Children: Do Abused Children Need To Forgive Their Parents? - by Submitted on Apr 12, 2013 from Oliver JR CooperWhen it comes to moving on and letting go of an abusive past, it is not uncommon to hear that one needs to forgive. The act of forgiveness is highly regarded by many people and in numerous schools of thought. Religion has also espoused this outlook from the very beginning. So is it really a ...
Views: 2348 - Abused Children: Why Do Abused Children Deny What Happened? - by Submitted on Apr 12, 2013 from Oliver JR CooperAlthough the title refers to abused children, this article will primarily look at why some adults, who were abused as children, grow up to deny what happened to them. Individuals that were abused in their childhood by their parents or caregivers often find it hard to look at and admit to what ...
Views: 2942 - Abused Children: Why Do They Have Boundary Problems? - by Submitted on May 13, 2013 from Oliver JR CooperThis article has the description abused children and therefore gives the impression that it is going to be all about children. However, this will be about adults who were abused as children and as a result of this now have a real challenge with boundaries. When it comes to child abuse, there ...
Views: 1526 - Abusers Abuse despite Abandonment Anxiety - by Submitted on Jul 30, 2016 from Sam VakninBy Sam Vaknin Author of "Malignant Self-love: Narcissism Revisited" The abuser abuses his intimate partners, significant others, and nearest and dearest because it helps him to regulate his excruciating abandonment anxiety in 4 ways: (1) By devaluing others, he restores his sense of ...
Views: 1630 - Abusive Behaviour: Why Do People Put Up With Abusive Behaviour? - by Submitted on Jun 09, 2013 from Oliver JR CooperAbusive behaviour can include all that makes one feel compromised, undermined and taken advantage of. It can be in the relationships one has with: friends, family, colleagues and in intimate relationships. The type of environment it is, or whether one is male or female, the race or the ...
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