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“I’m just trying to be a father, raise a daughter and a son, be a lover to their mother, everything to everyone…yeah, I’m real good under pressure being all that I can be…I just work straight through the holidays, and sometimes all night long…’cause freedom don’t come free.. I’m an American, an ... Views: 2052
The Four Seasons of Life, The Four Seasons of Love
Often times in conversations with friends or clients, I have used the analogy of the four seasons to assimilate the happenings of daily life and relationship challenges that happened in my as well as their lives. It is a positive thinking ... Views: 2937
Excitement was in the air as gifts were being selected for Christmas giving. My 16 year old daughter who has always been into environmental issues and working on making the earth a better place decided this one year she wanted a special watch. The face of the watch was a sepia/gold color of the ... Views: 1130
One of the most common traps I see couples fall into when they are upset with each other is the… “A, but B, but A, but B”… conversations. These conversations are characterized by their repetitive nature in which each person continues to make the same point over and over again. What’s happening ... Views: 935
Having had three natural and happy births (so far) and having set up house, organic garden and begun home schooling, my wife and I decided to turn our attention to a home based family business. Since I work from home and my wife is the primary carer, we needed something that would fit in to our ... Views: 1773
Life moves fast, and this is reflected in our health: we eat fast food and foods that cook fast, foods filled with preservatives and additives, and exercise gets ignored in favor of working late or doing homework.
Our children learn from our example, and we all know that we want better for our ... Views: 1396
There is a new mentality in the industrialized world which I call the microwave mentality. It is a result of the information age and will only grow with industrialization. I call it the microwave mentality.
We want everything quickly in this day and age because there is such an abundance of ... Views: 3171
The Orders of Love describe a natural hierarchy that has been observed through the practice of Family Constellations. What we have observed, is that there is a distinct order that states who belongs, and who doesn’t belong not only to a family system, but also to groups and nations. On working ... Views: 2633
My mother is an artist. She has dabbled in different mediums over the years, but always settles back to oil on canvas. Over the years I’ve watched her start with a white canvas and create beautiful pieces. The different processes that she uses to create are captivating. Sometimes she works with ... Views: 793
Today marks the day the Sandusky verdict was announced. It is also the day when the healing for the children, families, communities and our nation begins.
What happened at Penn State was a terrible tragedy. But as a witness to what transpired, what have we learned? Why not take a moment to ... Views: 2105
Family stories are so important. My father-in-law, Richie, told us one the night after his wife Hilda’s funeral. It’s amazing how funerals bring out tales of days gone by. A key gets turned in our hearts at such times, and the door opens and out flow words that need saying.
He talked about ... Views: 898
What plans do you have for your family?
Whether married or not, the following insights are essential.
“I knew I was happily married, until she told me that she was leaving.” I said to where? She replied, “I cannot continue like this. I gave you all the prime years of my life, only for ... Views: 712
Each time you look for a thing that you can possibly give as gifts never get contented with the second best. Choose from a wide variety of selections but only choose the best. After all, we always want to give only the best for our loved ones. More often than not, we give gifts to express our ... Views: 1188
Mom, can I borrow the car?
Dad, can I have some money for the movies?
Honey, what's for dinner?
Life is full of wanting things from people and trying to get people to do things for us. That just seems to be the way things are these days. And many of the things that we need or want are ... Views: 1290
All children love cakes especially birthday cakes. They’re the most important part of any children’s party and all the guests get excited and super impatient for a delicious, mouth-watering and fluffy cake. Having said that, there are so many different ways to make sure you get your little one ... Views: 743
Are you in the process of planning an RV trip? If you are, it is important to take a close look at your traveling party. If you are a parent, will you be traveling with your children? If so, it is important that you take the proper amount of time to plan and prepare for your upcoming RV trip. ... Views: 4287
Today I thank Dad he gave me life and he gave me reasons to live
What I learned from Dad has brought me to places I never knew I could reach. He gave me the belief that given the desire and the willingness I can achieve almost anything. Dad believed that in his heart and it got into my heart. ... Views: 2153
Celebrating your anniversary is much more than just spending some time with your loved one. Most of the people think that anniversary is just a formality which they need to celebrate every year. However, if you know the real purpose and meaning of your wedding anniversary, you could get the best ... Views: 280
It is so comforting to see a joyful person who always wears a smile on his face. The same person is happy and content, and lives his live to the fullest. Here are some benefits you can drive from being happy.
Happiness Reduces Stress
You may say that it’s just that those people who are ... Views: 1232
Maybe you are looking at the title to this article and thinking "What the heck? How can family be toxic?". Maybe you are one of those people who know exactly what the title is all about. Whatever your reason for reading this article, I hope it speaks to you and you learn something from reading ... Views: 3799
Recently, the American public was disgusted and horrified by the despicable lewd and vulgar remarks about women which were made by Donald Trump.
The remarks were uttered during appearances on Access Hollywood and the Howard Stern Radio show. They were discovered by the Washington Post and ... Views: 1008
Recently, President Trump signed an executive order to ban travel from Sudan, Iran, Syria, Iraq, Somalia, Libya and Yemen to the USA. The executive order caused furor everywhere including the USA. The executive order already faced protests at airports worldwide.
The executive order defies ... Views: 1188
The first consideration that one requires in order to turn your life around is to look at yourself with clarity, honesty and discernment. What do you, as an individual, stand on? We live in a day and age where many are lost, confused, misdirected and misguided. We have many in our population ... Views: 1577
The revered Sufi poet, Rumi, wrote:
“We turn poison into medicine and our sorrows into blessings”
I’m thankful for many things. I live a wonderful life, surrounded by loving friends and my beloved husband, Richard; I have the privilege of doing ... Views: 992
Issues of child and spousal support frequently arise in California divorce proceedings. Whether or not the court will award an Order of Child or Spousal Support is determined by a variety of factors. For matters involving child support, California Family Code Section 3600 (b) permits the Courts ... Views: 749
You may be feeling slightly overwhelmed, especially if you are getting new wife or girlfriend gifts for her to give on her birthday. Maybe you have no idea what to give and need help with unique gift ideas for her. Whether she is getting married or just celebrating her 21st birthday, getting a ... Views: 668
Guy Fawks night is the British equivalent of the 4th July—well almost. Fireworks certainly spill into the night skies above every town in the country. Held on the 5th November its usually a chilly night with spectators wrapped up in hats, scarves, gloves and coats, grateful for the raging ... Views: 2965
To the Americans it is Mom, but to the British it is Mum! (or is it!)
Whether it is Mom or Mum – most of us dearly love our mums. By the way the word Mom is used widely in the Midlands of England (Think Birmingham). Mom and Mummy are old-English words. In some parts of Scotland they also use ... Views: 1240
Despite the festive mood of this precious time of year, the news, of chaos and turmoil that are attempting to spread their wings of doom upon our world, may lead one to be cynical pertinent to acquiring a jovial attitude in celebrating Christmas and the New Year. Nevertheless, we need to ... Views: 753
If you are involved in planning a wedding in 2012, then you will be involved in the decision-making process for a number of issues. One of the most overlooked things by brides-to-be in regards to planning their weddings is how they will wear their hair on the big day. Not only do brides have to ... Views: 1549
If you want a different look that would make you appear effortlessly charming, you should try putting on a baby doll dress. This type of outfit has girly-girl written all over it, thus giving you an instant feminine appeal. You will also love the comfortable fabric used in such clothing, which ... Views: 1218
In spite of the lack of kids-centred attractions, Thailand is still very appealing to families with children with plenty of activities both on the beach and away from the sea. Thais are extremely welcoming toward kids. A couple of of the most family friendly beach resorts in Thailand are the ... Views: 1102
So your loved one finally accepts treatment. A wave of relief washes over the family. There is a glimmer of hope for a future free of the chaos. But the battle isn't over. Treatment is just the beginning. There is no cure for addiction. a good treatment program teaches the addict how to avoid ... Views: 1321
Many people have no idea what or who is a life coach and why in the world would they need one?
OK, I will attempt to explain it to you.
A life coaching is the relationship based on trust. The life coaching process helps people to identify what makes them frustrated and unhappy in their ... Views: 656
Every now and again you come across a situation in your life that blows your hair back, your skirt up or...just blows. For example: you find out the person you’re seriously considering spending the rest of your life with isn’t interested in a long term relationship with you. Or you discover one ... Views: 1267
I grew up in the Amish, Mennonite country of south central Pennsylvania. Rolling hills with fertile ground made for excellent farming.
Sundays after church my dad would get us all in the car for a Sunday drive that would invariably take us into the heart of Lancaster ... Views: 5912
Los Gatos Live in Home Care is a great option for many people. Countless adult children take care of their parents or grandparents; however, often the loved one needs care, day and night. Adult children often are working a job outside the home, and are not available to assist with a loved one. A ... Views: 911
When you lose someone you love and are grieving, Thanksgiving Day feels burdensome and painful. When a brain tumor took away our precious Katie’s life I dreaded that holiday. For seven years we served no rutabagas because they were Katie’s favorite vegetable. The thought of their seasonal ... Views: 4821
I will raise my hand and admit. I love to have my parents come in town AND I also love to see them go home. I LOVE my parents. I enjoy spending time with my parents; we always have a fabulous time. Picking them up at the airport is a joy-filled event and so is dropping them off at the ... Views: 1090
Although your friends and family are an important part of your life, you may find that they’re ill-equipped to support you through your loss. I found that even though my friends and family were well meaning, they often said or did things that were inappropriate.
Whenever we hung out together, ... Views: 1302
Our children are being bombarded with candy from every direction. Chocolate bars, gum, suckers, and assorted gummy candies line the checkout lanes in grocery stores. School fundraisers sell candy bars, cookies, and brownies in the hallways during lunch hours. Every mall, skating rink, soccer ... Views: 990
Women and Boundaries
Women who are we and what do we really want? In earlier generations, women were not the powerful, independent, “I can do anything!” wonder women that they are today. When I wanted to take mechanical drawing in high school in the 50’s, it had to be approved by ... Views: 1543
Every man wants to become a good father one day. Decision to become a good father is very difficult as one has to sacrifice many things for the sake of their children, but the happiness of being a father makes is more than these easy sacrifices.
Father is the head of every family, and we all ... Views: 629
Worry Warts Anonymous
By Patricia Potts
Okay, I admit it. Worrying comes natural for me. In fact I will actually admit that at times I am addicted. When I became a parent then a grandparent my worrying accelerated. When my little ones lay cuddled in the warmth of blankets. I ... Views: 2103
12:15 am. He knows he is supposed to be home by midnight. Where is he?
What if he has been in an accident? Images of bloody moaning teenagers flash through my mind. What if he is trapped in his Jeep and can’t get out? Visions of the Jeep hanging upside down over a guard rail- the driver ... Views: 1057
You Wanna Do What?!?
Are You Nuts?
Because I blog about changing your lifestyle I have asked readers to comment about what they think are the personal barriers to chucking it all right now and living the ultimate family lifestyle. I want to thank all who responded. The honesty and palpable ... Views: 994
By America’s #1 Love and Marriage Experts.
As our loyal readers know, we have been researching successful marriage around the world for nearly three decades. We have travelled to 47 countries on six of the world’s seven continents in search of the best marriages.
In our speeches, blogs, ... Views: 4310
By America’s #1 Love and Marriage Experts.
We have studied marriage around the globe for three decades. And while our focus has principally been on successful marriage, we have interviewed a lot of folks whose marriage was in trouble – whose marriage was falling apart.
There is nothing ... Views: 10663
By America’s #1 Love and Marriage Experts.
In Middle America, marriage is in trouble! So say W. Bradford Wilcox of the National Marriage Project at the University of Virginia and Elizabeth Marquardt of the Center for Marriage and Families Institute for American Values in New York ... Views: 3077
By America’s #1 Love and Marriage Experts.
While times are tougher than normal in the country today, the best marriages and love affairs will sustain the test of tough times for all the right reasons – during good or bad times the best loving relationships find ways to survive and ... Views: 3568