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- Relationships: Can Vulnerability Lead To Deeper Relationships? - by Submitted on Aug 28, 2013 from Oliver JR CooperOne of the greatest human needs is to feel connected to others and this can relate to an intimate relationship with the opposite sex or the same, depending on one’s sexual preference and to family and friends. To share who one is and to be involved in the sharing of another, plays a vital role ...
Views: 1927 - How do you Handle Mutual Friends after a Break Up? - by Submitted on Aug 27, 2013 from Mara EnidDealing with a breakup is very complicated but the presence of mutual friends’ makes it even more complicated. In addition to dealing with heartbreak emotions, you will also have to deal with a problem that will keep you connected with your ex, the one that you cannot stand a minute with. The ...
Views: 6432 - Moving 4ward - by Submitted on Aug 20, 2013 from Jhoan GabrielRecently, some friends are hanging around confiding to me issues about break ups, make ups, and some were asking if their relationship is worth pursuing. I came to a point doubting myself if I were in the position to handle their ques and give them advise since I had just gone through a major ...
Views: 1478(1 vote) - Enhance Your Friendship with a Personal Handwritten Congratulations Message - by Submitted on Aug 10, 2013 from Ronaldus van SThe day has come. Today, one of your best friends celebrates his or her 30th birthday. A few days ago you bought a personal gift and a congratulations card. Yet, just before leaving to go to the party the following questions pop up: What to write on the card? How to think of a personal ...
Views: 1474(1 vote) - A Lonely Heart - by Submitted on Jul 26, 2013 from Womens Recreation, Inc.A lonely heart, filled with sadness, once was so full of life. Two hearts were beating as one for such a long time. Time was their friend, adventure was their middle name. Sitting curled up in each other’s arms they’ve watched many sunsets. The seagulls flying overhead made them smile as ...
Views: 1528 - Who Should Pay The Bill - by Submitted on Jul 17, 2013 from David SamuelThe concept of splitting the bill when out with your friends for a meal or coffee for example, each paying for themselves, is a terrible thing because it robs us of the joy of giving and joy of receiving. Not only the joy is lost, but there is a far more insidious problem that invades our ...
Views: 1408 - 3 Ways To Get Your Ex To Talk To You - Get Your Ex Back Now! - by Submitted on Jul 09, 2013 from Uadiale JohnWhen a relationship breaks up it is very common for one of the partners to realize that the feelings they had were much deeper than they realized and that they would be prepared to do just about anything to get back together again. This can of course be difficult if certain things were said ...
Views: 1087(1 vote) - Only Quality People – 6 Tips For Healthy Friendships - by Submitted on Jul 11, 2013 from Kael RanschaertThink for a second or two about the people you consistently spend most of your free time with. We all have a certain social groups we connect with regularly, but do we really understand the effects of these relationships? Ask Yourself “What are these relationships doing to me?” I know ...
Views: 3577(2 votes) - Online Personalized Friendship Day Greeting Cards for Your Best Friends - by Submitted on Jul 09, 2013 from Ashish KumarFriendship is a relationship of mutual affection between two or more people. It is an interpersonal bond which has elevates the stair of normal acquaintanceship. In this bond you will share the real emotions of affection, sympathy, honesty, altruism and compassion. The real spice that bond up ...
Views: 1546 - What Makes Writing So Good For You? - by Submitted on Jul 07, 2013 from Caroline MacroryCan writing down your thoughts, feelings and experiences be a healing experience? Can it change your entire life for the better? More and more studies show it can. Human beings have used the written word to explore their emotions for thousands of years, but only recently has research shown that ...
Views: 1336 - Why People Don't Help Others In An Emergency - by Submitted on Jun 19, 2013 from Mika ElaImagine a busy street. Loads of cars, people... And suddenly a woman falls on the floor and sprawls. Will you help her? You would probably say 'yes' but according to research you wouldn't help. How so? This phenomenon, called "The Bystander Effect", became an object of psychologists' interest ...
Views: 1552(2 votes) - Lubricate your love! - by Submitted on Jun 07, 2013 from Sandeep KumarYou love to tease her, you like to tickle her. You mischievously puzzle her when she asks you how much you adore her. You make her greedier when she simply craves for your love and affection. You love to treat her like a queen during those intimate moments. Well, we know why you have landed up ...
Views: 1319 - How Daydreaming Overcomes Impulsive Acts - by Submitted on Jun 02, 2013 from Hal Wechsler“How Daydreaming Success, Overcomes Impulsive Acts” • 1. “Pop, what’s with this stuff on “immediate-gratification”, and impatience? Doesn’t every sane person want “it” now, not later?” • 2. “You wanna fight or hear the latest neuroscience. Good. When you’re a little kid, you don’t analyze, ...
Views: 1482(1 vote) - How Daydreaming Overcomes Impulsive Acts - by Submitted on Jun 02, 2013 from Hal Wechsler“How Daydreaming Success, Overcomes Impulsive Acts” • 1. “Pop, what’s with this stuff on “immediate-gratification”, and impatience? Doesn’t every sane person want “it” now, not later?” • 2. “You wanna fight or hear the latest neuroscience. Good. When you’re a little kid, you don’t analyze, ...
Views: 37 - Know If Your Are In A Friendzone Before Romancing Your Friend - by Submitted on Jun 25, 2013 from Andy SowardsFriendzone is a situation where one of the mates in a friendly relationship gets attracted romantically to the other, while the other doesn’t think in the same way. Thus it becomes a very platonic situation for both the partners. To be rejected is heartening and nobody likes it but being ...
Views: 1076 - Good First Date Ideas: Help You To Make Your Date A Memorable Experience - by Submitted on Jun 25, 2013 from Andy SowardsOne of the good first date ideas is to make it fun and memorable while keeping it inexpensive. To leave a good impression in front of your date, you should be well prepared with dating ideas. This will also help you to make your first date a fun and enjoyable experience. Once you have work ...
Views: 2105(1 vote) - Don’t You At Times Wish that Your Relationship with Your Partner Will be as Good as the One You Have with Your Friend? - by Submitted on May 24, 2013 from Doron GilHave you ever wished that your relationship with your partner will be at a similar level of friendship like the one you have with your closest friend? That with him you would be able to talk about everything in the open, like really two soul-mates? Hellas, this is often not the case. And when ...
Views: 1409 - What Is the Best that You Can Do When Wanting to Help Your Friend? - by Submitted on May 22, 2013 from Doron GilIntroduction There are those who, when confronted with a crisis situation or with a need to change something, get into a “helpless” state of mind. They feel they don’t have control over their lives, that they can’t make decisions and move forward. They might feel stuck in whichever situation ...
Views: 1506(1 vote) - Emotional Attaching - by Submitted on May 21, 2013 from Kathy WilsonMany years ago I was crying on the shoulder of one of my dear, wise friends about... what else... a man I'd been dating who'd done me wrong. She let me go on for a while as I told her in graphic detail about this latest in his history of being a rat. And I reminded her of several instances in ...
Views: 1581 - How Negative Energy Effects Adults, Teenagers and Children: What We Can Do To Change it - by Submitted on May 18, 2013 from Bob LivingstoneNegative energy has a profound effect on adults, teens and children. People who carry around this adverse attitude can appear to be very powerful to those in their presence. Negative energy is expressed by put downs of you or your friends. These comments are stated either directly to you or ...
Views: 2333 - Are You Threatened By Other People’s Success? - by Submitted on May 17, 2013 from Mike RobbinsMay 16, 2013 (For this week’s audio podcast, click here.) How do you feel when you see or hear about the success of others? While it may depend on who it is, what they’ve accomplished, and how you’re feeling about your own life at the time – if you’re anything like me, you may have some ...
Views: 1934 - William and Hannah:A Story About Forgiveness - by Submitted on May 15, 2013 from Cherie Ballog"To err is human; to forgive, divine."-Alexander Pope This parable stars two children; however, if we adults examine our hearts closely I think we'll find bits of William and Hannah hiding somewhere deep inside them. William and Hannah were next door neighbors which served them well, since ...
Views: 1757 - Best Cities for Single Women That Has Loads and Loads of Available Single Men - by Submitted on May 14, 2013 from Donald TilfordIf you’re a single woman looking to find that special man in your life, you may want to consider moving to one of the cities listed below if you are having a hard time finding Mr. Right. Today’s women are extra busy going to school, working full-time, and trying to find the right balance of ...
Views: 1261(2 votes) - Relationships and the Law of Attraction, Part Two - by Submitted on Jan 13, 2016 from Chris SpinkWhen others are around you become angry with you whether that is through words or actions, know that the problem doesn’t lie with you but wholly with them. If you don’t take their behavior personally, understanding that it is their personal difficulty, and don’t get angry back at them, after ...
Views: 1174 - Is Emotional Anorexia keeping you trapped? - by Submitted on May 03, 2013 from Lillian OgbogohNow when we conjure up the word of anorexia, we have this image of a woman, sometimes men with an eating disorder. Where they obsessively refuse food in a bid to control their lives and bodies which leads to self-starvation; Emotional anorexia operates on the plane. It’s defined as the ...
Views: 3020 - Time Proven Techniques To Convince Your Guy To Gladly Commit To You - by Submitted on May 01, 2013 from Tony CimbaEnduring problems with your relationship and want some instruction? Do you know why beaus shy away in relationships? Gather the secrets and techniques you will need to know for getting your guy to commit. You can't literally "brainwash" a dude into making a commitment to you. Still it is ...
Views: 1522(1 vote) - Improve Social Conversation Skills With 6 Fast Tips - by Submitted on Apr 27, 2013 from Joshua UebergangSocial skills are an absolute must for survival in our world. If you do not have the ability to maintain a social conversation, then you will be left behind so many ways. You probably do not need me to tell how not having good conversation skills makes you feel bad and left out in social ...
Views: 1747 - The Right Love In Front Of Your Face - by Submitted on Apr 23, 2013 from Adrienne FikesDid you see that? You missed it, didn’t you? Right there, while you were complaining about how terrible your life is right now, it happened. Love showed up. You don’t even believe me. Seriously, in that exact same moment you were droning on and on about what they did to you and how unfair it ...
Views: 1560 - Having a Partner & Being in an Intimate Relationship: Does it Bring More Happiness? - by Submitted on Apr 18, 2013 from Doron GilIs there a correlation between having a partner and being happy? Some believe that the “trick” to being happy is to have a relationship, as if it will solve all problems: depression, sadness, low self-esteem and so on. Having a relationship – so they believe – will make them satisfied and ...
Views: 1404 - Do You Know the Many Different Types of Friendships? - by Submitted on Apr 05, 2013 from Niki CleggThrough my many years of life, experience and learning I have found there are different types and levels of friendships and relationships. I want to discuss this in my article and see if anyone agrees. I have been around for many years and have learnt so much about myself and life. I believe ...
Views: 1511(2 votes) - Spiritual Crisis: How to Stop Gun Violence - by Submitted on Apr 04, 2013 from Stephanie MannAmericans hear tragic stories every day involving guns! However, we must discuss community change if we are going to stop violent behavior! Government, police, schools and nonprofit groups work to reduce violence with educational programs on child abuse, bullying, drug abuse, domestic violence ...
Views: 1884 - 7 Keys to Self-Love and Positive Inner Calm - by Submitted on Apr 04, 2013 from Solvita BennettDear Friend, … We are generally conditioned through our life experiences that we must deserve love, not only from others, but also from ourselves. This influence comes from our very early childhood. We can all remember the situations in our childhood, when we as little children were punished ...
Views: 1527(1 vote) - What to Say to a Grieving Person - by Submitted on Mar 31, 2013 from Jane CranstonWhen a loved one, friend, neighbor, or co-worker has a loss, most people feel compelled to say something. The question is “what?” Having lost some very important people in my life as well as attempted to console friends and colleagues who have had to deal with death, here are my suggestions ...
Views: 1454 - 3 Attributes of Cool People - by Submitted on Mar 30, 2013 from Danish AhmedHi there everyone!! Our events are always different (innovative and creative), but there’s one common element that is our winning formula. Our community has cool people, and so our parties are full of cool people. Why? What’s so special about the people we know? These are three ...
Views: 1935 - Is Friendship Affected by Low Confidence? - by Submitted on Mar 24, 2013 from Joshua NyamacheDo you know that low self-esteem and lack of confidence can affect what you're capable of achieving? Here is a confession from an Italian lady. "I grew up in an Italian family. Our meals were centered on bread and pasta. Even though people always kidded me and said I was born with a fork in ...
Views: 1164 - Scary Stuff & Pain Removal by Eye-Movements - by Submitted on Mar 22, 2013 from Hal WechslerScary Experiences & Pain Are Gone in 30-Seconds • 1. “Gettoutahere!” you are Not a medical doctor, psychologist, or ophthalmologist, what the hell do you know about pain removal or trauma?” - he yelled at me. • 2. “Right-on. I suggest you go to your physician, or get a referral to a ...
Views: 1304(3 votes) - Learning To Be Alone - by Submitted on Mar 29, 2013 from Virginia PintoBeing alone isn’t necessarily a weakness; it can be a sign of strength. A person who has learned to find and value himself or herself in solitude has also overcome many fears. They have understood that they do not need to rely on another person to be happy, even if they choose to share their ...
Views: 1438(1 vote) - Learning How to Socialize is Important - by Submitted on Mar 14, 2013 from Joshua NyamacheIt is important to learn how to socialize with people in order to make friends. We all need each other and as such no single person can exist without having to rely on others. We are highly social beings and there is no way we can ignore this fact. In deed "No man is an island." This is a famous ...
Views: 2248 - The Boy with the Crew Cut - by Submitted on Mar 12, 2013 from Cheryl GillmoreIt was autumn in Iowa, 1963. I was fourteen and about to begin eighth grade. My mother remarried--for the sixth time--and we moved from my hometown of Muscatine to a farm just outside the rural community of Atalissa. This was the nineteenth move for me since my dad died in 1953. I was four back ...
Views: 1672 - We Danced to a Different Drum - by Submitted on Mar 19, 2013 from Cheryl GillmoreWe were just kids back then--somebody's sons and daughters--searching for our place, our voice, our future, our identity during a time that would never come again. It was a time of freedom, of few limitations, when belief in yourself—your talents and abilities—fueled your future, your ...
Views: 1563 - Real Friendship–Your Words Matter - by Submitted on Mar 08, 2013 from Joshua NyamacheYour words determine the destiny of real friendship. If you are like most of us, you have probably lost your cool and said unkind words to your buddy. Did you notice her reaction? She was probably hurt or angered. Words are very powerful things. They have the power to deeply hurt another ...
Views: 1369 - Friends with Benefits.. does it work? - by Submitted on Mar 08, 2013 from Lady FontaineThere have been several studies done on Friends with Benefits Relationships which involve surveys of thousands of college students. These are recent surveys (2007). Based on these studies only 10% of friends with benefits relationships turn into romantic relationships. Approximately 1/3 of those ...
Views: 1156 - Friendship: 4 Smart Tips of Nurturing It - by Submitted on Mar 06, 2013 from Joshua NyamacheDear reader, I want you to ask yourself these questions: Does true friendship exist? If yes, do I cultivate and maintain it? When was the last time I made my friends happy? Don't tell me your answers, just keep them for yourself. You'll agree with me that it's wonderful to have friends around ...
Views: 1321 - Your Friends Should Feel Your Presence In Their Lives - by Submitted on Mar 06, 2013 from Joshua NyamacheFriends are very important since we need to socialize with people other than family members. One thing you should understand is that you have no choice to select who to be your family member but you have the choice to decide who your friends are. There are some things that you cannot tell and ...
Views: 1323 - Keep Your Love Locked Down and Find Your Soul Mate - by Submitted on Feb 20, 2013 from Yamaya CruzYou ever have one of those songs that you just can’t get out of your head. These songs are so incredibly infectious that you find yourself singing the lyrics at the most inopportune time. I guess that is the power of good music, or good marketing. The one song that I like to avoid is “Love ...
Views: 1475 - WHERE IS LOVE? - by Submitted on Feb 17, 2013 from Tina TessinaProbably the most prevalent question I’m asked in my counseling practice is “Where is love?” Clients want to know why they can’t find a successful life partnership, why a friend or family member won’t respond as they would like, even why they don’t love themselves. In a perfect world, love ...
Views: 1654(4 votes) - Why being single could be bad for your health - by Submitted on Feb 14, 2013 from Mark RagoThe social organization of our world is changing. People are getting married later in their lives. Unions between couples are not always in traditional marriages, but increasingly as cohabitation, with or without children. A significant amount of marriages dissolve and we are left wondering ...
Views: 1816 - Did Valentine's Day Make You Feel Happy or Sad? - by Submitted on Feb 15, 2013 from Niki CleggValentine's Day has been, gone and the shops are getting rid of all the hearts and special love offers. It is just one day for everyone in love to proclaim their love. To be fair this can and should be done every day of the year. Is it vital you get flowers, chocolates or anything else that says ...
Views: 1897(2 votes) - When you need help with girls - by Submitted on Apr 05, 2013 from brendan jonesA long time has passed since you have been trying to get closer to girls, but for unknown reasons even your best attempts have served no purpose. Well the problem might be in your approach – fix this and you get it right. Kezia Noble, the world’s premier female dating expert is here to help ...
Views: 1124(2 votes) - Singles Rejoice: 11 Valentine’s Day Spiritual Tips - by Submitted on Feb 04, 2013 from Scott & Stephen PetulloValentine’s day can be a wonderful day for happy couples. But what about everyone else? We don’t mean to be a downer for those of you who are romance fans, but it can be one of the most depressing days of the year for a large percentage of the population that is single or unhappily involved. ...
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