3 Tips For First Time Phone Conversation With A Woman You Meet Online

You have met an interesting woman online.
You two had a great time chatting online
and she decided
to give you her phone number.
Now you have to make her want
to see you face to face,
and the phone is your only tool.

The first telephone call is the most important one.
Sure you have her number,
but nothing has been won yet.

1. Before you call
you should have prepared a
list of several topics to talk about.
Hopefully your email exchange
has provided you with some information to follow up on.

Study her profile to think of
other topics to talk about.
Prepare open ended questions.
Start talking about a subject,
and give her a chance to speak as well.

2. DON'T: ask her questions about
other guys she's seeing,
suspiciously interrogate her about how
she spends her time,
and angrily reprimand her for flaking on you.
How she spends her time is her business.

A lot of men sabotage their chances with
a woman by not giving her
enough credit and respect.

You know there's trouble
if you're doing all the talking
and her replies are short or non-existent.
If so it either means
you haven't hit on the right topic
to talk about, or, more likely,
she simply isn't interested.
Also, if she ends the conversation early
or "has to go", leave it up
to her to call you again,
if she wants to.
Usually, she won't.

So, when talking to a woman on the phone
DON'T worry about impressing her.
Have fun. Enjoy the conversation.
Amuse yourself.

3.At first phone conversation it is better
to stay away of complimenting her.
I think giving women compliments
can be very powerful.
But when you give a woman compliments
within the context of trying to win her over,
you become a wuss.

Usually women are curious why
the men they are talking to online
decided to pick them instead
of other thousandths of profiles.
Most of them will ask you about
these "reasons" and by doing this
are giving you the opportunity to
make her compliments.
So, wait until the moment.

If the conversation flows easily,
effortlessly, if you find her fairly responsive
and you can keep up the conversation
for at least a half hour
you can ask her out.
Hopefully Her answer will be: "YES".