NASCA (North American Swing Clubs Association) defines Swinging as, "social and sexual intercourse with someone other than your mate, boyfriend or girlfriend, excepting the traditional one-on-one dating.
Swinging is not the same as swapping, because lots of swingers (men and women) are still single, so no need to swap. A good definition might perhaps be "recreational sex". In summary, swinging is for (mostly) heterosexual people who enjoy sex for its own sake, as opposed to purely within casual relationship. Sex as a hobby.
Some people said that swinging lifestyle started in United Kingdom ( UK ) and later starting to gain acceptance by the rest of the world. Well, I am not really sure how it get started but it is not easy to involved in swinging lifestyle. A few important things: first, no one should swing unless they really want to. No one should ever go into it if they are at all uncertain of their own wishes, or of the strength of their emotional relationship with their partner. Swinging can (and often does) strengthen couples' attachment to one another. But equally, it can and does wreck relationships too. If you can't discuss it openly between yourselves or if one partner keeps bringing it up you almost certainly shouldn't go there.
Swingers lifestyle is based upon threesome chat more than any other factor. Swinging couples have an ability to talk openly about their feelings with one another and learning to do that must precede any decision or discussion of entering the Lifestyle.
A good way to start the process with a spouse is to talk about sexual fantasies, particularly those sexual fantasies that involve other people. Once you have established that your fantasies can be more of a source of excitement than a threat, it is much easier to begin talking in terms of bringing those fantasies into the real world.
No matter how you start the communication, it is not generally a good idea to simply blurt out, "Hey, do you want to swing?". Most people who have been in a long-term monogamous marriage are going to be taken aback by that approach, and failure is almost assured. It is best to establish the idea over a period of time rather than try to rush.
You can't "swing" without your spouse's knowledge and consent. That isn't swinging. You would be having an affair. Swinging requires two consenting adults who are open to the idea of participating in the lifestyle together. Most swinging couples are not going to have anything to do with someone who is sneaking around on a spouse. Swingers as a group are very proud of the fact that they are open and honest about their sexuality. Cheating is considered to be the antithesis of everything that the swinging lifestyle is about and besides, the swinging community is already assailed by literally millions of solo males looking to get laid.
Your best bet is to work on the communication in your marriage and try talking about the swinger's lifestyle some more. Swingers as a group are very proud of the fact that they are open and honest about their sexuality. Cheating is considered to be the antithesis of everything that the swinger's lifestyle is about.
Remember, that swinging isn't for every couple. If you can't agree on it, maybe it is not for you.
It is generally not a good idea to swing with friends unless you met them through swinging: even then, many swingers have a "one-hit" rule, so emotional complications/attractions can't arise.
When you do meet someone you think you might like, be frank about what you like or don't like, and demand the same from the person or people you meet. If you don't like them for any reason, just politely turn them down. If YOU get turned down, don't be offended. You will be just what someone, somewhere, is looking for. This is ALL about people's right to do absolutely what they like, and nothing they don't like.
Lastly, swingers must be very health conscious. Always practice safe sex and make sure yourself is disease-free. Most swingers say they always practice it, but in reality, most probably don't. So there is always some kind of health risk, however careful you are (condoms are no protection against crabs, for instance). It is for you to make your own judgment. But no one will ever complain if you choose to be super-careful. And it is a fact that sexually-transmitted diseases are far more common among teenagers than among swingers.
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