As per relationship Fact, a person who suffers the most in today’s life is a Right one. Whether it’s a life, career or relationship, a loyal & right person, are the one who has to suffer alone. Why?? Because they have put so much into relation. Also, it’s their loyalty which gives chance to another person to cheat and let them suffer in pain. Here are the few reasons about why always right one has to suffer in a relationship.
Because right one become too vulnerable
Most reason for a right one suffering from love most because it’s so easy for others to cheat on them. A right person is vulnerable in a relationship, hence other partners get a chance to cheat them. Due to giving all of them in a relationship, another partner taking them as weak, instead of seeing that as respect.
Right one available all the time
Your respect tends to decrease if you are available all the time. Agree, that right one has concern for their relation, for their feeling. But because of their nature of being too available always, lower down their respect. And this gives chance to other people to hurt them, and the right one suffer. A reason is, they think it is right one’s responsibility to save their relationship.
Everyone takes right one for granted
In any relation, either it’s a friendship or serious-relation, a right one mostly taken as granted by others. Because of their true feeling, another person has a chance to cheat on them most. In the end, there is a loyal one who has to face all the burden of maintaining a relationship. Another person has that belief that it’s a favor they have to the right one. And that’s a why they are the one suffer from love the most.
Loyal are the one who always suffer
Loyalty is a relationship requires from both ends. If anyone of them become more or less loyal, then it’ll result in relationship fails. Like too much availability, loyalty beyond limits also damages the relationship.
A right one stays loyal in the relationship, but others don’t. If the right one commits to one partner, they stay loyal. But another one has no that understanding, hence they leave as they find a better option for them.
Right have a pure heart
As said earlier, the right one has value to the relationship and respect for a person. The right one does anything to save a relationship and no matter how hard the situation is. And because of the right one have a habit to forgive partner a lot, another partner has a chance to cheat on them more often. And they also know the fact that one person will not take a hard decision, no matter how worse the situation is. Because the right one has no guts, they believe.
All the efforts from one end, A pure ones
For the right one, a relationship is a responsibility. They put every efforts to fulfill the needs of the other one needs. In maintaining the relationship or in saving the relationship, there is always a right one who put efforts in. other person has no that much serious for relation or having no respect to right one’s feelings. And that's the relationships reality of most case.
They think that Right one need them most
In a relationship, the right person is the one who has fear of losing the partner.
And the other one knows it very well. And hence, they tend to become free and careless, too. This is because they know that right one will not let them go easily, and this boosts their a self-ego. This gives them SPECIAL feelings, and favor on the right one.
To take a revenge or to watch them suffer
As right one has a tendency to trust anyone easily. The other one has a chance to cheat them easily. In a relationship, a right one will forgive every mistake of their partner & do anything they can do.
The right one has a gentle heart to forgive partner. But another one has no that heart, who easily forget & forgive. They like to see the person suffer who hurt them, even unwillingly.
The right one seems Boring to them
A right one who truly dedicated to relation is stayed loyal & responsible in that. And other one takes this as Old-fashioned to commit to one person for life.
They don’t take it as responsibility, but for them, it’s a fun game. So right one seems Boring to them & that’s why they usually cheat on them. All they want is to keep relationship interesting all time, they want fun & more time in it. If other person can’t entertain them with a time & expectation, so it feels boring to them.
They think right one need this relation more
Being in a relationship is not a responsibility from one side to maintain it. The concern and value have to be from both sides. And that makes a perfect relation.
But in some cases, one thinks they have favor on the other because they let them make a relationship. A right one always being taken as they need relationship most. And due to their behavior & concern, they prove it.
This motivates one to behave like they doing a favor to right one. Which is why right one always treated badly & suffering a lot in love relationship.
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Reasons : Why Right one always suffer more in Relationship ?
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