As parents, we feel drawn to do our best, to provide all that we can to our children. We want to give them everything they will need to grow up and succeed at life. But each child is different, just as we are as parents. The connection between parent and child is immense and so important. How you interact, provide, listen, and behave with each other is the groundwork for their life. For you as a parent it can be hard to grasp and understand what your child needs, the uniqueness of the issue, and how to respond. How do you find the way to help your child, allow them to be their happiest, and for you to feel like you are doing the right thing? Here is where it is valuable and important to listen to your intuition. On how you really feel and what feels right for your child. To listen to this, to your intuition, for it provides a vast gambit of possibility. It gives you something else to rely on, something true. For it is for both of you, it gives you hope and a new way of connecting.
Every moment is different, what one child needs now could be different next week. And without pushing or restraining you will see your child develop fully. By listening to your intuition in child rearing you will form a true bond with your child. You could find problems ceasing and your child flourishing. This goes for you too as a parent. By listening to your needs you are better able to provide them to your child. How do you do this, how do you raise a child intuitively? It is different for everyone; again all of us are unique. But by starting each day with the thought, the question of what does my child need? You will and can feel the answer. If your child is upset and you’ve tried the usual, go inside of yourself and ask. See what it is that the child really needs.
Even when there is no moment of crises, simply another day, feel your child and use your intuition to guide the day. Help your child develop and grow on their true path by giving them the way. Don’t react to situations with old habits, instead stop, ask, and feel within yourself the truest method to help. What does your child need? Often, because of their age they do not fully know. But you can see clues and by being present with them and your intuition, find the way.
We as parents through our deep connection with our children know them far better than anyone. Trust yourself then to be guided by your intuition in their best interest. For you do know how. Just as you are always there for them, let yourself be guided by what is right within you. Listen and ask what is best, try not to second guess or fall back on old ways. You will find it gets easier and even fun the more you trust it. The proof is in your child and you as the outcome will benefit you both.
I found myself from a very early age always seeking, on a constant quest to understand. I feel most comfortable learning and this desire correlates with a need to connect and help others. That is why in the beginning I chose acupuncture as a career, it seemed like a perfect fit. But I found a lack of compassion directed towards the center of being, not only in myself but others. I ended up in a situation that changed all this. I found who I was and who I am meant to be. It all clicked and came together. My desire for knowledge and eternal desire to really see and help others has brought me to this place in time, to this place with you.
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