What to Do when You're Stood Up

By The Pioneer of Subliminal Messages Online.

You actually prepared for that day. You groomed yourself. You made sure you don't take any activity after work. You already had made reservations to a restaurant. But 30 minutes after your agreed time, she still didn't show up. From the looks of it, you were stood up.

What are you going to do?

1. Make that call.

As a guy and hopefully the one who set up the date, you sure demand an explanation. Give her a call the next day after. However, avoid bringing up the date immediately. You may want to ask her how her day is and what she's been doing yesterday. If she's truly interested in you, she'll be the one to say the reason for not coming. Otherwise, she's really not interested in you, and you have to move on.

2. Tell her it's okay.

Okay, it's actually not, but you don't really want to bother her and scare her off, right? So you can proceed telling a simple white lie.

3. Ask her out again.

Schedule another date. Make sure that the time, place, and date are pieces of information you both agree on. It does pay if you can call her a day before to inform her of the date just in case she forgets about it. Better yet, be a gentleman and fetch her. This will also assure you she can definitely come unless there's definitely a valid reason not to.

4. Leave her alone.

Be mindful of her body language. Listen to her voice properly. Not all girls are transparent, and some can effectively hide their disinterest in you. They just don't want to be very rude. If she doesn't seem interested in another date or she's fond of coming up with excuses, then it's high time you accept the fact you may not be meant to be.

5. Get back your self-confidence.

It's not easy being left at the table alone, more so if the attendant keeps coming back and asking if you want something to eat. It reminds you so much of the failed date. So you may just lose your self-confidence in the process.

Make sure, though, you can get it back fast. Use subliminal messages or affirmations. Tell yourself that there are better things waiting for you after the experience. Utilize the subliminal messages to inform yourself that it's an experience that teaches you some lessons. You may not understand them right now but in due time you will.

6. Get rid of the stress.

Is the experience making you feel dread and anxiety? Does it feel the other girls will do the same thing to you? These negative thoughts can cause you a lot of stress. Besides using subliminal messages, you also need to de-stress. Get into the gym. Meet some of your friends or enjoy a glass of wine. You can also meditate just to clear your head with such nasty thoughts.

Being stood up happens to almost everyone, so you don't have to worry too much about going through with it. Just learn from the experience, and if she isn't open to you, then move on.