Is your marriage in complete shambles? Are you a wife that just wants her husband's attention but so far, nothing is working? If you are trying to get the love back between you and your husband and improve your marriage, please keep reading.
Before you go any further, please understand that no matter how hard you try... you cannot MAKE your husband love you or want you. This means, if you notice yourself getting so upset because your husband didn't do or say something to your liking, understand the only person you have control over is yourself. Trying to control your husband's feelings or desires is completely futile and will only cause you more pain because you're attached to a certain outcome that you don't have control over.
The more you try control your husband's actions or feelings, the more you're pushing him even further away from you. Has someone ever tried to control your actions or feelings? If so, than you know that it doesn't feel good. You must attract your husband's attention rather than demand for it.
Another thing that may help you win your husband's love back is by acting more like the woman he first started dating. Over the course of years, stress can slowly wither away your relationship if you do not deal with your stress in a healthy way. Stress brings negative emotions and how you deal with your stress will effect how you feel about yourself. Remember when you first wanted to your husband (when you both first started dating)? You both didn't rely on each other to feel happy and loved, you relied on yourself to feel happy. By relying on yourself to be happy, you are a radiant woman that exudes confidence and self-esteem.
Because of negative emotions and stress, right now you're probably relying on your husband and external circumstances to make you feel happy. The only person who can make you feel happy and valued is yourself. Yes, it would be nice if your husband acted like he is crazy about you (like when you first started dating), but you need to understand that you must attract his love by feeling radiant on the inside.
How you feel about the world and yourself will effect how you come off to your husband. You are giving off a vibe of desperation if you need your husband's love. The root behind successful married couples is that, as each individual, they feel successful themselves. When you feel successful yourself, you are not coming from a needy state of mind, which is very unattractive.
What if you just can't get the love back in your marriage? I know how hard it can be to try and make your spouse understand just how special your love is, but if you want to really make your marriage sing again you'll need to learn that you can't use the same strategy you've been using in the past.
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