Be aware or perhaps beware of manipulative love because with this you can look like the best of Asian art in the outside but rotten with worms in the inside due to too much pain and damage such kind of love causes. This is the cult-system kind of love. You will be loved for the cults’ very own agenda.
You will be left with no choice as they boxed you in to situations or to group of people where they want you to belong. You’d be showered with love when their agenda runs smoothly but you are dead trap, if it does not. Such kind will kill your trust to people. The key is to be friends to people. Give the love and care you should give without asking for anything in return but never associate yourself to any group or affiliation because any group is somehow run by a cult-like system. We want to live as independently as possible exercising who we are that does not conform to any set of standards by a group or people. The love you will get from this kind of system is overwhelming but they will not do so if not for something. Stay away from them. Never associate yourself to such kind because they only see you a tool for their goal. They see you just as one of the artworks for sale and because the way they manipulate and use love is damaging.It is not real. God gives us love—a love that is sincere and true. It is his kind of love that will back us up from so many things. It is His love who will send us someone to love us sincerely and true and not to serve a secret agenda that is self-serving and damaging in our end.
Why then settle for people who can make your life a hell in a snap if they want to and can make it heaven-like after justifying what they have done. Simply put, you do not have control over your life because a group that runs via cult system has a world-wide connection where everything is just run by money. And as everyone around you is stuffed with money, their only goal is how to make money from you so there will be funds to pay the people around you who will inflict you pain, damage you, or turn your life a living hell if they want to. While the façade looks great, loving, and caring, behind-the scene was a hell. Underground harassment and foul play take place. Emotional damage will be carried on for life. There is no healing in the kind of life with them. The worse of all, they do this smoothly without a trace of evidence. They do not have a sense of respect. They want their beliefs and ways in you. They want their agenda in you. They want their reason in you and for them that is all that matters. People will just wonder why from the best of Asian art, you became a living trash.
Jocelyn Aps is the Business Development Manager at Artyii, Asia's leading community for emerging artists focusing on wall paintings. Launched in November 2010, Artyii offers a powerful global platform to discover emerging Asian art. Over 500 artists from Singapore, Philippines, Vietnam and Indonesia have trusted Artyii, thus far. Membership is by-invite only. Apart from sharing art, artists can communicate with gallery owners