How well do you really know each other? How much do you take each other for granted?
Time for Exercise: 15 minutes to one hour
Properties Required: pen and paper
Steps:
Answer the following questions:
What color(s) are your lover’s eyes?
What color is your lover’s hair? Is the hair on your lover’s body all the same color? Compare the hair on his head, face, arms, legs, chest, pubis, etc.
How much does your partner weigh?
How tall is he?
What is the name of the perfume or after-shave or scent your partner usually wears? Could you pick out your partner if you were blindfolded by scent alone?
What is her favorite…
Food
Color
Car
Animal
Dessert
Movie
Ice Cream
Book
Perfume
Actress
Actor
TV Show
Game
Sport
Soft Drink
Alcoholic Drink
Flower
Music
Painter
Singer
Band
Poet
When your lover sleeps, does he lie mostly on his back, right side, or left side?
What identifying marks are on your lover’s body—scars, moles, tattoos? Where are they?
What is your lover’s birthday
What are your anniversaries together?
Who is his best friend?
What are your partner’s likes and dislikes?
Variation:
Share your answers with your lover.
Al Link and Pala Copeland own and operate 4 Freedoms Relationship Tantra. They regularly host lover’s romantic weekends near Ottawa Canada, and weeklong retreats in exotic locations. For more information call toll free from Canada or USA: 1-800-684-5308 International long distance: 1-819-689-5308. Visit their website www.tantra-sex.com and their blog www.askaboutloveandsex.com or send email: 4freedoms@tantraloving.com They have four books published including Soul Sex: Tantra for Two, New Page, 2003; The Complete Idiot’s Guide to Supercharged Kama Sutra, Penguin, 2007; Sensual Love Secrets for Couples: The Four Freedoms Body, Heart, Mind and Soul, Llewellyn 2007; Tantra Step by Step: 28 Days to Ecstasy, Llewellyn 2007.