Psychic Flashes - Dealing with Death

A Death Psychic Flash is a Vision or feeling that somebody is going to die at a certain date or time or soon. Some people have full Psychic Flashes with details on the particulars, some people just have vague uneasy feelings and others just wake up after the person has passed over.

One of the most notable and difficult things in the Psychic Death Flash to deal with is the sense of peace that accompanies it. All people that I know report a feeling of peace and happiness, although they are abhorred by what they saw or experienced. They somehow feel a sense of calm, totally at odds with their own feelings. This is an important clue that what you are feeling and sensing is real. Another clue is that none of us go around thinking somebody is going to die or seeing their deaths on a regular basis. If the person is not ill and you are suddenly thinking or experiencing this feeling, that's also a good reason to think that you are experiencing a Psychic Death Flash.

In dealing with a Psychic Death Flash there are two distinct area's that we need to think about. We need to deal with our own emotions surrounding the Psychic Death Flash and decide on if we want to tell anybody and if so who we tell and how.

One of our first instincts after a Psychic Death Flash is to deny it happened. Often people only realize after the death occurred that they knew it before hand. While it's easier to block such a Psychic Flash, if we do deal with it we have some more options and choices that otherwise we wouldn't have had. If we do know that another is going to pass over, we have the choice to see them more often, say our goodbyes and be able to work some things out. This is an unique opportunity, no matter how hard it is.

The only way to prevent denial is to honestly honor your own Psychic Ability and work with it. Remember, if you have only vague feelings now, it's likely that this will blossom towards full Visions if you continue to work on developing your ability.

Guilt is also a very big factor in emotions that can come up, because we often feel guilty for knowing that somebody is going to die. Repeat to yourself often: "You only saw/experienced it, you did not cause it". You are in no way responsible for causing anybodies death. Remember also that you do not have any obligation to anybody. You do not in any way need to tell anybody if you do not want too. You are not a slave to your Psychic Ability, you always keep free choice. If in hindsight you wished that you had told somebody or acted differently, remember, we are all going through a learning path.

The only way to deal with guilt is to remember that you have free choice, you are undergoing a learning path with your Psychic Ability and that you are in no way responsible for anybodies death just because you predicted it.

Another emotion that frequently is with us after a Psychic Death Flash is an intense fear. What if I'm right and what if I'm wrong both create an equal measure of fear in one's mind. It's horrible to be right and it's of course absolutely normal to fear the death of loved one. And it's equally horrible to be wrong, because it means you have been going through all this turmoil for nothing.

The only way to deal with fear it to remind yourself, what will come to pass will come to pass. You have no influence on if another is going to die or not. Try to live your life in the way you want.

Now that I've covered the basic emotions that might crop up, the other question "Who do I tell" becomes one that needs to be answered.

Often, it feels impossible to tell the person concerned. How would you feel if somebody walked up to you and tells you you are going to die soon? Of course, there are many other ways of letting a person know what you have sensed or felt. You could talk about what they would want in life yet, or speak about death in a more general way.

If you have decided to tell the direct family of the person you know is going to pass over, remember to do it in the most tactful way. If they are aware of your Psychic Ability it's easier to tell them, for they will trust you. However, even so, you might consider if you want to let them know everything word by word, a small part or just give a general warning.

I usually recommend giving a general warning like saying you are concerned about so-and-so's health and/or that you think it would be wise to spend some time with them. This, because there is always a possibility that you are wrong. And you do not want to put a whole family into turmoil.

I greatly encourage you to speak out to your partner, friends or other Spiritual People. It's important to share your own feelings so you can work through them. If you feel uncomfortable speaking to people who you feel don't fully understand or support you, I urge you to find somebody who can or will.

Although developing your Psychic Ability is a very worthwhile pursuit, in the increase of choices you have and in the extra knowledge that allows you to make the best choices for yourself, it also has its difficult side. Dealing with uncomfortable news is one of them. I always hope that it won't dissuade people from empowering themselves with choice and awareness. The choice is up to you!