So you want to learn 5 text messages that you can send your ex boyfriend to get him to regret leaving you… and turn the tables completely.
The beauty of texting is that it doesn’t convey a lot of neediness… so if you play your cards right, you won’t look like a jealous or clingy (which is a good thing).
Another huge benefit of texting is that it gives you the benefit of time. When he replies, it gives you time to think about an appropriate response. Also, you can easily stall replying and play hard to get.
Also, you can say things over text that you normally wouldn’t say in person. This is a great thing as well.
Here’s one really good text that you can send that will get him to start talking to you again… and eventually, want to start dating you again.
1.) The Friendship Text
This is an extremely dangerous text, so use this with precaution… send him this text – “Hey… just wanted to say that I’m glad things ended the way they did and it would suck to lose our friendship.”
This is a great text for a few reasons… first, it will start tipping the balance of power from him to you. Instead of him thinking you still want to get back together with him, you tip everything over and say you just want to be friends. From this, you can eventually start hanging out with him again… and then re-seduce him!
2.) The Thoughtful Text
This text will send him a message that you aren’t pining for him, but at the same time, show him that you are still thoughtful and caring. Only send this text after the Friendship Text. Send him something like, “Hey, I just saw that Death Cab is playing next month at the Commodore Ballroom. I remember how much you enjoy them, thought you’d like to know!”
3.) The Jealousy Text
It sucks, but jealousy plays a huge role when re-attracting an old love. Sometimes it is the only way to make them realize how much they miss you. If you think this is the case with your ex boyfriend, send him this text: “Hey… I’m totally moved on and am dating other guys. I’d just like to thank you for being the wonderful guy that you were.”
4.) The Forgotten Romance Text
If you sense that you have a real chance of landing your ex boyfriend again… if he’s been sending you texts and you can tell he’s rather interested in getting back together with you, then text him something provocative. Get him to think about a special moment you two had when you were dating. Say something like… “I just remember that one cool night on the top of our cliff… you were keeping me warm by holding me in your arms. Felt nice.”
5.) The Happinness Text
A big mistake women do when they’re pining for their boyfriends is that they’ll start acting depressed and needy. This isn’t attractive to men at all. You begging and pleading for his return isn’t going to work either. So what does work? Acting as if you’re completely happy and loving life. He’ll then think that you’re completely independent and moved on. This is the best way to re-attract your boyfriend back into your life.
Say something like, “Hey, just wanted to know if you ever did that bungee jumping package we were looking at awhile back. Just did it and it was awesome! Totally recommend going.”
I can guarantee you that if you send these texts at the right time, you’ll be well on your way to establishing the proper amount of rapport with your ex boyfriend to be able to seduce him back into your life again.
Brad Browning is a certified relationship counselor and an editor at LoveLearnings.com, where he writes about surviving breakups and resolving relationship conflicts.