3 Tips to Help You "Win" in Your Divorce Proceedings

Winning in your divorce proceedings depends on how well prepared you are. During a divorce, it helps immensely if you are prepared with legal knowledge, an attorney and guidance by those whom have been in this difficult situation before. These factors can make a huge difference in your divorce proceedings.

Divorce proceedings can be expensive and time-consuming. It is in the best interest of any attorney to prolong your divorce process so they can continue to bill hours. Most divorce lawyers do not lean towards mediation. The speed, cost and path of obtaining a divorce really depends upon how reasonable you and your spouse are; how inclined you are to settle on the issues at hand out of the court. Some of the factors that determine the cost and time are of divorce proceedings are as follows; number of children, joint assets, debts, alimony and other factors.

Educate yourself

The first success factor to a divorce process is legal knowledge. Before you decide to have a court, or judge, resolve some of the contention points, we highly suggest you visit a local family court and observe some of the divorce cases in person. Many of couples who have done this exercise are likely to save tens of thousands of dollars. It is important to visit your local court together and observe divorce cases. A field trip to your local courthouse may persuade you to select a better option for resolving some of the contention points in your divorce process.

Trust your gut

The second success factor depends on your attorney selection. Please exercise some caution when you select an attorney to represent your divorce case. Ensure that you interview 5 to 7 attorneys and ask specific questions related to your divorce concerns. It is a good idea to check the area of concentration and what each particular attorney specializes in. When making this decision, go with your gut instincts. Any attorney with your best interest at heart will try to resolve the case with an opposing attorney without going to trial. Furthermore, if you feel that attorney is not working out at any point in your divorce process, please do not hesitate to replace them. Remember, your gut should be the beacon of light in this process. Ignoring your instincts is likely to cost you thousands in attorney fees with zero results.

Preparation

Lastly, if you end up going to trial be prepared. Be prepared... Be prepared... Be prepared... The most important step in a divorce process is to ask your lawyer to prepare you ahead of time. Be prepared with your supporting documents to show reliable evidence and be ready to support your testimony. Be prepared to answer questions calmly and confidently in the courtroom. During your testimony, be sure to focus on the questions being asked; oftentimes, your ex-spouse is likely to spring surprises therefore, preparing ahead of time can help take the edge of off potential bombshells.

In the end, there are no easy answers when children are involved. There is also no easy answer to assets, and debt divisions, in your marriage. However, it is important to put aside differences under the circumstances and work towards a resolution. Chances are, going to the court will not necessarily bring forth the decision in your favor or the ex's favor. Most likely, the judge's decision will fall somewhere in the middle. Divorce proceedings truly depend on how quickly, and fairly, you are able to resolve contention points.

The sooner you do, the quicker you can embark on your next chapter in life!!

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Emotions behind the Divorce process can be confusing and full of uncertainty. We understand these feelings too well, we have been there. We provide coaching and help to quickly get back on your feet to start the next chapter in your life.