Even if you're deeply in love with your partner, there will be times when it feels like you are miles apart. This is natural, but that doesn't make it any less uncomfortable. To help you maintain a healthy and peaceful relationship, you can use Feng Shui. As with any relationship, energy shifts are par for the course. But that doesn't mean you simply need to endure them in order to regain your relationship mojo. Why not try to keep the peace all the time?
When the Waters are Rough
Things happen in every relationship that make us upset at the other person. But in order to restore the happiness we crave, we need to realize that changes are necessary. As a couple, you can use these Feng Shui techniques to begin to smooth out the rough patches.
Start by looking at the relationship corner of every room in your home or apartment – this is the further right hand corner from the doorway. If things are messy and cluttered, it might be time for some cleaning. Any chaos in these areas is going to hinder the proper energy flow of your relationship. Take some time every day to ensure these areas are clear and clean. You will also want to look in this area to see if you have any singular images or items present. These can often stimulate the energy of singular-ness, which is the opposite of what you want in your relationship.
Together, you might also want to buy a plant that you can nurture together, just as you want to nurture your relationship. By taking care of the plant on a daily basis, you can boost the energy that cultivates your own relationship to each other. Take turns watering the plant and caring for it – but also take time to nurture the plant together.
Open up the windows of your bedroom as often as you can to let in healthy new energy. The breeze will help you move out any stagnant energy, while also infusing your space with peace. This is also a good time to look around for anything that might be broken in your home. Broken items attract negative and broken energy – not what you want when your relationship is suffering. Get rid of these items or fix them.
In addition, you will want to remove anything from your home that might remind you of bad times in your relationship. These items are only attracting negative energy back into your relationship - who needs that?
Long Term Happiness is Simple
Yes, you can live happily ever after. But you still need to do some work in order to guarantee it. First of all, you want to nurture steady energy in your relationship – never too high or too low. You can begin to enhance this steadiness by adding neutral colors to your bedroom. This doesn’t mean you can't have any bright colors, but you should try to balance that color scheme overall. In addition, if your bedroom is too feminine or too masculine, you will want to balance this out as well. You want your bedroom to be as neutral as possible, balancing out the energies of your relationship.
Try buying new bed sheets to help improve the energy of your relationship from this point forward. Choosing the bed sheets together will help you feel rejuvenated and renewed. And start collecting pictures of your good times together as these will help you whenever the times get tough again. Keep your bedroom door open too, as much as possible, to let in new energy and keep your romance alive.
No matter what the state of your relationship is, Feng Shui can help keep your love feeling like as good as it did when you first found it.
Candace Czarny “Award Winning” Interior Designer, Subtle Energy Expert and author of the best selling “20 Minute Feng Shui” is launching her newest work “The Master’s Secret Key” at www.TheMastersSecretKey.com/tmsk , a short work design to inspire the reader to self-empowerment.
She has been inspiring and educating people on line with her web site www.ArtOfPlacement.com since 1994. Her site is constantly ranked in the top 10 of Google and Yahoo and she has developed a loyal following.
Her passion is “creating a paradigm evolution, where people believe that creating their environment is the key to creating the life they desire.”
Candace Czarny is the president of Wind & Water, Inc. She has more than 30 years’ experience in interior and “Green” design, facilities and project management and Feng Shui.
Candace has practiced interior design since 1973 and received her Degree in Interior Design from Virginia Polytechnic Institute and State University (VA Tech) in 1977. She is a NCIDQ Certified Interior Designer and a Professional Member of ASID. She is a Certified Facility Manager (CFM) and a LEED AP (Leadership in Energy and Environmental Design Accredited Professional). She is responsible for the Design of the First “Gold” LEED Certified building in the State of Arizona. She has also received the Design in Excellence Award from the Arizona chapter of ASID and the Best of the Best Award in Sedona.
In addition to her scholastic studies, Candace apprenticed with Feng Shui Master and Shaman Cuneo for 5 years. Her studies consisted of field work and daily training in the oral tradition. Her training comes from a global perspective of esoteric sciences and incorporates: Landform and Black Sect Feng Shui, Hawaiian Huna, European Geomancy, Native American and South American Energy Sciences. She teaches practical, accurate, in-depth energy principles with creative and modern applications. Her clients have testified of dramatic results using Candace’s advice from romance to business.