How to Get a Woman's Number

Okay, if you’re reading, I am going to expect that you could now walk up to women and hold a decent dialogue. The next thing is how to get a woman's telephone number so you're able to go out with her again.

The most effective way to get a girl’s phone number is to just tell her to give it to you. That’s right. It’s that straightforward.

Simply say something like, “Hey, I really enjoyed talking to you. Give me your phone number and let’s get together sometime.”

Please note: This is not the same as asking for it. the difference is sophisticated. When you ask the woman for the woman phone number she has an opportunity to tell you “no.” Whenever you tell her to give you the girl phone number, she's more likely to do it. People, and especially girls, will merely follow along if you take the lead of things. In truth, they tend to like it. Telling a girl to give you her number is an instance of taking charge.

It's possible that you’ve done this before. Its possible you could get a girl’s telephone number, but you’ve had the experience of phoning her up afterward to discover it was a phony number. I’ve never had this happen to me before, but I know this must be really discouraging. Particularly if you had a very good connection with the woman.

Let me reveal a number of strategies on getting a woman's phone number and making sure it’s her valid number.

First you get out your phone and tell the girl to give you the girl's phone number.

She begins rattling off the number you now type it into your phone. Once you’ve got the number, call the woman. Right there in front of the woman!

As soon as the woman's phone begins ringing, you will know you’ve got the actual number. Tell the woman something such as, “There, now you have my phone number also.”

This is useful because it not only lets you know instantaneously if you’ve got the her real phone number. It is slightly daring and will show self confidence, but the best thing is the fact that the woman now has your number in her cell phone as well. Why should you want her to have your phone number?

No, the girl likely won’t call and ask you out the next day.

It’s significant because after you call the woman in several days, the girl's caller ID will show your name, not some strange telephone number. Think about it. If you were her, which call would you be more likely to pick up? One from “Bob?” Or one from “(555) 123-4567?”

But let's say the girl's phone doesn’t ring once you call up the phone number? Well, she gave you a phony telephone number! Don’t get all huffy about it. Tell her something calm and cool like, “I guess you don’t really want to go out with me? It is a shame.”

At this time, she may well decide to tell you her real telephone number or reveal she has a partner or some other type of excuse. If this happens, I would not really want to date the woman. Believe it or not, you just tested the woman and she didn't pass. She just revealed herself as being a dishonest person who probably won't give it to you straight. Why would you desire to spend more time with a girl like this?

So that’s the best way a woman's phone number. Not a lot of work by any means. I’ll confess that it may be a bit uncomfortable to call the number right then on the spot, but the benefits are more than worth any embarrassing moment you could experience.