Your greatest fear now realized- you can feel your airways tightening, your stomach aching and your head spinning. The love of your life, the only man that you can only see yourself with, has a new girlfriend. All hopes of happy ending now flushed down the drain.
And when things seemed down and out, this is where I come in and tell you to, “Stop crying, you can stop your relationship from falling apart… even if it seems too late.”
Yes, you can get him back, even if he has a new relationship.
Here is my fail- safe formula on how to get him back.
* First of all, remember that you know him better than anybody else. You had a bonding that will always be a part of him. You know his strengths and his weaknesses. This is your biggest edge.
* Keep your composure. Yes, you are terrified of losing him, but never ever show how fearful you are.
The best strategy to get him back is to keep calm and confident.
I’m sure that he will be very intrigued of how you will react, most likely he expects you to look devastated.
But when sees you all calm and confident, you will stir his curiosity.
And when curiosity is stimulated, you’re on the right track!
So, the next time you bumped into him, with or without his new girl. Look fabulous, relax, SMILE and be accommodating. But don’t overdo it or else you will look phony.
Appear totally happy and okay… he will be wondering what you are up to.
* Never rush the situation. Go with the flow because time is your ally.
During these circumstances, time is your friend because…
- He has more time to see you in a positive light.
- You have less stress to get him back.
- You have more time to prove to him that he is better off with you.
- The more anxious, impatient and threatened that other woman gets.
* Whatever happens, never close your communications. This is your key to get him back.
There so many situations that you can take advantage of…
If you have kids- the school, PTA meetings, birthday parties, school plays and discussions concerning kids are the perfect excuses to see him.
If you don’t have kids- common friend’s birthday, wedding or funeral, relatives birthday, asking a friend’s number, and hand carrying his stuff to his house are great ways to have short perfect moments with him.
Remember that when you meet him, keep it short and pleasant. Don’t over expose yourself. Make him wonder about you. And never ever satisfy his curiosity.
Talk about wonderful things and insert the amazing things in your past in the conversation.
* Tell him how you feel without looking desperate.
This takes a lot of guts, but this is something that you must do. Tell him that you need him because you love him. Show him that you can live without him and you can move on but you’d rather not, because he is important to you, he is a part of you.
Rest assured that the other woman is showing all she’s got to prove to your man that he is loved and adored. Your edge is you know him and you know how to love him the right way. You already had a connection, a history, something that the other woman cannot compete with.
This is only half of the sure-fire way to get your ex back. Learn and get more information here on how to get him back.
The author of this article, Ruth Purple , is a Relationship Expert who has been successfully coaching individuals and couples in their relationships. Get A Copy of her sensational ebook on Winning Over Infidelity. Experience a Happier Love Life.