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- Are You Codependent? - by Submitted on Sep 29, 2010 from Darlene LancerDo you wonder if you are Codependent? Do you regularly sacrifice your opinions, needs or wants, and then feel resentful? Do you feel guilty saying no and resentful when you don’t? Are you controlled by, or try to control someone else, whom your thoughts and feelings revolve around, as in the ...
Views: 2091(2 votes) - ARE YOU CRAVING SOUL-FULL CONNECTIONS? - by Submitted on Jan 21, 2011 from Cari MurphyARE YOU CRAVING SOUL- FULL CONNECTIONS? For many of us there is a rising passion and very sincere craving for true soul connection. This basic yearning propels us toward deeper connections that go far beyond sex, family obligations or external success. The sincere yearning to unite with ...
Views: 1587(1 vote) - ARE YOU DEALING WITH A NARCISSIST? RED FLAGS & HOW TO COPE... - by Submitted on Jan 09, 2017 from Laney Zukerman The Relationship CoachAre you dealing with a Narcissist? RED FLAGS & HOW TO COPE From the books: The Urban Goddess Lesson~How to Spot the Bad Boys and Lessons for an Urban Goddess Are you dealing with a true Narcissist? If you believe that you may have a Narcissist in your life, there are specific traits ...
Views: 1756(1 vote) - Are You Determined to Be Happy? - by Submitted on Nov 04, 2010 from Hugh DeBurghAre You Determined To Be Happy? You already have everything that you need to live your dream life except perhaps a solid understanding of who you are and a bit of courage. And a desire to be happy; no; a determination to be happy. In fact, I think that it is determination that sets satisfied ...
Views: 1927(1 vote) - Are You Here Only To Be Truly Helpful? - by Submitted on Jan 04, 2017 from Dorothy NeddermeyerMany people say with pride—“I’m a giver.” However, no one announces, “I'm a receiver”—albeit there are more receivers than givers. The age old question— “Is It better to give than to receive,” is a miss nomer. The truth of the matter is, while you are giving you are receiving and while you ...
Views: 1101(2 votes) - Are You in a Relationship or Partnership? - by Submitted on Jun 21, 2019 from Tanisha Snipes-DixonRelationships can develop through friends, family, neighbors, co-workers and the people we interact with every day. Relationships are built over time, as well as trust, and the commitment placed into them. Relationships are not permanent. They can end at any time for no reason at all. They hold ...
Views: 333(1 vote) - Are you in a Toxic Relationship? Should you Stay or Go? - by Submitted on Jan 08, 2017 from Laney Zukerman The Relationship CoachAre you in a TOXIC Relationship? Are you questioning if you should stay or go? Empowerment Coaching can help. Breaking away from a toxic relationship is very difficult. You may be suffering from emotional abuse, or you may be addicted to an unhealthy love relationship ...
Views: 1675(1 vote) - Are you in Denial? - by Submitted on Jul 26, 2014 from Darlene LancerWe’re all in denial. We’d barely get through the day if we worried that we or people we love could die today. Life is unpredictable, and denial helps us cope and focus on what we must in order to survive. On the other hand, denial harms us when it causes us to ignore problems for which there are ...
Views: 1155(1 vote) - Are You Lying to Yourself About Money? - by Submitted on Apr 06, 2013 from Tracia LarimerMost of us were taught as children about the importance of telling the truth, and for many of us the consequences of being un-truthful meant some type of punishment (except if we were lucky enough to not get caught in the lie.) As adults, there isn’t much of a punishment for being un-truthful to ...
Views: 589(1 vote) - Are you parents ready for senior care? - by Submitted on May 07, 2012 from Johnny LoweryAs adults get older, it is highly likely they will begin to experience a hard time providing themselves with care and other basic necessities. Although aging is nothing to be afraid of, it can be hard to live the same way you have once lived before. Growing older means your body becomes less ...
Views: 990(1 vote) - ARE YOU PUTTING UP WITH AN EMOTIONALLY ABUSIVE RELATIONSHIP? - by Submitted on Feb 15, 2011 from Shelley HarrisI was in my thirties before I realised that I was in an emotionally abusive relationship, and it’s a sad fact that many women don’t realise they are. I’ve now learned what a respectful relationship consists of. I know that every relationship is different and everyone’s experiences are ...
Views: 1393(1 vote) - Are you Wearing a Porcupine Suit? - by Submitted on Oct 11, 2013 from Merna Throne, M.S.Interesting title huh? I bet you cannot wait for me to talk about his topic, as I believe it affects many of us. Actually, I know it does from my years of coaching and helping people take off this painful suit so they start feeling love again. Have you ever found yourself saying that no one ...
Views: 1451(1 vote) - Are You Your Father's Child? - by Submitted on Jul 01, 2012 from Dr. Shirley Cheng, Blind Author with VisionThey say, "Like father, like son" or "like mother, like daughter." If you are a child of God, can you say that about your relationship with your Heavenly Father? Do your spiritual qualities illustrate that you are your Father's child? Yahweh God's Word informs us that whoever "doesn't do ...
Views: 1902(1 vote) - Are Your Mental Models Getting In The Way of Improving Your Marriage? - by Submitted on Feb 21, 2015 from Ana LoiselleAs the saying goes, I suppose it is tempting, if the only tool you have is a hammer, to treat everything as if it were a nail. The same reasoning applies when you're approaching your marriage problems. We all have mental models that help us make sense of the world we see. A "mental model" is ...
Views: 947(2 votes) - Are Your Partner's Tweets and Facebook Posts Making You Crazy?: Tips to Help with Social Networking-Induced Jealousy - by Submitted on Aug 16, 2010 from Susie and Otto CollinsJanelle is having a difficult time knowing what she can believe lately. She is well aware that her boyfriend, Paul, is a very social guy. He was popular in high school and college and now he is still a favorite among his co-workers. Paul stays in touch with a lot of people from his past ...
Views: 2321(1 vote) - Arms and Altruism, The Practice of Selfless Concern for the Well Being of Others - by Submitted on Jan 30, 2013 from Enrique (Rick) RuizMany moons ago, our American founding fathers spurred a dialogue of constructive conflict that yielded a model constitution and a free republic. These innovators risked their lives in perilous times to give birth to a new nation. Some became very wealthy (e.g.- Washington, Franklin) while others ...
Views: 1531(1 vote) - Asian Hair Styles Men - by Submitted on Jul 29, 2019 from pray net pkAre you willing on today's fashionable hairstyles? Do you prefer all these fashionable hairstyles you see each day external? asian hairstyles men I can't even title them! If you prefer these fashionable hairstyles, I could recommend you a psychoanalyst. Therefore, what's your hairstyle at this ...
Views: 273(1 vote) - Ask Right and You May Receive - by Whether in an intimate or another kind of a relationship, how easily do you get what you ask for? And, how easily do you ask for what you want or need?
Many people are frustrated in all sorts of relationships, seemingly unable to get what they need or want. Sometimes not getting what you want ...
Views: 759(1 vote) - Astrology Reasons of Impotency - by Submitted on Nov 30, 2019 from Sri Tulasi1. 6th, 7th and 8th houses of the horoscope are very important to study the impotency problem. 2. If Malefic Venus is present in the 7th house then it may create a problem in sexual life. 3. If Jupiter, Mercury, and Venus are present in 8th house together and generating malefic effects ...
Views: 406(1 vote) - Attitude - by Submitted on Jul 21, 2010 from Florence BernardSomething just came to my mind recently observing the cats I have in my house. It really struck me how relevant this would be to kids and parents, and how much it can impact people. Earl Nightingale has a chapter in one of his recordings called “Attitude”. I played it to my class a couple of ...
Views: 1773(1 vote) - Attracting Friends - by Submitted on Jun 10, 2012 from Tracing ABC Tracing ABCWhen we are dealing with Causation, we are dealing with that which has involved within Itself all effect, as it unfolds. We may leave it to the Law to compel right action. With this in mind, let us go on to treatment. Suppose we wish to attract friends. We must begin to image ideal ...
Views: 2129(1 vote) - Attracting People to You - by Submitted on Jul 06, 2007 from Steve GoodierIn West Virginia folklore there is a story of a country doctor who was called out to a holler late one night to assist a woman about to give birth. By the time the doctor arrived at the farmhouse, things had progressed to a point where the doctor asked the husband to help him by holding a gas ...
Views: 1959(1 vote) - Authentic Relationships - by Submitted on Oct 05, 2008 from Medea Bavarella ChechikI was out for dinner with a friend a while ago and she asked me several interesting questions: • “Why are relationships one of the most difficult experience there is?” • “Why do we have such deep, innate desire to seek romantic relationships or loving ...
Views: 1172(1 vote) - AUTHENTICITY HEALS: 6 STEPS TO BEING AUTHENTIC - by Submitted on Jun 11, 2017 from Darlene LancerAuthenticity is the opposite of shame. It reveals our humanity and allows us to connect with others. Shame creates most all codependency symptoms – including hiding who we are, sacrificing our needs, and saying yes when we rather not – all to be accepted by someone else. It warps our ...
Views: 1239(2 votes) - Autumn Poetry for Fall - by Submitted on Jun 09, 2011 from Amy DyslexAutumn Poetry for October and Fall Deriving inspiration for autumn poetry becomes a whole lot easier by taking a look at various autumn pictures. Not all artists focus on only capturing the bareness and nakedness of nature in their pieces & paintings; many artists make great creative use of ...
Views: 1627(1 vote) - Avent Isis Manual Breast Pump - A Helpful Guide - by Submitted on Feb 06, 2011 from Melanie PriestBreast milk is considered to be the best option for babies who are below the age of 6 months but most mothers have to work and this can make it difficult to breastfeed. The best option is to use a breast pump that ensures your baby gets the required nutrients even when you are away from home. ...
Views: 853(1 vote) - Avoid being Cheated by Rosemary Price Psychic - by Submitted on Feb 14, 2020 from Pearls of WisdomAvoid being cheated by Rosemary Price psychic. Most of us can get enticed by someone who is not trustworthy at some time or another. But this is when our hearts rule of our. The key to not being scammed is to always have the head rule the heart. Take the example of a designer hand bag for ...
Views: 847(1 vote) - Avoiding the Rut of Boring Relationships - by Submitted on Feb 13, 2011 from Allura JoyA standard routine is often a good thing, as a familiar schedule regulates activities, tasks and responsibilities, as well as instills discipline and organization. However the same old routine in your relationships and especially with intimacy may become a bit boring after a while. It is ...
Views: 2932(2 votes) - Awaken to Your Feminine Essence - by Submitted on Mar 27, 2016 from Dr. Elsbeth Meuth, EdD & Freddy Zental WeaverWhat would it be like to uncover a part of yourself that you didn't even know was missing? If you were to be able to uncover that part, would you be curious how this could make you feel... perhaps more alive and authentically yourself? We often talk about the concept of "coming back to ...
Views: 1406(1 vote) - Awakening through A Course In Miracles - by Submitted on Apr 11, 2012 from David HoffmeisterThis review is from: Awakening Through a Course in Miracles (Paperback) I studied A Course in Miracles for 19 years and thought I understood it. But reading Awakening Through A Course In Miracles took me to a much deeper level. What is so different about this book is that the author, David ...
Views: 2978(1 vote) - Ayurvedic Remedies For Men Erectile Dysfunction - by Submitted on Jul 15, 2011 from tannu aggarwalThe problem of erectile dysfunction or weak erection can disrupt the sexual life of men and strain the relationship of a couple. Sexual fulfillment is an important aspect of marriage and unless the man is able to get a hard penile during sexual intercourse, neither he nor his partner will be ...
Views: 2977(1 vote) - Baby Caring Tips For New Mom in Hot Summers - by Submitted on May 30, 2017 from sandeep KumarSummer heat is one thing that all of us want to avoid. Given the scorching heat wave all around the entire aura and mood is kept at stake and people tend to find solace in summer chillers. Extreme heat causes innumerable health problems like dehydration, cough, stomach illness etc and hence ...
Views: 932(1 vote) - Baby Love: Top 5 Parenting Tips to Get the Most out of Your Bundle of Joy - by Submitted on Apr 06, 2018 from Jaclyn TengThere’s nothing quite like being a new parent - the love, the emotions, the happiness, the new-found appreciation for coffee. But, while it may be exciting, it’s also full of one other element: sheer terror! The idea that a human being is completely dependent on you tends to be a little ...
Views: 1041(1 vote) - Baby Steps - by Submitted on Mar 07, 2012 from Carolyn StoneSome of you may have seen the old Bill Murray movie, “What About Bob.” Murray plays a man who is very dependent on his psychiatrist, played by Richard Dreyfus. Dreyfus encourages his patient to make progress in his life by “baby steps.” He has even written a book by that name. It’s a good ...
Views: 1432(1 vote) - Back to Basics - by Submitted on Aug 20, 2007 from Steve GoodierOne man said of his marriage, "I very distinctly remember my wedding day. As we unloaded the moving van into our little house, I said, 'Darling, this is your and my little world.'" "And I suppose," wondered his friend, "that you've lived happily ever after?" "We've been fighting for the ...
Views: 803(1 vote) - Balancing Healthy Relationships with Various Men in Our Life - by Submitted on Dec 08, 2010 from Allura JoyWomen enjoy a variety of qualities from many different men in their lives. We can still enjoy and honor a monogamous relationship; however one man is sometimes not enough to fulfill a woman’s many needs. We are extremely social creatures and experience unique connections with most everyone we ...
Views: 1879(1 vote) - Banish negative emotions, a strategy to clear your mind - by Submitted on Aug 22, 2011 from Tammy DavidsonThe first weeks after discovering their husband’s extramarital affair the wife will experience a mindless jumble of emotions. For some those weeks pass in a blur and they cannot remember much about what they did, let alone what they said. This is critically important, and no decisions should be ...
Views: 1607(1 vote) - Banish Negative Thinking - by Submitted on Jan 10, 2018 from Antiqua LishaThere is nothing more draining than negative thinking especially when your thoughts are picking you apart. So many things can throw you into negative thinking, it's like a drug labeled "being realistic" and it sucks. Maybe you are like me a few years ago, getting out of a bad marriage lost in ...
Views: 1186(1 vote) - Bankruptcy And Divorce - How Do They Affect Each Other? - by Submitted on Apr 17, 2012 from James GarrettIn the current economic environment, many people are considering bankruptcy as a way to manage overwhelming debt. With the stress of financial difficulties straining relationships, more couples are also getting divorced. Before filing for bankruptcy and divorce, though, spouses should understand ...
Views: 1158(1 vote) - Basics about Choosing a Divorce Lawyer - by Submitted on Nov 29, 2011 from Jacob VaraliWhen you get married, you are filled with hopes and dreams that this loving relationship will last forever. But as you probably already know, this is something that does not always happen and today most court cases are filled with divorce cases. There are a lot of things that go on in a divorce ...
Views: 541(1 vote) - BDSM Dating Site That Is Worth It - by Submitted on Mar 07, 2018 from Mathew JohnsonWelcome to The Kinky Factory! Maybe you’re new to sites like these, or maybe you’re a veteran. Maybe you’ve had a lot of BDSM experience, or maybe you’re just starting out. Whatever the case may be, there’s something here for everyone, and our tips will give you the extra info or kickstarter ...
Views: 727(1 vote) - Be A Courteous Bride - by Submitted on Mar 07, 2012 from Andrea ClarkWhile everyone loves watching a beautiful bride get married to the love of her life, what people appreciate more is a courteous bride (who is in love). More than likely, you’ve caught a glimpse of the television show “Bridezillas” which focuses on how rude and ugly some brides can be. If you are ...
Views: 864(1 vote) - Be The Change - by Submitted on Feb 09, 2012 from Petey SilveiraIf “Welcoming Change” is a theme you would love to integrate in your life you might be asking yourself, “How do I get there?” In the previous posts I’ve talked about how changing your thinking may change many other dynamics in your life. But, what about if YOU were the change? What would ...
Views: 1442(1 vote) - Be The Change You Need - by Submitted on May 14, 2013 from Tanya RagbeerWhile it is very easy to be distracted by external factors on a daily basis, it is important to be able to remove or shut out the distractions that negatively impact your productivity so that you can optimize your time spent on the things that are most important to your present and for your ...
Views: 678(1 vote) - Be True to Yourself - by Submitted on Oct 15, 2010 from Hugh DeBurghOne of the concerns that I had before I decided to take my life (and my family’s lives) in a completely new direction was what people around me might think. You know what I’m talking about. For some folks being different comes easy. For those of us who grew up among the cliques and ...
Views: 960(1 vote) - Be True To Yourself: Save The Mask For Halloween - by Submitted on Oct 24, 2007 from Kathleen HassanWith Halloween just around the corner, it got me thinking about masks – not in the costume sense, but rather in the way we hide our true selves from others. When we were little, wearing masks was all about playing make believe and pretending to be someone else just for fun. But as we get older ...
Views: 1938(2 votes) - Become a Webcam Modelling Couple - by Submitted on Sep 29, 2018 from Kalyna KapurAre you an exhibitionist, do you love the attention you get. Well put it to good use and become a webcam model or a webcam modelling couple. You can earn big money on webcam modelling sites just by doing what you love to do. That could be just getting naked and walking around your home doing ...
Views: 4939(1 vote) - Become Irresistible! - by Submitted on Jan 14, 2014 from Emma ViglucciI have noticed that when we have the foot to the pedal, we are moving so fast that we actually miss the beautiful scenery around us. We go about life trying to get things accomplished to such an extent that we burn ourselves out and end up actually accomplishing less... So, what's the point? ...
Views: 1491(1 vote) - Become the Person Who Can Move Mountains Part 7 - by Submitted on Mar 03, 2013 from Womens Recreation, Inc.This is part 7 of an 8 part blog series titled, “Become the Person Who Can Move Mountains.” This blog is about Love. Other blogs to follow in this series are: Self-Esteem, Visualization, Knowledge, Patience, Understanding, Giving Back, Love, and Faith & Fear. We all possess important ...
Views: 977(1 vote) - Being Friends AND Lovers: Is it Possible? - by Submitted on Jun 04, 2012 from Daniela RoherSome people feel very strongly that a person cannot be both a friend and a lover, as one will undermine the other. It’s one or the other, these people say, and cite the importance of mystery and the excitement of the new and the exotic as powerful forces that fuel sexual passion and physical ...
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