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Who Is Responsible for Your Success? / Online Marketing
This article is focused on the subject of Responsibility, which has complete application to the role as the owner of your company and the relationships you have started with your choice of companies to work with online. The article has ... Views: 12
Although some people like to view themselves as being independent and that other people have no affect on who they are, this is nothing more than an illusion. Human beings are interdependent and this means that oneâs self image is influenced by other people.
One might not be aware of this ... Views: 10
At the start of every coaching session, I ask my client: whatâs gone well for you since the last time we sat down together? Itâs a chance for them to pause, recognize their achievements, and celebrate their progress.
But for some reason, people often have a hard time with this question.
My ... Views: 25
As a man I know this fear well. If you've read any of my other articles here in this e-zine you'll know that I suffered from paralyzing shyness most of my life and of how I managed to release this destructive problem from my mind and body permanently.
Well the fear of approaching attractive ... Views: 21
Do you know how self doubt creeps into your decisions and puts the brakes on your motivation and enthusiasm to take action? Do you know how much of your life gets wasted by this unnecessary negative emotion? Do you know however that self doubt can be easily, rapidly and permanently deactivated ... Views: 18
Many people feel, and rightly so, that the experiences of their early life have had a major influence on their self confidence. Yet many are also confounded as to what to do about that "unchangeable" past and often feel stuck in, imprisoned by and frustrated by it. Is there a way out?
Yes, ... Views: 29
There are going to be times in oneâs life where their external reality mirrors back to them exactly what they want to experience and then there are going to be times when this doesnât happen. And these experiences can end up defining not only how one feels, but also what they believe about ... Views: 36
Do you know that most people pick the same "kind" of unhealthy partner over and over and never realize it until their life is spent and they are too old? Do you know this unhealthy dating pattern is rooted in early childhood relationships you had with important caretakers (usually parents) often ... Views: 32
Do you know that low self esteem and self sabotage are two sides of the same coin? Do you know that both are rooted in subconsciously stored beliefs generated by negative memories of your past that undermine your self worth, and make you feel like an undeserving individual who needs to suffer in ... Views: 31
There are many things that one can do to make a positive impression and this is going to include the impression one makes when they meet someone for the first time and in their existing relationships.
And as human beings are not perfect, it is only natural that they are going to do things ... Views: 44
Have you ever wondered where self doubt comes from? Well it arises when one chooses to turn against their own inner wisdom and truth out of a need to please others, to feel wanted, feel loved, be validated, feel included, be respected, feel accepted, to be taken care of by important others, to ... Views: 44
Do you know that most people, without realizing it automatically operate from a series of subconsciously driven programs that cause them by default to feel and behave like dependent, small, helpless and needy children? Do you know this makes them unattractive, unsuccessful in relationships, feel ... Views: 35
Yes, many do. Many do not.
Performers are, surprisingly often, introverts, because performing provides a perfect platform for an introvert. A performance usually involves a structured situation with behavior that is well-rehearsed; furthermore, we can usually perform without those ... Views: 40
Do you know that low self esteem and self worth are significant impediments to creating and sustaining healthy, fulfilling and long lasting relationships? Do you know that when one feels deficient in these qualities it is not because there is anything wrong with them but largely because they ... Views: 42
Do you know that the main reason individuals harbor feelings of self loathing or self hate is because they have been programmed to believe they are inadequate, worthless, responsible for the pain of others around them, stupid, unlovable, weak, useless, a burden to others and so on? Do you know ... Views: 49
No matter how much someone learns in life there are always going to be things they donât know about. That is part of life and is something that one simply has to accept. That doesnât mean that learning is therefore futile, if anything, it could feel like a weight has been lifted from ones ... Views: 82
Do you follow the crowd and lose your true self or do you strike out on your own and live a rich creative and fulfilling life that you are passionate about? Do you regularly make new and adventurous heartfelt choices that enrich you, help you to express your true authentic self or do you simply ... Views: 47
While one is constantly having an effect on their environment, it doesnât mean that they are able to accept this. Some people will be able to see that this is the case and there are going to be others who believe they have no effect whosever.
And when someone experiences life in a way that ... Views: 57
Do you know that many individuals make themselves martyrs and door mats because they believe deep down they'll be rewarded for doing so?
Do you know that there is no "reward" for this self destructive strategy besides death? Do you know that this tendency to submit as the punching bag of ... Views: 46
Do you know that self sabotaging thoughts and behaviors are generated subconsciously by programming based in negative memories from your past? Do you know that unless one can permanently erase/delete the memories driving that programming they will remain a helpless and self destructive being ... Views: 66
Everyone starts out in life wanting to be safe, loved, and accepted. Itâs in our DNA. Some of us figure out that the best way to do this is to put aside what we want or feel and allow someone elseâs needs and feelings take precedence. This works for a while. It feels natural, and thereâs less ... Views: 66
Some people might believe that their thoughts are their own and that their environment has no effect on them whatsoever. And there are going to be other people who will see how their environment does affect them; but this may only relate to certain factors that are relatively easy to notice.
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Do you know that without realizing it most individuals have been programmed with a simple "equation" that fundamentally stands in the way of fully embodying their self esteem? That equation is based on the conditioned notion that: one's self esteem is proportional to what one owns. Do you know ... Views: 77
When it comes to being successful and achieving what one wants to achieve, it is important that one believes in themselves. Without this belief, one is going to find it difficult to achieve anything. So not only will it be impossible for one to thrive, it could also be a real challenge for them ... Views: 99
Whether you are already familiar with EFT or if it is new to you, you may well wonder what it has to do with dominoes for improving confidence. Perhaps you are already a successful EFTer and can connect the dominoes to the generalization effect. Maybe you have just started doing EFT and are ... Views: 82
As you may or may not know already, EFT is a way to break through any blocks in your path to health success and happiness. These blocks are made of energy, or better understood as imprints in your mind-body.
You may have tried affirmations, hypnotherapy, psychotherapy, NLP, anti-depressants, ... Views: 71
Having the desire to be seen is part of being human and as human beings are interdependent, it is a vital part of not only being able to survive, but to thrive. If human beings were inherently independent, then it wouldnât matter if they were seen by others or not.
Oneâs ability to survive ... Views: 78
There are now more ways than ever before for people to be distracted. For example, one no longer needs to sit down and watch TV or to turn the radio on, as they can simply look at their phone and become completely consumed; no matter where they are or what they are doing.
So based on this, ... Views: 98
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To take responsibility is to change oneâs life now. To take responsibility for everything in oneâs life is to change oneâs life forever. Self responsibility and self esteem go hand in hand. When we do the ... Views: 68
As a mortal human being, we just cannot deny the importance of products we use in our daily life. I am a fan of relationship science and its related benefits, but for this time, I want to highlight the benefits of the tangible items around us. As we use them often, they are closest to us â ... Views: 58
So why is it that some individuals find themselves ravaged by a weakened will? To answer this it's necessary to understand the underlying causes of this problem. If you look at your own personal experience you'll readily see that your will is weakened by the multitude of other thoughts, emotions ... Views: 76
Self-esteem is one of the natural things that we all have been blessed with since birth. A tiny baby cannot do anything for her, hence can cry, drink, blink, observes, and can feel emotions. Although the intensity of the emotions are not very much visible, but they are present even at the time ... Views: 51
It is not uncommon for someone to hear that they should just be themselves around the opposite sex or the same sex, depending on their sexual preference. And while this sounds accurate and exactly what one should be doing, it doesnât mean that this is what always happens.
There will be some ... Views: 91
I read the introverts forums, I watch the comments, and I feel a little dismayed. âWhy wonât people leave me alone?â âI donât like small talk, so I avoid people.â âBeing around people is just so exhausting that I spend all my free time alone.â âI hate even the thought of networking.â
One gets ... Views: 56
Having needs is part is part of being human and this means they are nothing to be ashamed or something that one should try to remove. If each and every one of us was inherently independent, then we wouldnât have needs. But as we are all interdependent, it means that we all have needs.
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The Perfectionist is one form of the Inner Critic. It is a part of you that tries to get you to do things perfectly. It has very high standards for your behavior and especially for products you create or performances you make. This often comes up around written reports. Often the Perfectionist ... Views: 74
Jeanette had low self esteem, all her teachers wondered about this. She was musically talented, but had no confidence in herself. She never tried out for the orchestra or school plays. As she got older, this pattern continued and she ended up with minimal jobs. She just assumed that she wouldnât ... Views: 58
Do you know that most people, whether they choose to admit it to themselves or not, feel a sense of inadequacy and incompleteness within? How do I know this? Well if you look around and witness the extent to which many attempt to prop themselves up with wealth, sexy looks, flashy clothes, fancy ... Views: 105
Do you know that self doubt is a toxic negative energy that convinces you you're weak, ineffective, inadequate, unintelligent, incapable, lacking creative potential, undermines self confidence and paralyzes one in an unfulfilling prison that many call life?
Do you know self doubt is ... Views: 68
One of the advantages I have as a life coach is listening to peopleâs most private stories. Hearing their experiences is better than any education I could buy. Why? Because these stories come from real women with real concerns, the practical stuff that often isnât covered in any text ... Views: 87
Do you know that the fear of abandonment is a major impediment to ever having or sustaining a successful and healthy relationship? Do you know most people who find themselves unconsciously sabotaging their relationships harbor this fear deep within them? Do you know that this fear often arises ... Views: 87
While no two people on the planet will view themselves in the same way, there are going to be people who have a self image that empowers them and there will also be people who have a self image that doesnât empower them. And ones self image is something that can change as time goes by and is ... Views: 100
One of the greatest needs a human being has is to be accepted for who they are. But while this is the case, it doesnât necessarily mean that one has been able to fulfil this need or that they believe it is even possible for them to fulfil it.
If people were generally encouraged to be ... Views: 117
When someone takes a certain action or a number of actions that donât lead to the outcome that they desired, there is the chance that they will later come to experience regret. And while there is nothing that one can to do to change what took place, they will suffer nevertheless.
This is ... Views: 101
In todayâs world people donât have to come to their own conclusions about what the world is like or what is true or what is not, as the media is there to do it for them. Now, if what the media presented was always accurate and there were no hidden agendas, this would be fine.
But the ... Views: 83
Do you know the single greatest impediment to one's success is the storehouse of negative memories of failure, humiliation and rejection that continues to reside in the subconscious mind?
Do you know those negative memories are responsible for procrastination, the fear of failure, the fear ... Views: 105
Do you know that self sabotaging behaviors are driven by old emotional baggage stored in the subconscious mind that has hypnotized you into believing that you are bad, unworthy, undeserving, inadequate, guilty, responsible for the suffering of others, unacceptable, undesirable, defective, ... Views: 97
As human beings, it is normal to want to look good, to give things, and to experience success for example. And yet, it is also possible for one to engage in each of these things just to impress others.
To do this from time to time could be described as normal, but if one was to do this as a ... Views: 100
Do you know that most relationships wind up on the rocks because the individuals in them act out, much against their own freewill, negative self destructive patterns that were pre-programmed deep in their subconscious minds early on in their lives?
Do you know those patterns are rooted in ... Views: 99