Dr. Paul Haider PhD

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Helping People Discover their Greatness and the God within! Expert

Dr. Paul Haider Quick Facts

Main Areas: Helping People Discover their Greatness and the God Within and thus Success and Peace!
Best Sellers: Relax Into Success ---- and----- 21 Ways to Live a Stress Free Life ...in only 21 Days
Career Focus: Spiritual Teacher ---- Counselor and Teacher
Affiliation: Alliance for the New Humnity, Humanities Team, International Critical Incident Stress Foundation

My Bio—Dr. Paul Haider

Life is more than just moving towards goals and a work-a-day life. Life is all about learning about who you are and becoming aware. Awareness allows you to understand yourself from a deep place which allows you to heal the past, find the true meaning of life and be successful! Just like an iceberg with 80% of the ice below the water line (Unconscious), and 20% above the water line (Consciousness) what do you think drives your life? You are right! Just like the iceberg the water pushes on the ice below and moves it along.

So too your life is driven by all the unconscious beliefs that you created as a child. You created these beliefs to protect yourself and they worked well as a child. But some of these unconscious beliefs don’t serve you in a positive way at this point in your life; many of them are holding you back from being successful! Take for instance a man who never had money. A man who had parents owned lots of property. He saw how much pain and suffering his father went through with all the stress was under…. and as a child he unconsciously decided not too become a millionaire like his father because of all the suffering he watched as a child. When his unconscious belief was raised to consciousness ---- he could see how he was keeping the success of his father (Not just the stress) away from his life. He was holding himself back and that’s why he was penniless.

Now he’s very successful and owns lots of property. He did not have to suffer like his father, he could run his life differently, without all the stress and at the same time be successful! All he had to do is create a new belief about life and discard the old one. Bring these old beliefs to Consciousness is important to heal the child within thus allowing the god within to connect with God. Thus we no longer hold ourselves back from our true potential and greatness! Peeling the onion is what life is all about, one layer at a time moving towards self awareness and real success! It’s not what you know that’s important, and it is not what you don't know that’s important ------ because you can define what you don’t know ----- It's all about WHAT YOU DON’T KNOW, YOU DON’T KNOW that's important! E

verything outside of your scope of understanding right now is all important…. and that’s why it’s so important to be open to trying new and different things. This allows the god within to step into the light of God and create amazing success, happiness and peace! It's all about moving beyond your comfort zone and challenging yourself to keep from being stuck. Never settling and never giving up, and at the same time surrendering to God for it’s "Thy Will Be Done." I help people discover themselves with my counseling.

I have a Doctoral Degree in Religious Studies, BA in Psychology and 10 Certifications from Stress Management, NLP, Reiki and many more. I am here to help you discover how wonderful you really are! Love, Care and Support

Dr. Paul Haider

Other Programs & Highlights

Dr. Paul Haider is one of America's most dynamic, thought-provoking, fun and energizing speakers.

Each year, he travels the globe delivering powerful seminars on the wisdom of stress management and consulting with major corporations, associations, and educational institutions.

He combines entertaining professional speaking with high-content to give you immediate effective ways to attain the quality of life you deserve.

Dr. Paul Haider's Current Programs Include:

The Four Laws of Eternal Joy!...Not being depressed is simple… what about creating joy?

This seminar will show you how to achieve the following in four easy steps!

-Be the master of your emotions…it’s all about chemistry
-Become creator in your own life…you are more powerful than you think
-Learn to be excited about life… even when you are 100 years old
-Learn how to create joy every day

21 Ways to Live a Stress Free Life…in only 21 days!

This seminar teach you to de-rail stress

-Learn to focus
-Become healthier
-Achieve more
-Feel peaceful
-And be in control of your life
-Create a spiritual haven
-Find rituals for your living

The Way of the Relaxed Soul

-Learn how you too can live according to your soul’s code
-Learn what happiness is for you
-Learn to live in the moment
-What’s your mission here on earth
-Learn to work… at what you really love
-Learn how to find inner peace

Zen and the Art of Relaxing the Mind

Ancient writing show you the way to controlling your thoughts

-Understand how your mind works—it’s the key to self mastery
-Learn to balance your emotions
-Create calm….even in the middle of a divorce
-Feel centered and in control
-Never feel alone again
-Simplify your life

Know Your Power!

This wonderful seminar will show you how powerful you really are!

-Learn how you can create a positive mindset
-Achieve your goals
-Be self-disciplined
-Achieve perfect concentration
-Feel physically stronger…learn how you can move ten people with one hand
-Feel connected to everything in the Universe
-Understand the flow of Ki and Chai in your body

Relax Into Success!

People every where want to know

-How to relax deeply
-Sleep soundly
-Find balance in a crazy world
-Be mindful
-Have lots of energy

This knowledge imparting seminar will boost your well being and set you apart from the rest of the crowd. By the time you leave this seminar…you will know what peacefulness is…. instead of someone telling you what it is!

Seven Steps to Self Worth

-Find your purpose!
-Find your priorities and values!
-Pinpoint what makes you excited about being alive!
-Learn how to challenge yourself and love it!
-Learn how to rid your mind of distractions!
-Learn to love yourself deeply!
-Have a winning attitude!

Self Mastery Series

This series of ongoing seminars will change your life!

Most of us have not mastered… being our own master!

-Create life long goals
-Control your mind…your greatest challenge
-Learn the art of self-command and regulation
-How to love delaying gratification
-How to improve your outlook on life
-Learn to laugh at the craziness of life
-Build Wisdom
(Knowledge will get you so far…Wisdom will take you everywhere)
-Learn to love change
(Change will happen and if you know how to love change you can succeed at everything)
-Learn to take calculated risks (Every great person has had to take risks to succeed)
-Learn love what you are doing
-Learn to be a warrior
-Learn to communicate
-Learn to be influential and powerful

For more information call (831)-869-9119

Favorite Quotes & Thoughts from Dr. Paul Haider

The Way of the Relaxed Soul

“The Relaxed Soul is Born Again”

Every area of our life has energy attached to it. Be it our mind, body or spirit all of them have energies that build and create or hold us back in life. When we have stuck energy holding us back, we need to clear them away with confession, prayer, meditation, through dreams, regression, therapy, group work and more. When all these sensations are cleared away, we are reborn to start anew with the help of a loving God.

Then we can be at peace

The Relaxed Soul

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The Way of the Relaxed Soul

“The Relaxed Soul Develops the Four Virtues”

There are four virtues that people who meditate bring into their life. These virtues are developed over a life time. The first principle: loving everyone, especially those who are comfortable. The second principle: being unmoved by evil, not allowing evil to change ones mood. This does not mean disregarding the evil act, or not taking action. It means not allowing the evil act to take over the mind with anger. The third principle: having great compassion and concern for those who are suffering. And the fourth principle: having great joy for those who are moving forward on their spiritual path. We have to remind ourselves daily of the four virtues as we live our lives in order to put them into practice. With the development of these four virtues one becomes successful without even trying. But these virtues do come with a price ---- and that is --- giving up the ego with virtues allows us to be closer to God.

Then we can be at peace

The Relaxed Soul ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~/ The Way of the Relaxed Soul “The Relaxed Soul Dreams of His Ideal Life” The Relaxed Soul dreams of His ideal life and creates His life according to that likeness. God is waiting for you to shine! You can’t be waiting for God to make you shine. God gives you the tools and it’s your choice to take action today and be a shining light unto God. If you can dream of what you want ---- then you can make it happen! God is not holding you back! God wants you to be successful! If you want peace then meditate everyday. If you want more abundance, then make the next sale call with the outcome in mind; put together a business plan; or invent something new. Even God took action to make the heavens and the earth. You have everything you need! KNOW you are loved and everything else will fall into place. FOR GOD’S LOVE --- WILL NEVER FAIL YOU! Then we can be at peace The Relaxed Soul

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The Way of the Relaxed Soul “The Relaxed Soul Knows How to Calm the Mind” If a person sits in a sensory deprivation chamber for very long ---- sooner or later he starts hallucinating. We are born into a world of sensory input and the mind knows nothing else. If we take away that normal input the mind starts tearing at itself like a monster. Feeding and yawing away at the mind trying to fill the void. That’s why it’s very important to give the mind something to do during meditation. Centering on something that’s not intrusive so the mind can relax. Centering on the breathe, saying a mantra, chanting, or watching the lights in our mind during meditation, especially for the beginner this calms the sensory beast. In this way the claws of the senses are appeased and the mind is allowed to be at peace and one with God. Then we can be at peace The Relaxed Soul

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The Way of the Relaxed Soul “The Relaxed Soul Stands With Him” Moses asked God for help and God told him to part the waters. So too God speaks to us in that voice that tells us to stand tall and know we are the messenger of God. God is always there for us, for he said, “I WILL NOT FORSAKE YOU.” He will give us all we need, if we only believe and have guts to stand with HIM! It’s kind of like riding a bike. God gave us gravity and God gave us the physics of momentum. But just like Moses --- it takes PUTTING IN THE EFFORT WITH GREAT FAITH ---- to make our life move forward. And I know you can do it! Then we can be at peace The Relaxed Soul

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You can sign up for my free daily spiritual tip called "The Relaxed Soul" at www.paulhaider.com