Summer movie blockbusters are upon us and local theaters are showcasing another season of superhero action flicks. Raising two sons, I have watched my share of superhero movies - from Star Wars to Spiderman - and confess that I know quite a bit about superheroes – the struggles that led them to use their talents and gifts to fight for good and prevent evil. I am intrigued by these stories and characters because when you look closer, it seems that beneath the cape or the mask, these remarkable heroes are really ADHD adults in disguise.
Take Tony Stark, aka Ironman for example. He is the epitome of an adult with ADHD. His resourcefulness and out of the box thinking has literally kept him alive, helping him to create a power source that would keep his heart functioning after a grave injury. He struggles with focus and luckily has an enterprise where he can work on multiple projects at once – in the recent movies, you can visually see his mental restlessness as he flips through his virtual computer screens fast and furiously. He is active, adventurous and often disregards his physical limitations (or in his case, his Ironman suit’s power limits) when he’s chasing fun and excitement which often gets him into trouble. And he can talk… a lot.
Sounds like a typical list of ADHD symptoms, doesn’t it?
Now imagine Tony Stark without his ability to ‘brain surf’ – how his mind can jump from one topic to another, or thought to thought, without skipping a beat. Do you think he would’ve been able to run so quickly through various scenarios and alternatives on how he could stay alive despite shrapnel inching toward his heart?
What about how Tony Stark was known for locking himself in his lab for days on end until he found an answer to whatever challenge he faced. Would he have been as successful and productive if he didn’t have this incredible ability to hyper-focus and tune out everything else as if the rest of the world and his own needs ceased to exist?
And if you’ve seen the movies with Robert Downey, Jr., I’m sure you’ve been entertained and amused by his live portrayal of the comic book superhero. Would he have been as charming if he wasn’t delivering his nonstop humorous commentary, acted as the life of the party or lived in the moment? Would the movie have been as enjoyable if Tony Stark was quiet and shy, if he thought before he jumped off buildings or if he lacked an insatiable curiosity?
Without these gifts, Tony Stark probably would not have reached superhero status. He most likely would’ve been an ordinary man…successful at his job and in life, but not the explosive sensation he became as Ironman.
ADHD can be like that. It can make someone larger than life, grandiose in ideas and incredibly exciting to be around. ADHD symptoms don’t have to be classified as debilitating challenges…they can be seen as superpowers especially when you use for good.
So imagine if you could take one of your ADHD symptoms and see it as a superpower? What would it be?
Laurie Dupar, Senior Certified ADHD Coach and trained Psychiatric Nurse Practitioner, specializes in working with clients who have been diagnosed with ADD/ADHD and entrepreneurs who want to finally understand how their brain works, minimize their challenges and get things done! Through individual/group coaching, live speaking, and her writing, she helps clients and their loved ones use effective strategies to utilize their innate brain traits so they experience success. She is the co-author and editor of The ADHD Awareness Book Project Series, More Ways to Succeed with ADHD and author of Unlock the Secrets to Your Entrepreneurial Brain Style. For more information, please visit http://www.coachingforadhd.com.