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What’s the secret to ongoing intimacy, in and OUT of the bedroom?
Most couples agree that they feel more emotionally, mentally, and physically connected with each other, after a good romp in the sack.
But generally that yummy feeling of mutual connection begins to wane over time, ... Views: 218
Are you tired from all the running around you do each day? Have you been going and going and going? When was the last time you made love with your partner (or yourself?) I'm going to teach you THE most valuable tool for handling the every day stress. Ready? STOP.
What?? (Yep, you read ... Views: 244
Here is a simple practice that will help you get what you want in relationship -- in all kinds of relationships actually!
Ready? It's just too simple: Say no.
Do you say 'yes' when you feel 'no'? Do you avoid confrontation? Does it feel scary when you want to disagree with someone? ... Views: 174
In relationships, resentment can often build and build. An amazing tool that can help reduce the negative feelings is ‘clearing a withhold.’ In clearing a withhold with your partner, family member, parent, child, neighbor or friend, the following elements need to be present:
1. Safety: ... Views: 172
Are you ready to go deeper into working on your relationship? Ready to learn how to clear a withhold? Yep. That's right -- a "withhold" - something you are holding back from sharing with your sweetie.
You know...how you were angry that he left the toilet seat up? Or she didn't buy your ... Views: 174
In this article I'd like to take the conscious communication tools a bit deeper -- and teach you how to skillfully share one of THE MOST VALUABLE love tools: Sharing Appreciations. But not just any old appreciations, any old time -- it needs to be 'right' in order to pierce your sweetie's heart ... Views: 164
When you have something important to share with your sweetie, but feel like all you want to do is blame him (or her) here is exactly what you need to move forward.
Take these 4 steps with ease:
1. Take 5-10 minutes to journal what you are upset about (don't skip this very important ... Views: 183
Do you wish you could tell your partner what you are feeling more easily? Are you looking for a way to have a productive conversation without playing the blame and shame game? Do your "discussions" sometimes last into the wee hours of the night leaving you exhausted the next day?
When you have ... Views: 183
Can love be trained?
Is true love unconditional?
Now, maybe this will sound strange for some very young lovers, but the essence of this wonderful feeling, this joyful state of being is that Love can and must be trained.
To choose Happiness as the way of Life, one needs to train Love. ... Views: 398
Whether you are interested in Tantra or devoutly practicing the principles, the following tips on how to bring more intimacy into your relationship are good reminders:
1. Appreciate each other!
We all love to be appreciated. But how we appreciate each other can make all the difference. ... Views: 458
"Look at every path closely and deliberately, then ask ourselves this crucial question: Does this path have a heart? If it does, then the path is good. If it doesn't, it is of no use." – Carlos Castaneda
If you are anything like me, even just a mention of words: love, sex & spirit will ... Views: 489
If you have paid careful attention, you may have noticed that ordinary friction sex, the kind of sexual exchange that most men employ, is characterized by a series of incessant, robotic, pelvic pumping actions combined with rapid breathing. There is no doubt that this is the fast and hard ... Views: 407
Many of us are engaged in various activities in the pursuit of physical fitness. We go to health clubs to tone up and strengthen our muscles so that we can look and feel better about ourselves. While the focus of this type of exercise concerns itself with strengthening the external muscles, for ... Views: 346
One thing is certain, Tantric sex is not for everyone. Tantra requires a level of consciousness that is based on energetic and spiritual principles. In a nutshell, the foundation of Tantric sexual practice is learning to generate copious amounts of orgasmic energy, and directing it up the ... Views: 607
EROTIC SPIRITUALITY and the CHURCH
Sadly, here in the America, there have been many obstacles to erotic spirituality that have been molded by two thousand years of sex-negative, Judeo-Christian influences and values. Make no mistake about it, the spiritual implications of sexual love and ... Views: 290
Ancient tantric teachings have long specified that all women possess two poles, or hot spots. One is the northern external pole, the clitoris. The other is the less well-known internal southern pole, the G-spot. It should be noted that recently both these assumptions have been challenged as ... Views: 267
TANTRA: The Art of Conscious Loving® By Charles Muir & Leah Alchin
It is generally accepted that there was a “sexual revolution” which began in the mid-sixties. Many feel that this revolution is dead, some having tried all there is to try sexually, and growing bored with it. In truth the ... Views: 571
Tantra for Singles by Lara StewartL
Many people, if they’ve heard of Tantra at all, think that it is something for couples to do to enhance their sex lives. While that is something that tantric practices can do, that is just one ... Views: 1174
Tantra Yoga is both a written and oral tradition that dates back at least 2,000-10,000 years. It is common in the West to equate Tantra with sex, but in actuality it is a spiritual science and way of life, more concerned with artfully approaching every activity and creating a well-rounded and ... Views: 941
Most people, myself included, want to create a loving and fulfilling relationship in our lives. A relationship that is healthy, authentic, with mutual love and respect for each other. A loving healthy relationship can be one of the most beautiful experiences in the world. I have had the ... Views: 360
Everything and everyone must change and evolve if it, they, are to not only survive but thrive.
The concept of evolution has often been used when speaking about the origin of humankind and the evolvement of a particular species. But have you ever thought of the evolution of sex?
As ... Views: 444
This is a great meditation to help re-connect with your partner and yourself.
Set the Ambiance:
Get comfortable. Find a comfortable place to sit with cushions and blankets. Play ambient meditation music. Light candles.
Start of Meditation:
1. Come back to back. Begin connecting with ... Views: 911
Yoga retreats are becoming increasingly popular among tourists. The growing number of retreats specifically dedicated to yoga is clear evidence of this. Around the world you can find many such centers. These centers are typically located in some of the most tranquil and beautiful locations in ... Views: 419
If you have ever returned from a getaway feeling as though you actually needed another vacation, it may be time that you re-evaluated your holiday priorities. Although a getaway should certainly be fun, it can also be inspiring and even provide your total body, including your mind and spirit, ... Views: 407
The treatment of various disease of the human kind by the fragrant smoke that is produced by the smoke evolved when the medicinal herbs are burnt. It is should be used in such a way that it should not lead to any adverse effect. Herbal Incense
There are two types of the herb ... Views: 556
Do you think you need to learn a language which is only spoken by a few million people so far? Maybe lots of people will turn up their nose at this question, for it is a silly question. No, it's not at all! A great many world citizens think that it is really worth it if they can speak a new ... Views: 374
Recently it seems that an increasing number of people have been discussing the benefits of yoga and how wonderful it is for improving the mind, body and spirit. Yoga is actually much more than just a fitness routine. For most people who choose to practice yoga, it becomes a way of life. As a new ... Views: 399
Taking a yoga holiday can provide a number of important benefits. Not only can attending a yoga retreat or retiro help you to gain a much needed break from the hum-drum routine of daily life, but it can also present you with the opportunity to explore a location that is completely exotic and ... Views: 399
Recently it seems that an increasing number of people have been discussing the benefits of yoga and how wonderful it is for improving the mind, body and spirit. Yoga is actually much more than just a fitness routine. For most people who choose to practice yoga, it becomes a way of life. As a new ... Views: 280
If you think you do not need natural detoxification because you are not exposed to toxic chemicals, you are WRONG. Maybe it is the reason why you get frequent colds, or that you are diabetic, hypertensive, you have cancer or heart disease, or that you are FAT!
All of us are exposed to toxic ... Views: 462
Sagittarius personalities are very friendly in nature. Sagittarius daily horoscope helps in understanding the relationship compatibility between a Sagittarius personality and other personalities of different zodiac signs. A Sagittarius and an Arian have many similarities in nature. They can ... Views: 750
When planning to attend a yoga retreat center such as the El Neem center in beautiful Mexico, you will have a variety of options available to you. Yoga retreats such as the one in Oaxaca are dedicated to ensuring that all of the needs of their patrons are met. This has resulted in a wide array ... Views: 337
Today there are many different forms of fitness routines available, including Yoga. While there is no denying the fitness benefits that can be reaped from Yoga, there is actually much more to Yoga than simply being able to tone and strengthen your body. The many different forms of Yoga have a ... Views: 329
There are innumerable benefits to attending a yoga retreat in Mexico, including the ability to treat yourself in a better manner. Many times we become so caught up in the responsibilities of work and family life as well as the stresses of modern day living that we forget to take care of ... Views: 382
There are many benefits available from attending a yoga retreat. One of the primary benefits of attending one of the numerous retreats available around the world is that most retreats or completely unique. There are a few elements that you can typically expect from attending a yoga retreat, ... Views: 453
As a philosophy of ancient India, yoga offers numerous benefits including the ability to discipline the body and the mind better. The overall goal of yoga is to improve your life in a variety of different ways. While many people first think of improving their fitness level, there is actually ... Views: 317
Yoga retreat centers are growing increasingly popular as they offer a way for people to feel more relaxed and healthy at the same time. In modern life, the daily routine can often leave us feeling stressed and out of sorts. It is important to learn how to effectively combat high levels of ... Views: 280
For quite some time now, the benefits of yoga have been acknowledged throughout the world and an increasing number of individuals have developed an interest in yoga. Considering the many benefits that become possible through regularly practising yoga, it is easy to see why there has been such a ... Views: 377
In this new age of psychobabble, open sexual expression, and deeply rooted need for healing the Earth and ourselves, Tantra is a perfect practice for finding love. Unfortunately, it is so misunderstood. Contrary to popular belief, Tantra is not sex and sex is not necessarily Tantric- yet sex is ... Views: 373
Breath is the essence of life. From our first moments fresh from the womb until the last sigh of death we are breathing. Most of the time we breathe reflexive without thinking; inhaling and exhaling our way through morning routines, work, train rides, exercise, and sleep. Using the breath ... Views: 390
The adorable young woman sitting in front of me had been sent by her boyfriend for counseling because she doesn’t orgasm in a few minutes as a porn star pretends to.
The main source of sex education for many young people these days is online porn, and much misinformation is being ... Views: 558
Pole dance classes at your local “Y,” burlesque and striptease billed as “female empowerment,” fetish shoes worn as ordinary daywear, cougars on the prowl, and porn star sex not only ubiquitous on the Internet but expected in every bedroom – contemporary sex is all about the yang.
You’ve seen ... Views: 773
I wonder what you, dear readers out there, do to cure heartbreak?
Heartbreak can feel like devastation. Writing and journaling are good ways to turn something sad into a creative outlet and maybe through the process, I can help someone heal from this horrible thing called heartbreak. You know ... Views: 426
Love is a gift. What is love? It can be many things. In other times and other languages, they had a variety of names for the different types of love feelings we have –
Filial love, which conveys brotherly, friendship love. Agape love transcends ego and embraces the world. And, of course the ... Views: 468
I came upon an interesting and useful phenomenon. Put simply, you can use sexual charge or energy to clear out old emotional triggers that are stored in your aura. This process can be quick and easy to do if you’ve had some training in energy work, meditation or intuition. For people new to ... Views: 823
For this Tantric Tidbit, please read, complete and reflect on the following:
A quick "Comfort in the Body Meditation"
Begin by sitting comfortably in a chair with your feet flat on the ground, relaxed but not slumped over, and your hands resting on your lap with your eyes closed. Bring ... Views: 324
Part of bringing in the new includes leaving the old behind. Let go of outdated ways of being and thinking, old patterns in ourselves and the collective psyche.
We can have a hard time bringing in something new - a new behavior, a new boyfriend/girlfriend, job, whatever it is you want, until ... Views: 408
Many people think that humanity is reaching a higher spiritual level than ever before. I think those people have not been to the historical sites and probably lived through TV and the internet. Certainly there are many things on the internet which simply based on volume and dissemination of ... Views: 610
Dear Dr. Romance:
I am a single woman in my late 40's. I've had several serious relationships, but unfortunately, although I lived with a couple of them, I've never been married. I have a minor physical disability, a stomach condition, but I am attractive, I look younger than I am, I'm well ... Views: 797
When the word Tantra comes to mind, one may think of ancient Eastern practices, intricate sex or images of naked gods and goddesses bursting with light and twisted into most difficult Kama Sutra positions. When you break it down, however, the word Tantra means “weaving” in Sanskrit. Tantra is a ... Views: 628