Most foreign men opt to
date Asian women because they believe that Asian ladies are better wives and girlfriends compare to women of other nationalities. If you are a foreign guy and you wish to have a successful date with beautiful Asian women, here are 10 tips for dating Asian women that will help you in assuring that everything will run smoothly:
• Take a bath and shave. Do not even think of showing up on your date without taking a bath and unshaven, Asian women are very particular about their date's personal hygiene. So before you leave the house do a little personal hygiene check such as clean fingernails, fresh smelling and properly ironed clothes, neat hair and well-polished or clean shoes. You need to ensure that you are free from any foul smell and your breath should smell fresh too. Be prepared to be scrutinized by your Asian date from head to toe. It is a huge turn off for Asian women to date a guy who has body odor and foul breath. By doing this, you will have a hard time convincing her that you can take care of her because you cannot even take care of yourself.
• Be on time. To avoid getting negative impressions, make sure that you arrive on time during your date. She may think that you stood up on her but as soon as you arrive late, she will change her mind and assume that you are an unreliable person. In case you are going to pick her up then it will be much better that you arrive at least five minutes ahead. Arriving on time during your date will earn you a positive impression.
• Do not forget to bring a thoughtful token. A simple gift is a sign a thoughtfulness and will definitely make her feel very special. Before you decide to go on a date, it is pretty obvious that you have already learned some things about her. It is very important that you gift her the most appropriate gift. However, if this is a blind date then it is always safe to buy generic gifts like roses and chocolates. Do not go overboard with your budget on gifts.
• Be a gentleman. Chivalry is something that most Asian women are looking for, so show her that you are gentleman. You should hold the door for her and she should walk through the door first too. Your Asian date also expects you to pull the chair for her and to be polite to her and the people around you. If you treat her like a lady, she will definitely think that you are a gentleman.
• Be generous in complimenting her. If there is one thing that you need to tell your date is to let her know that she looks beautiful. Before asking her how she is, make sure that you already told her that she is beautiful. Be generous in giving her compliments but make sure that you sound sincere. For the entire evening date, three or four compliments will be enough to let her know that you appreciate her. When Asian women receive compliments, the feel more beautiful and secured about themselves. Make sure that your compliments and sincere if you want to create a bigger impact.
• Make sure that she is the center of your attention and listen as she speaks. Do not bore her by talking too much about yourself, allow her to talk and make sure that you listen. Make sure that you listen to what she says and ask related follow-up questions to her. A good way to attract and impress your Asian date is by listening to her. If you want to get to know her better, then you should let her do the talking.
• It is best to prepare for a good conversation with your date. It will make you feel more comfortable and confident if you know what to talk about. To have a smooth flow of conversation, you can prepare your questions ahead of time. Do not talk about your past relationships and your ex-girlfriends too. Give her your full attention and avoid other distractions too.
• As a guy, you should pay for the date. Asian girls expect you to foot the bill during your date because this is what a gentleman would normally do. However, if she insists on going “dutch” then you should not refuse to accept it. If she didn't offer to pay, then do not ask her to do it. To avoid awkward situation, then inform her beforehand that you are the one in-charge of the bill. In this manner, you can prevent any awkward situation because she knows that you will pay for the bill.
• Don't forget about the goodnight kiss. Most Asian ladies are not comfortable about goodnight kiss after the first date. So do not be disappointed if you were not able to seal your first date with a kiss. However, you can gauge by her body language and your chemistry throughout your date if she is ready for a goodnight kiss. You can make the move if you feel that she is ready for it. However, if it doesn't feel right, the a friendly hug can end your memorable date.
• Honesty is very important too. You should not tell her that you will call her unless you really intend to do it. If you do not find her interesting, then bid goodbye and wish each other goodluck. You can simply say that you were glad to meet her and wish her luck. If you find her interesting, then you should let her know. Ask her out once again, as they say strike the iron while it's hot.