3 Smartest Moves You Can Make Right Now To Get Your Ex Back - Use Them Or Risk Losing Your Ex Forever!

Let me be completely blunt: going through a break up stinks. However, the good news is that, since you're reading this article, you've decided to become proactive about getting your relationship back on track. Congratulations! With a little bit of determination and the 3 powerful strategies you'll learn in this article, the chances of getting back together with your ex have just increased exponentially. Ok, let's get to it.

* The strategy I'm about to explain to you may seem counter-intuitive. However, don't be afraid to use it because it's powerful and will set the stage for the steps that follow. What you need to do is agree with your ex that you need to separate for a while in order to re-evaluate your feelings and the current state of your relationship.

This will be good for you because it will allow you to step back and give yourself enough time to recover from the emotional strain you took as a result of the break up. This is also a sneaky reverse psychological trick you can play on your ex that will make him or subconsciously feel attracted to you.

* Secondly, stop contacting your ex for a period of time. There are two main advantages to this strategy. The first one ties into the step above - it will give you time to recuperate from the negative effect of the break up and let you start strategizing with regard to what you should do next. Also, your ex needs time to decompress and spend some time on their own.

If you begin to communicate with him or her too soon, they will mentally not be ready for it and you will push them away from you. Not contacting your ex for a while will also work in your favor because your ex will perceive you as a person who can deal with the current state of your relationship. The last thing you want is to do is come across as needy and desperate.

* Ok, now it's time to re-establish contact with your ex. At this stage, it's important to stay calm and go with the flow. Don't push and pressure him or her to start discussing the subject of getting back together. You need to become friends again and be completely comfortable with each other. When the time comes for you to discuss the possibility of reconciling, your ex will be far more open to doing so.