Learning how to talk dirty can be a fulfilling and rewarding journey that the two of you (you and your man) can share together. However, it'll only work if the two of you have a solid foundation by learning how to talk dirty the right way. Many times, when a woman tries to learn how to talk dirty without guidelines or a reference book feel as though they should turn into Jenna Jameson overnight.

Fortunately, I have listed 3 simple steps that will get you on your way to learning how to talk dirty in a fun, easy way with no pressure to perform. Trust me, your man will love you for it, and will appreciate you more and more.

Step 1: Shopping For Dirty Talk Phrases

The very first thing you'll want to do when learning how to talk dirty is to shop around. This means looking around for dirty talk examples and dirty talk phrases that you're comfortable with and can relate to. You should know right now that not every dirty talk phrase and dirty talk example will feel right to you. Discard these, and use what you feel comfortable with.

Learning how to talk dirty to your man means finding out things about your man such as his unique sex drive, his likes and dislikes, and what turns him on.

You might like to take notes on what you find from books, the internet and other media, as well as what you can uncover from your man. In the first step to learning how to talk dirty, you actually don't have to talk dirty at all. You simply need to find what your man will respond positively to, and what you're comfortable with. No need to rush into it.

Step 2: Tapping Into Your Dirty Essence

The next step is tap into what'll really get your man going. Your dirty essence. Make it almost a spiritual habit to take time out once a day to work on this. This means practising dirty talk while talking to yourself in the mirror, masturbating, or even into a video camera which you can watch later and review. Maybe even all three. This will really amp up your dirty essence and get your sexuality going places you didn't even know it could go.

Make a commitment where you work on this for 30 days, and keep track of your progress once a day. This may seem like a lot of work, but trust me when I say that it will pay off big time in the long run. Besides, masturbating every day for a month doesn't seem too bad.

Step 3: Showtime

The final step is to use all you've learned and bring your dirty essence out to play.

This is where things will get really exciting for you and your man. When fully cultivated as you will have done in the last step, your dirty essence will work as an alter-ego that will only come out in the bedroom. Not only will it please your man, but it most certainly will please you as well.

If you use this 3 step process to learn how to talk dirty, I guarantee that you'll see long term changes in your life, even outside of your sex life. The wonderful thing about this process is you can run through it as quickly or as slowly as you like, as it's all about working within your comfort levels, which is very important when learning how to talk dirty to your man.

Author's Bio: 

Natasha Naomi is a long time writer for women's magazines. She primarily focuses on sexuality and romance. She has worked exclusively with Devian Dey to bring you Dirty Dialogue: Dirty Talk Phrases. She invites you to view a few free pdfs all about talking dirty at http://www.scribd.com/Dirty%20Talk%20Phrases.