3 Ways to Get Him Back

There is no doubt, relationships are a very complicated matter. Does he really love me and if not, why? This is just one of the many questions, wandering in our minds. But the real drama comes once after the relationship is over. So, next time when you get dumped, don cry your eyes out as you always do. Better channel your anger into motivation to fix things. Even if it's only so that you will be the one to dump him after.. Here are 3 smart ways to get him back.

1.Give him some spacer
Calling him to cry over the phone absolutely forbidden. Let him take his time away peacefully. This way, the chance of him missing you is much bigger. Forget about popping up “suddenly” in your favourite night club or restaurant. It is no accident to come across your Ex in a place, you used to go together to. Everyone knows it. Don't send him messages in Facebook or Skype. Go to a vacation if you can. Anything you can do to stay away from him – do it. If he calls you, politely decline any offer to see each other. Pretend you are busy at the moment and have another appointment later on today .. and the day after. Do that at least three times, before you agree to meet him.

2.Reignite the magicr
Now that some time has passed, it is time to reignite the magic. Finally it comes the time to be more pro-active. Buy a new dress in his favourite colour and invite your girlfriends for a night out. Go clubbing, have fun, and later in the night you might actually stop by to his favourite place. In case he isn't the party type guy, you can go to an event he is most likely to go to. If you want to go more extreme, you can find a date to make him jealous, but don't go over the top. The best you can do, is ask a close friend of yours to go out. This way you will be in a male company in case you meet him, and you won't have to suffer trough a man you don't like, hitting on you all night.

3.Make sure he knows, you have moved on
Every human on this planet enjoys being adored and wanted. However, sometimes this makes things a bit boring, if not a completely yawn. When you know somebody loves you and will do anything for you, you begin playing with his or her feelings, without even realising, just to make things more interesting. So, tell all the people you both know, that you've moved on and have a crush on someone else now. Or even better, make your friends claim it. It will look much more realistic this way.

So, when you have done everything by the book, by following those 3 ways to get him back, you should succeed. And if not, it means he doesn't worth anyway. In this case, repeat step 3, but this time for real.