Our internal relationship is the material that we use to create our reality. If you are experiencing "commitment issues" in your outer world, the place to look to transform that is in your inner world.

1. Make the Choice

Sometimes we are afraid to make a choice so we sit on the fence and wait for a sign from the Divine. The problem here is that most of the time we are in fear, so we can't "see" or "hear" the sign from the Divine. Start with the commitment to yourself. To listen to yourself, to love yourself, and to be aware.

2. It's Not You, It's Me

Every situation is an opportunity for you to become closer to the Divine. Every situation is an opportunity for you to become more aware and closer to the Divine inside of you. In difficult situations this can be a tough ideal to ingest. What is holding you back from accepting these two facts? That's where the growth is located.

3. I'm So Mad I Could Bark

Anger is a major indication that I'm in fear. It is a way of me "doing something" about the fear without really "doing something" about the fear. A long time ago, I made the commitment to release the deep anger inside of me and to love myself. Do I get mad? Of course I do. Does it last for days? No! When I notice an emotion that is conditional in nature, I pause and renew my commitment to loving myself.

If you would like to use this article on your website or in your own e-newsletter, please reprint in its entirety and include the following information: Copyright © 2008 Jennifer Urezzio, Jennifer Urezzio, is an intuitive healer and founder of Blooming Grove and Know Soul's Language. She believes the key to your happiness and success is already inside of you waiting for acceptance. (Including the contact information at the end), and you please send me a copy or link to your reprint to info@bloominggrove.net. If you need a photo for the reprint, go to www.bloominggrove.net/media. Thanks!
This article can be reprinted freely online, as long as the entire article and this resource box are included.

Author's Bio: 

Jennifer Urezzio is a master intuitive and the founder and spiritual director of Know Soul’s Language. Soul Language is a way to consciously connect with your Soul that was received through Divine Guidance. Understanding your Soul Languages allows you to access your own Soul’s guidance to accept your value, be more confident, have more impact and grow into a stronger leader.