Has your marriage turned stale and dead? Countless marriages start off full of passion and happiness but over time the once bright light starts fading into a dim and distant passion. Most of the time we don't even notice that its happening until you wake up one day 20 years later and realize that your relationship is nothing more than an "arrangement" and that there is little more to it than the formalities of life. The real question that you have to answer if you want to re-ignite that fire in your life is whether you still love your husband or wife.

We all deserve to be happy and fulfilled in all areas of life and if your relationship are rubbish then your life will be rubbish. Living with someone that you no longer love is painful and is guaranteed to bring you a life of misery. So, what can you do if your relationship is in this bad place? Here are 3 ideas that will help you.

1. Counseling
Getting marriage counseling can be a great step forward. It will help you to identify the main issues in your relationship and help you work through them. Finding and focusing on those things that caused you to fall in love in the first place can be a very powerful way to re-ignite your relationship.

2. Get Away
As simple as it sounds, getting out of your daily routine and out of your daily environment can help you to see things in a different light again. Most of the time we are so caught up in the rush of daily life that we don's take time for each other. Getting away alone can be a great way to do this and to talk about things again.

3. Call It The Day
As hard as it may be to admit, some relationships are at a point where they cannot be fixed. Maybe just one person in the relationship is still interested in which case its probably better to end the relationship. There is nothing noble in staying together for someone else's sake. Its your happiness and you need to take responsibility for it.

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