5 Easy Sex Moves for Hot Results

It happens to everyone: sex becomes routine or passionless. It doesn’t have to be that way! In fact, it’s easy to get that tingle back if you try easy ideas to generate new excitement.

1. Sex 911. That’s right, you can declare a “sexual emergency.” Text your partner and tell them that you’re burning for sex ASAP and only they can put out the fire. Send one text that says, “Something’s burning!” The next: “It’s me!” The next: “Put out the fire ASAP!” Humor can be a fun way to initiate sex. It doesn’t hurt to tease your partner if you keep it light.

2. Use a little display of affection in public. Whisper something naughty in your partner’s ear at the grocery store checkout line. Fondle them while you’re trapped in a traffic jam. Put your hand on their thigh during dinner with friends. Don’t go overboard or you may anger your partner.

3. Create a new role. If you are normally aggressive in bed, play a shy know-nothing that needs to be taught how to respond to your partner’s sexual advances. If you’re normally a little inhibited, turn yourself into your favorite sexually confident movie or TV star for the evening.

4. Put a little light on the subject. If you normally keep the lights off during sex, for goodness’ sake, turn them on! Looking at your partner’s body and letting your body be seen during sex is a big turn-on. If you feel bad about your body, either learn to accept yourself as-is, leave yourself covered up a little big (put a sheet over those dimpled thighs), or do something about it, like eating better or exercising.

5. Now watch. Keep your eyes open during sex. Watch your partner’s face as they respond to your moves. Watch your own body as your partner touches you. You’ll not only enjoy sex more, but you’ll feel closer to one another if you look into each other’s eyes during sex.

See? Good sex is much easier than you think!