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50 questions to ask someone to really get to know them

Written by Hasan Root

Topic: Self RealizationPublished November 12, 2018
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We often meet many people in our daily lives, without really being able to say that we know them well. Knowing someone's routine does not mean that you really know him. It often takes time to stop and talk to each other for more than five minutes. Same for a first date. Not always obvious what to ask as questions to truly satiate the person in front of you. There are classic questions, but after knowing what he/she does in life, where he/she comes from and what are his or her hobbies, what do you want to know? To seize a person, I propose fifty questions and if after that, you do not know the person in front of you, I do not know what to say to you. Also, you can follow this questions & answers site to improve the knowledge. 1. What do you think of at night when you go to bed?rn2. What is your favorite family party?rn3. Where do you feel the best?rn4. Who are you closest to in your family?rn5. Are you sure of what you want to do as a job in life?rn6. If you had to eat only one thing for a month, what would it be?rn7. Your dream job when you were young, what was it?rn8. Do you think you have children? (If yes how much?)rn9. Tell me one of your best childhood memories...rn10. And tell me one of your worst...rn11. Your ideal destination to go on a trip, what is it?rn12. Tell me the worst date you've ever hadrn13. If you had a day left to live, what would you do?rn14. What do you like most about your best friend?rn15. If you could change one thing at home (without necessarily being your physical) what would it be?rn16. Name me 3 movie characters / TV series that describe you perfectly...rn17. Do you like it when you are told a compliment or do you become awkward every time?rn18. Who is your favorite band/artist of all time?rn19. Do you believe in love at first sight?rn20. Have you ever been in love? How many times?rn21. How are you when you are in pain of love?rn22. What do you really like about someone?rn23. What turns you off automatically?rn24. What would you like to accomplish one day?rn25. And what prevents you from starting to realize it today?rn26. If money did not matter, what would you do in life?rn27. If you were going back to school, what would it be like?rn28. Do you like having regrets or remorse in life?rn29. The most beautiful place where you went is where?rn30. Do you believe in karma?rn31. What makes you different from others?rn32. What is your highest quality, according to you?rn33. How would your friends describe you?rn34. A movie you would listen to again and again, what would it be?rn35. If you find yourself in the shoes of a guy (or a girl) for a week, what would you do?rn36. If you had no embarrassment, what would you do?rn37. Do you believe in soul mates?rn38. What do you like most about your home?rn39. What do you like most about you that is not your physical?rn40. Tell me your worst brush (or your top 3, if you have too much)?rn41. A big craze that you did in your life, what is it?rn42. On what do you know that you need to improve yourself in life?rn43. How complicated would your life be if you took away your cell phone?rn44. What's your favorite joke?rn45. Do you believe in life after death, life on another planet and destiny?rn46. What do you want to ask the opposite sex often, but do not you dare? (And why?)rn47. What are you missing from high school?rn48. Why did you cry last time?rn49. If you are given a week off live , what are you doing?rn50. If you could come back at any time in your life, not to change something, but to appreciate the moment, when would it be?

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