When we embark ourselves in marriage, we embark ourselves in the most meaningful partnership of our lives.
Like all relationships, this partnership requires a continuous and mutual exchange of energy and, because of the nature and depth of emotions involved, communication and choices based on ...When we embark ourselves in marriage, we embark ourselves in the most meaningful partnership of our lives.
Like all relationships, this partnership requires a continuous and mutual exchange of energy and, because of the nature and depth of emotions involved, communication and choices based on the truth and integrity of both parties.
And like with all partnerships, we shouldn¡¦t leave it fate to make out of it something worth-while. Since we are investing all what we are, all what we have and all our dreams and hopes, we need to work on it in order to make it not just something that happens but a creation of our own design.

I would like to encourage you to think different alternatives to your married life; look at your past history, where you can find examples of the things that you have done or the way you have responded to your previous relationships, according to the different requirements, expectations or demands at the time.
If you would like to challenge yourself to look at your life from a different perspective and decide what choices are the most effective and the most fulfilling, with the clarity of the truth behind your choices, you will learn to create a life that reflects more what you really want to accomplish rather than what society or your environment dictates.

As you do this, you create clarity and become empowered: not only then you will have learnt from the past but you will be able to make out of your marriage a completely and anew relationship. Since you are not any more the single individual who lived your past experiences but you are now one half of a future, more supported and protected companion, this will create new responsibilities but potentially, with the love and support of your partner, a new freedom, a new possibility to achieving your full potential. The liberation of the energy that was trapped in the old you will allow you to use the renewed joy, hope and love to propel you and your loved one into a formidable and lasting partnership.
Because you are not alone any more.

If you were to think of your new partnership as an enterprise, you would find that love alone is not sufficient to set you for all you hope out of the relationship. But if you were to adopt the following 5 principles, you might find that, with a little bit of work and self-discipline, you can make your marriage last a lifetime and create worthwhile goals that will put you and your loved one in a winning position:

Vision, Success, Transition, Empowerment and Attraction.

VISION
Do you have a dream? Do you believe you can make it happen? Do you have a Vision?
You can¡¦t see the breath and width of your life if you only look down at the ground!

To create your VISION STRATEGY you will need to clarify your goals together and set up the steps to take you there. In order to do so,
„« Don¡¦t scatter your resources: focus on your goals.
„« Don¡¦t take time, money and energy for granted: use them wisely.
„« Don¡¦t wait for life to get better: work to make it so.
„« Don¡¦t give up on your dreams: persist until you achieve them.
„« Don¡¦t hesitate to ask for help: work together and know that if you can get there by yourself, the vision is just not big enough.

SUCCESS
Do you have a passion to succeed? Do you believe in yourselves strongly enough to get you there? How Successful do you feel?
Your life mirrors your intentions at all times: the Physical Universe never lies. Intend for fun and joy and open the gates to abundance.

To create your SUCCESS STRATEGY you will need to discover your hidden beliefs and blocks in your paths to success:
„« Don¡¦t merely keep your heads above the water: ride the waves.
„« Don¡¦t get tangled up in emotions: keep a perspective.
„« Don¡¦t dismiss your lot in life: use it to your advantage.
„« Don¡¦t isolate yourselves: create further supporting partnerships.
„« Stay in touch with other people¡¦s needs and provide for them.

TRANSITION
Are you going through changes? Are you yearning for new and exciting events in your life? Are you in Transition?
Assimilate the changes and spend little time resisting them: the struggle that is created simply delays your future joy.

To create your TRANSITION STRATEGY you will need to understand that change needs not be so painful or scary:

„« You may find your world is falling apart: stay true to yourselves.
„« You may find change overwhelming: give yourselves extreme self-care.
„« You may fear what your lives may transform into: listen to your intuitions.
„« You may try to move into your new lives with your old patterns: but in order to achieve different results you will need to apply different strategies!

EMPOWERMENT
Are you in charge of your inner power? Are you in the driving seat of your lives? How Powerful do you feel?
Gratitude opens the heart: appreciate and acknowledge this person in your new life and what you have already accomplished. Accept and love yourselves as you are today.

To create your EMPOWERMENT STRATEGY you will need to disclose your limiting self-beliefs and replace them with new and empowering ones:
„« Don¡¦t give up in the face of difficulties: find the gem in them. It will bring you closer.
„« Don¡¦t hope for a different life: work together to change what you don¡¦t like.
„« Don¡¦t struggle with life events: learn your lesson and move on.
„« Don¡¦t fight: surround yourselves with supporting people and ask for perspective. Then, find a middle common ground.
„« Don¡¦t put yourselves down: accept and love who you are.

ATTRACTION
Do you feel attractive? (External beauty may be a gift but we all can be attractive) Do you consistently attract what you wish for? How attractive do you feel?

Creating magic in your life is simply going back home: who you were when you were a child, open to experience everything life had to give and trustful that you were looked after. Heal the toxic emotions of your past in order to create a new beginning.

To create your ATTRACTION STRATEGY you will need to devise it and magnetize it through the power of intention:

„« Don¡¥t focus only on the way you look: work to become charming and charismatic to each other.
„« Don¡¦t push yourselves to the limit: create balanced lives.
„« Don¡¦t be loners: build loving and supportive relationships as well as the one you both share.
„« Don¡¦t focus just on your own needs: share your attention and energy from your heart with your partner.
„« Don¡¦t drain your partner with your sorrows: be light and fun to be with.

Author's Bio: 

Ana has a master¡¦s degree in Education and Languages. She is a Coach U CTP graduated Life and Business Coach and has Management qualifications with the British Institute of Management.
Ana is a Reiki Master and a Spiritual Mentor. She has studied the Metamorphic Technique Universal Principles with its founder, Gaston St. Pierre. She holds qualifications in Character Analysis and Graphology with the British School of Yoga and Nutrition with the School of Natural Health Sciences (UK). She is member of the Peninsula Toastmasters Chapter in Cape Town holding the position of Vice-president of Education and is currently studying a PhD in Metaphysical Sciences with the University of Metaphysics and Sedona.
Focusing on the areas of Health and Beauty as a reflection of the individual¡¦s Inner Harmony, Personal Development as a path to self-empowerment and Holistic Relationships, Ana understands that all relationships start with your own. Her passion is to inspire others to claim their own power, clarify their dreams and create strategies to succeed.