"By being clear about what you want and no longer contradicting it with opposing thoughts, you will enable the Laws of the Universe to do their work, and you will not feel a need to offer so much action to compensate for inappropriate thought. By offering deliberate thought, you will harness the power of the Universe, and it will require far less time for you to accomplish much, much more" - The Law of Attraction by Esther and Jerry Hicks

The first place I start with my clients when they want to start manifesting their dream of finding a soul mate is in discovering exactly what it is they want, and noticing their likes and dislikes. You have to know what you want before you can find it…

So begin here. Know what you want... what makes you feel good? What do you love? What do you like to do? Sometimes we get so busy doing for others, we forget to do what makes us happy.

It's impossible to create and manifest what you want in life if you're only taking care of everyone else's needs and none of your own.

Sit down with a pen and paper and really take some time to write down the things you love to do and then try to start finding ways to incorporate them into your life. The law of attraction works best when we're happy and joyful already... then manifesting a soul mate is a breeze, because you’re already living a great life.

Include what you want in a relationship and a soul mate… and most importantly, how you want to feel when you’re with him.

Visualize your vision... once you've discovered your likes and dislikes, you can start creating a vision for what your ideal life would look like. Write it down, make a vision board with wonderful pictures of what you would like to bring into your life, or just close your eyes and visualize what you desire.

Any and all of these things will help imprint your subconscious with your desires and the life you want to live... and once your subconscious believes it, the miracles start happening faster than you can imagine.

Treat yourself lovingly along the way... be patient with yourself as you start this journey. We're all doing the very best we can at every moment, and that includes you. Take care of your body, drink plenty of water, treat yourself with the respect and kindness you would offer those you love. Treat yourself as you would want your soul mate to treat you. When we're physically exhausted or not eating well or sleeping enough, it's impossible to deliberately create our lives. We go into default mode and start reacting to life's events, instead of being conscious creators.

Remember, you are a powerful creator. You can become the person you want to be, and live the life you desire, but it all starts with your taking care of yourself and putting attention on what you want to bring into your life. Then you can start the process of attracting all the wonderful things you deserve in life… including your soul mate.


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