Gift Wrapped (for Women)

Time for Exercise: one to two hours

Properties Required: clay and paints


  1. With clay, papier mâché, or simple play-dough form a likeness of your yoni (Sanskrit for vagina).
  2. Paint your yoni with stunning colors and symbols.
  3. Wrap it beautifully.
  4. During one of your sacred loving times, present it to your lover as an expression of your love and commitment.
  5. Swear an oath to your lover that if you ever decide to pursue sex outside your relationship, you will remove the sacred yoni from its display in your bedroom.
  6. Show your man how much you love him by taking his real lingam into your real yoni, gift-wrapping it in your desire.

Excerpted from the book Sensual Love Secrets for Couples: The Four Freedoms of Body, Mind, Heart and Soul, by Al Link and Pala Copeland, Llewellyn, 2007

Author's Bio: 

Al Link and Pala Copeland own and operate 4 Freedoms Relationship Tantra. They regularly host lover’s romantic weekends near Ottawa Canada, and weeklong retreats in exotic locations. For more information call toll free from Canada or USA: 1-800-684-5308 International long distance: 1-819-689-5308. Visit their websites, and their blog or send email: They have four books published including Soul Sex: Tantra for Two, New Page, 2003; The Complete Idiot's Guide to Supercharged Kama Sutra, Penguin, 2007; Sensual Love Secrets for Couples: The Four Freedoms Body, Heart, Mind and Soul, Llewellyn 2007; Tantra Step by Step: 28 Days to Ecstasy, Llewellyn 2007.