I have struggled for years with my self imposed restrictions and self doubt. Wondered what my true path was to be. I have set out on many journeys and discovered that part way down the trail, the desire to see it through dissipated and I lost interest.

The last couple years as I have worked hard to define and really discover what my inner truth and Divinely inspired dreams were to be. This has lead me to the realization that whatever I want, as long as it doesn’t hurt another, can be and is mine. When I stress out that a job is too big for me, it really becomes too big. When I focus on my true desires they just happen in my life, without any concentrated effort or pre-planning. I don’t mean that I don’t lay the groundwork, but often in the planning, over planning, I will let concerns and possible problems get in the way with the clear vision of success. The main focus should be on the outcome, not on the obstacles in the path. The event can take place without us knowing how it will happen.

Once the energies have started to flow, it really becomes effortless to bring good things into our lives. Once all the internal roadblocks have been removed the energy flows freely and things just happen. It sound simple, and it really is. When you compare it to the struggle we put ourselves through worrying about what could go wrong, it feels like magic to let and accept the good in life.

Once you find it, you can’t just turn on the “good things” tap and sit back and reap all the rewards. You have to stay connected to the Source. It takes practice to keep the energy flowing. Each day we need to deal with the obstacles, but always keep our vision on our desired outcome. These obstacles often help us to fine tune our goals and recognise where our visioning is out of focus. So as we are thankful for the good things, be thankful for these insights as well.

You need a continuous connection, which sounds like a lot of work, but it gets easier, and becomes part of your normal way of being. When you struggle with an aspect of your life, ask yourself “What am I resisting, how can I change this to the greatest good of all concerned?” Deal with the issue in a positive and loving way, then go back, revisit and focus on the outcome,

Meditation is a great way to spend time discovering your true self and what your true intention may be. It is a wonderful way to keep tuned in to your inner voice. When you learn how to access this inner state of being, you can readily go inside whenever you need to, and refocus on the true dream you have for your life.

Author's Bio: 

Arlana is the owner of Crystal Vision Image and Insight, which was founded over 15 years ago. She currently resides in Red Deer, Alberta. Her diverse educational background and practical work experience includes advertising, fashion design, merchandising, interior decorating and psychology. In the early 1980’s she studied Fashion Design at Fullerton College in California where she won an award for excellence. She went on to work as an assistant clothing designer while furthering her studies in art, color and design. She became a certified Image Consultant in 1991 in California and certified again later the same year in Canada.

Her training and experience spans the entire spectrum of the fashion chain: from manufacturing to retail sales and management, skin care and makeup application, to personalized high end wardrobe consulting. Her art background has given her an appreciation and understanding of color, line and design that has been an invaluable asset to her in the development of her business. These studies flowed naturally into her training in interior decorating.

Her interests in alternative healing and holistic therapies brought her to realize the role that the mind, body, soul connection plays in helping to project a positive and dynamic image. She both studies and practices different aspects of energy healing, color therapy, yoga and tai chi. She has also completed courses in Thought Field Therapy, Psychotherapy and Parapsychology.

Arlana finds great joy in her work helping women to succeed. She has started and run many womens success groups which include meditation and self motivation practices. She has since founded Goddess Wisdom and offers workshops to help women recognise and embrace thier feminine spirit.