No matter what your emotions tell you to do, you have to end it first.

If you want to have ANY chance of having things work out in the long run, then you need to take control of the situation, and break up with her.

From this position, you will then be able to see things more clearly, and she will be about 100 times more likely to want to work things out with you.

If you really want to increase your chances of having things work out, then you should also start dating other women as well.

But let's not talk too much about that, because I'm already in the danger zone here.

If you take the time to think about it, you'll realize that breaking up with her first is the best possible thing you can do.

As you've heard me say quite a few times, it's important to give a woman the gift of missing you.

Never is it more important than in one of these situations.

I know, this is a damn hard thing to do when you're in the heat of the moment... but if you don't do it, you'll probably wind up with her leaving... and you feeling that lame powerless feeling that I described earlier.

Ok, so to wrap, let me talk about one more thing...

As I mentioned before, the real thing that causes women to leave comes down to the man in her life not understanding attraction and how to make her feel it for him.

And, as I mentioned, no woman is ever going to tell this to you.

Instead, she's just going to leave.

When I first started learning all of this stuff about how to be successful with women and dating, I had no idea that I would wind up solving the mystery of why women leave men.

I was only looking for the answer to how to get a woman in the first place... I never even thought about keeping one once I got her...

But now I realize that this particular topic usually winds up being the most important one, because once you find that amazing woman, and get something good going, you certainly don't want to lose her.

And when you find yourself in the situation, and you realize that the woman you have is about to leave... you would basically do anything to stop it.

Of course, at that point it's usually too late to do anything... which sucks.

So one of the most important things you can do right now in your life is to learn how and why women feel attraction for some men... and how to make women feel it for you.

And what's the best way to do it?

I have a couple of ideas...

I'm the only person I know of in the history of the planet who has designed an entire program around how to make women feel attraction for you, then digitally recorded it on CD and DVD so you can save yourself several years of trial and error... not to mention hundreds or thousands of hours of study and research.

Yes, that's right... it's as close to a "miracle cure" as you're going to get, dude.

Author's Bio: 

Double Your Dating - What Every Man Should Know About How To Be Successful With Women. David DeAngelo will show you the secrets that most men will never know about women. Improve your dating with David's dating tips and dating advice.