Why do you need a Cheating Boyfriend Test? Presumably you suspect that your boyfriend is up to no good because you've already picked up on some warning signs.

Typical signs of a cheating boyfriend include changes in his personal behaviour, changes in his online behaviour and changes in the way he's using his cell phone.

Well, assuming you have good grounds for suspicion, the first thing you need to do is to CONFRONT HIM. Sounds scary? Well that's quite natural. But you still need to do it.

Here are some direct questions you could ask him. You could ask him just one, some or all of them:

1. Do you keep in touch with any of your ex girlfriends?

2. Do you have a close personal friend who's female?

3. Do you spend a lot of time with any other females at work?

4. Do you discuss personal things with another female, say at work or an old female friend?

5. Do you think or fantasise about another female, other than me?

6. Is there anyone else who makes you feel better than I do?

7. Do you secretly wish you were with someone else?

8. Do you discuss significant events with any other female (who's not related) before me?

9. What would you do if another female started flirting with you?

10. Have you ever been unfaithful to me?

11. How do you feel about answering my Cheating Boyfriend Test?

The secret to getting quick results and finding out whether you've got a cheating boyfriend is to be able to detect whether he's telling you truth or not. You can do that by paying close attention to his body language when he answers your questions.

Here are some things you need to pay close attention to in your Cheating Boyfriend Test:

**Does he have trouble maintaining eye contact?**

Look him straight in the eye when you ask him your questions and see if he does the same back when answering them. If he doesn't, that's a good indication that he has something to hide and that he could be lying to you.

Do his eyes wander? Some good liars will make it seem as if they're looking you in the eye when they're actually concentrating on your forehead. Another give away sign might be if his eyes are darting all over the place or if he's blinking a lot.

**Notice whether he looks uncomfortable, uneasy or nervous**

Is he fidgety or nervous? Is he not at ease? Is he acting a bit different to normal? Body language is a good tell tale sign when someone is tense and has something to hide. Telling lies is stressful and most people find it difficult to disguise their discomfort when lying.

**Notice whether he adopts a closed position**

A closed position such as crossed arms or crossed legs is often a subconscious way of putting up a barrier, which could be a way of hiding something.

**Notice his body movements**

Watch his hands. Are they fidgety or are his palms sweaty? Observe whether he puts his hand in front of his mouth when speaking. Does he start rubbing his nose? These are all signs that our bodies give off when we are lying.

**Notice his speech patterns**

Is he talking faster or slower than normal? Is he stuttering or talking in a different tone to normal? Does he start talking louder or even shouting when you ask a sensitive question?

Body language gives you some great clues but is not conclusive so you have to take all this into account and make your own judgement on whether you've got a cheating boyfriend. But if you ask the right questions, watch his reactions to them and listen to his answers you'll get a pretty good idea.

Then suppose he openly admits that he's been cheating on you. Are you prepared for that? You need to think carefully about that before starting your Cheating Boyfriend Test. There's a big emotional difference between suspecting that you've got a cheating boyfriend and actually knowing it.

Author's Bio: 

Relationship coaches Doug and Chris Young have attracted huge media attention in the UK since facing massive challenges 25 years into their marriage, overcoming them and coming out of it much stronger. They have created a free 8 part mini course passing on advice on understanding, coping with and surviving infidelity based on what they went through and how they dealt with it. This free course can be obtained from www.askdougandchris.com