Certainly you know the answer--the person who has been responsible for the life you live right now: YOU.
Everything about you is a result of your doing or not doing... Your income. Debt. Relationships. Health. Fitness level. Attitudes and behaviors.
But sometimes you convince yourself that external factors are the source of your failure, disappointment, and unhappiness.
External factors do not determine how you live. YOU are in complete control of the quality of your life.
If you're frustrated with any area in your life, then it's time to take a little inventory. Certainly there are wonderful things happening, whether it's your job, your romantic relationship, your children, your friends, or your income level. Your accomplishments are just as important as your missteps.
When you realize that you--and only you--create your experiences, you'll realize that you can un-create them and forge new experiences whenever you want.
You must take responsibility for your happiness and your unhappiness, your successes and your failures, your good times and your bad times.
Have unwavering faith in yourself, for good and bad. Make the decision to accept the fact that you create all your experiences. You will experience successes thanks to you, and you will experience pain, struggle, and strife thanks to you. Sounds a little strange, but accepting this level of responsibility is uniquely empowering. It means you can do, change, and be anything. Stumbling blocks become just that--little hills to hop over.
Take no less than 100% responsibility. Successful people take full responsibility for the thoughts they think, the images they visualize, and the actions they take. They don't waste their time and energy blaming and complaining. They evaluate their experiences and decide if they need to change them or not. They face the uncomfortable and take risks in order to create the life they want to live.
Stop complaining. Look at what you are complaining about. I'm fat. I'm tired. I can't get out of debt. I won't ever get a better job. I can't stand the relationship I have with my sister. I'll never find a soulmate in life. Really examine your complaints. More than likely you can do something about them. They are not about other people, other things, or other events. They are about YOU.
Make an immediate change. Are you unhappy about something that is happening right now? Make requests that will make it more desirable to you, or take the steps to change it yourself. Making a change might be uncomfortable for you. It might mean you have to put in more time, money, and effort. It might mean that someone gets upset about it, or makes you feel bad about your decision. It might be difficult to change or leave a situation, but staying put is your choice so why continue to complain?
You can either do something about it or not. It is your choice and you have responsibility for your choices.
Pay attention. Looking to others for help and guidance is helpful, but don't forget to stay tuned in to yourself--your behavior, attitude, and life experiences. Identify what's working and what isn't.
Face the truth and take action for the long term. You have to be willing to change your behavior if you want a different outcome. You have to be willing to take the risks necessary to get what you want. If you've already taken an initial step in the right direction, now's the time to plan additional steps to keep moving you forward, faster.
Commit to taking 100% responsibility for every aspect of your life. Decide to make changes, one step at a time. Once you start the process you'll discover it's much easier to get what you want by taking control of your thoughts, your visualizations, and your actions!
My mother was an accomplished pianist. My aunt was an international artist. I became a workaholic. I believed that the the creative gene passed me by. That's what I told my friends because that is what I believed.
I interned at an advertising agency where I could choose to be mentored by the creative team or the executive team. I chose the executive team because I believed I was not creative. I believed I would have to find my financial success in the executive world. 20 years later, I had become a frustrated, stressed out, corporate workaholic. Then I hired a Miracles Life Coach.
Long story short - I now make my living by being creative. I am an award winning photographer and a published author. I create my own products. I help others, YOU, create YOUR perfect life.
You can have this, too. Your success is about what goes on in your head! Learn how to get rid of limiting beliefs and stop self sabotage. Unleash the power within with daily affirmations for inner wisdom, inner balance and a course in miracles. Watch a miracle move at MiraclesLifeCoaching.com.
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