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A Destiny Decision

Written by Moreen DuFermont

Topic: Self RealizationPublished January 23, 2014
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A Destiny Decision

Decisions, decisions, decisions! Life is all about them.

A destiny decision to come full stop at a drawbridge can actually save your life; however, when you think about it, all decisions are really destiny decisions in that it is truly impossible for any one thing to occur in isolation. Any and every moment feeds into the outcome of the next and continually creates a domino effect rippling causal influences beyond our awareness. It happens every day, everywhere and all the time!

Essentially we make decisions both by acting on as well as not acting on something. For example, if you’re willing to sell out on your dreams, your passions and life force, than ultimately you’re really selling out on yourself. To follow your dreams and passions is to declare that you honor yourself, your life force. With that said, it is wise to think of every decision as a destiny decision. If you indiscriminately sacrifice yourself by spending unnecessary energy and become consumed with distractions, then you’ll have little to nothing left for yourself or to give to others. When you honor your life, no matter what you are doing, and doing it from your heart you’ll reap much happiness as you move toward your destiny, one decision at a time. Your will, courage, dedication and self-love are all instrumental to guiding your decisional process.

Thinking from an All Sums possibility means thinking ‘As if’ You Have Nothing, so that you can act as if You Have Nothing To Lose! If it were your last week or day here on this earth, what would you be willing to risk in return for your truest desire/ reward? What would you gladly give away today so you could lighten your load and enjoy your life? By all means please let this question take you wherever it leads! Allow yourself to be in this mindset for the moment. Perhaps you would freely give up your worries, disappointments, resentments, hurts and consider releasing (all of) your losses. You know that you can’t take them with you so it may be wise to begin practicing this now.

Particularly, those who are parents, teachers or child-care givers know that children master the art of living in the moment. Most children make spontaneous decisions that come into their hearts because they know what their feelings are, good, bad or indifferent. Children have a way of naturally embracing and experiencing happiness. They thoroughly feel it. This is the soul’s desire that expresses what it needs. With the slightest nudge it tells us all how to realign with where we are, what we’re doing and where we’re going.

Have you ever been lost and suddenly had to decide whether to go right or left? Without the roadmap or GPS on hand, you would have no other choice but to rely on your gut to decide. In effect, it’s quite the destiny decision, literally and figuratively speaking. Of course, this is just the prototypical metaphor that illustrates the value of trusting your implicit guidance. It is what occurs constantly throughout any given day.

Our Soul instantaneously moves us, as necessary, when we listen to our heart. When the heart speaks directly and clearly with Soul, every decision made is a destiny decision. Your heart may say something like, go ahead and say hello to the person in line next to you. It is then that your soul directs the impulse. Because your soul is infinitely wise, it does not need to have reason for doing something because it already knows that it is taking directive from the heart. This is where it all begins and where it all ends.

A Destiny Decision Is To Always live from your heart.

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About the Author

Moreen brings her authentic, intuitive presence into her practice and communicates on a soul-to-soul level.

NJ Licensed Social Worker (MSW).
She has worked in both clinical and non- clinical settings with individuals of all age. She is a Life Purpose and Career Coach (certified by The Life Purpose Institute) who helps others access the very best of themselves.

Moreen has additional training in Heart Centered Hypnotherapy, Neuro-linguistic Programming (NLP), Eye Movement Desensitization Reprocessing Level II), Masters’ level Reiki II and Parenting Education.

She is passionate about reading and writing metaphysical, and self-help literature.

Publications: “Self Trust, Self Care, Self Signature” Chapter 23 featured in The Confident Woman: Tapping Into Your Inner Power. Professional Woman Publishing, Edited by Linda Ellis Eastman 2013.

“Rebalance Your Reality” featured in The Female Leader. Professional Woman Publishing, February 2014. Edited by Linda Ellis Eastman.

Co-author for Your Heart’s Magical Journey. A meditative, inspirational book dedicated to children of all ages. It uses the earth’s treasures as guides to foster self-knowledge, self-esteem while promoting health and balance. (In process)

Available for Free Lance writing.
Contact her at 732-754-8681
writemoreen@yahoo.com

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