Achieving A Strong Connection With A Woman - Learn The Secret PUA Routines!

There are several PUA routines that anyone can use to help achieve successful relationships with women. Let's discuss a few of them. There's nothing supernatural or magical about these routines - they're basically just stories that build you up into someone a woman wants to get to know better.

Don't worry - I'm not going to waste time rehashing some old, tired routines like "the cube" and "the jealous girlfriend." I'm going to go over a few of the newer routines here.

The Present Routine - You can have a lot of fun with this and get a lot of information that you can parlay into other conversation topics.

It's simple, really. Just approach a group of girls, and tell them that urgent business called your buddy out of town unexpectedly. Tell them he called you when he landed and asked you to get his girlfriend a birthday gift for him - he asked you to spend up to $200 and he'll pay you back when he gets back. The thing is, you don't know what to get her, and so you're hoping they'll help out.

What's beautiful about this strategy is that the girls, whatever they suggest, will be revealing information about themselves. If one of the girls, for instance, recommends that you get the girlfriend a gift certificate for a day at a spa, you've learned something crucial about the girl who made the suggestion - that she loves to be pampered. If a girl suggests expensive things, accessories like Prada and YSL, you can be pretty confident that she also likes those costly accessories. Think about how useful this information can be - especially if you're patient and work at it, getting the girls to give you advice beyond the obvious. What if a girl tells you to get the girlfriend a book of poetry by a particular author?

Dating for Dummies - A great icebreaker and way to get women to feel real comfortable around you, this has got to be one of the funniest PUA routines I've ever run into.

The first step is to go out and get a book on dating - one of the more insipid ones, with a title like "Dating for Dummies" or something really obvious like that.

Carry it with you whenever you think you might run into women to meet. Sit down and open it up to the chapter about pickup lines you should never, ever use. (Don't worry, there'll be a section like that.)

This is the fun part - go up to the girl you want to meet, and holding the book in front of you so she can see the title, start reading the bad pickup likes out loud. You can get an awful lot of mileage out of this approach - look for the really terrible lines like "Do you come here often, baby?" and "If I said you had a beautiful body, would you hold it against me?"

This ought to get you a few laughs - assuming she's got any sense of humor at all - and she'll let down her guard. You've got to have a good followup. Try this: look at her innocently and ask "So how'd I do? Which one worked the best?"

Okay, so these are just a couple of tried-and-true PUA routines that ought to help you get your foot in the door. Your purpose in meeting here, though, is to establish a rapport that you can use to ask her out or call her. To establish rapport, you have to open up wo her, share something personal about yourself. Try a meaningful story about an incident at work, or maybe something that happened at school. Women respond positively to men who open up to them personally, and you'll be able to feel the connection building.

There are some PUA routines that basically involve lying about who you are. That's not my style, and I hope it's not yours, and so those routines aren't included here. I'm sure you've got friends who are constantly telling stories about things they've done, places they've been, and the like. You've probably done many of the same things and been to loads of different places yourself - so think of incidents in your life and travels that illustrate the sort of great guy you are and take the time to make good stories of them!

Your own life and experiences are always the very best foundation on which to build your own PUA routines. Sometimes, a little help is called for. Get a feel for approaching women and using these routines on them - get some good experience in the fine art of being a PUA. At that point, you'll likely have some good original stories of your own that you can craft into good PUA routines.