Wouldn't it be nice if the world was full of guaranteed advice on how to get your ex boyfriend back? Everywhere you look there would be advice that is sure to work and your heart would be certain to be spared the pain of a final breakup. Unfortunately, there are very few guarantees in life.

You won't find much guaranteed advice on how to get your ex boyfriend back. The most accurate reason for this is that most advice doesn't work. You'll find all kinds of advice that tells you to follow your heart to get your boyfriend back. That's not the best option most of the time. In fact, it's rarely even what could remotely be considered good advice.

Why is that?

Because your heart is telling you to call him, write him love letters, play "your song" over and over again on every local radio station, and to text message the same message over and over. In other words, your heart is telling you to go into full blown stalker mode most of the time but both of you need that time apart in order to reassess the situation, gain perspective, and get a little distance from the heat of emotion. Give it to him and yourself by staying away and laying low.

Is this advice guaranteed? While it isn't exactly guaranteed that doesn't change the fact that it is highly effective at getting his attention if nothing else.

What else do you need to do get your ex boyfriend back?

You absolutely must have patience if you want to have any hope at all for getting back with your ex.

You have to think like a hunter with your sight set on your ex boyfriend. He needs to never know you're there or he'll bolt faster than you can say "gotcha."

You have to sit back and wait for the perfect moment to reveal yourself when you know he has nowhere to go in an attempt to escape.

More importantly, you want to make sure that when you do reveal yourself he will have no interests in heading for the hills.

Can it really be that simple?

Take comfort in the fact that this is only the first step in the process. The real news though is that even though this isn't guaranteed advice on how to get your ex boyfriend back it is advice that is effective time and time again.

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