How many times have you seen a very attractive girl, you wanted to ask her out but somehow you could not summon the courage to do it? The simple fact is that guys who are very successful with women are those who approach more women. While looks may help its not the determining factor. Confidence is much more important and confidence is something you will only get from practice and doing it over and over again.

The fear of rejection is a big deal. Nobody wants to be rejected and for guys it can be a big blow to the ego. Rejection is just part of the game however and one of the first and most important steps you need to take is to change your attitude towards this thing called "rejection".

When approaching girls you need to see it just as "practice" and not attach yourself to any specific outcome. If she likes you, great! If she does not like you, great! Its all he same and its all a numbers game. There are millions of attractive women and even if 90% of them say no to you, you will still be in a great position.

So, now the approach and getting an attractive girl's number. Its important that you don't approach her "cold" and just say "Hi, can I have your number?" - you need to establish rapport first. The easiest way to do this is to find something in common with her and then start talking. Start talking to her without any intentions of asking her out. Your approach needs to be very friendly (as in I want to be your friend) and non sexual. Women can sense a guy's intentions from a mile away and it will be written all over your face if you walk up to her with the intention of asking her out.

Once you strike up a conversation try wherever you can to make her laugh. Don't let the conversation go on for too long. As soon as you proven to her that you are not some weird creep, ask her in a "by the way" kind of way whether she's like to have coffee with you some time. Don't push her too hard but if she needs a bit of encouragement don't be afraid to do so. Then, take her number and wait a day or two before you make a date.

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Article by John C. Burrow - Please visit John's website for more infromation and advice.